We've all read them before. Inexperience Johns or some unfortunate Johns that TOFTT. Here's an example, she ain't got no reviews, "$240 hourly", sounded nice on the phone, showed up and looked nothing like pic in ad, ask for money upfront, went to bathroom for 15 mins, gave me something to sign, she talked to agency, asked me what I wanted, I say "let me take my shirt off", she says, that's prostitution and run off.

Now, I am just curious about the lives of these women. Apparently they know that they r escorts, and I highly doubt that their intentions are actual escorts. I am almost certain that they know that the Johns want a good time. Also, they probably did this more than once, probably many times, take money and leave withing 10 minutes of the session.

Just curious, what kinda lives these women live. They know that they r crooks. What do they do, just sit around, waiting for a call so they can do their trickery. If they do, its not like they have traffic, probably it will happen twice a month for an unfortunate John. And most of the times, its just $240 or $220 a session. They gotta get ready, look somewhat nice, find directions, invest time in gasoline, postpone their regular schedules, mentally prepare themselves for their trickery, mentally prepare themselves for their scripted fraudulent lines, and be mentally ready to look at a man that works hard for his money and trick him.

That to me seems like a person with no soul. I mean, that is measly money, in a month, lets say, they do it 2 times, and they gotta live their fake lives with that regret. I don't know, I'm just rambling about this, but I read reviews regularly, and its always a couple that r like this. I don't know, guess my question is, what kinda lifestyles these bitches lives? Thanks, give me your input so I can better understand these skanks.

I doubt that a smooth operation is limited to that many outcalls per skank. It can likely be 2 or more a night in some towns. That's not bad money, with the exception of the unknown here and that is what is the skanks take of the initial envelope.

The real answer to the broader questions is that there are two sorts of people in this world. Givers and Takers. Skanks as you refer to will fall into the Takers group, which contains a whole host of other people that have no problems what-so-ever of scamming others when given a chance.

Which one of the two groups above who finds a ladies purse with some money in it do you think makes all the efforts needed to return it to the rightful owner in tact? Enough said.

Almost every hobbyists who has been around for any length of time has been burned one time or another. It is that one time that turns on the light and keeps him from being scammed again.

Like the other poster suggested, they most likely do this more than a couple times a month and as for having a conscience....lol...are you serious here? They have NO conscience and aren't bothered by it in the least. More than likely, they are operating under the direction of a pimp or a biker bf with a meth habit.

This is only one of the reasons why TER provides such a valuable service. If one of us gets roped in and writes the appropriate review, the skank's job becomes slightly more difficult, although I've seen people write a rip-off review after one was already posted. I mean, what were they thinking?! LOL!

She only said thats prstitution and runs...there are some out there that the girl gets almost naked the guy is naked with a rageing hard on and then she splits with his money thats worse.

Maybe the john was thinking with his dick instead of his brain.

Maybe he didn't know about TER until after that happened.

Maybe there was a delay between the event and the reviews

There could be many reasons why there can be multiple bad reviews.

but the only thing you can depend on is that the laws of karmic responsibility are going to get them in the end.

And IMHO, that's the only thing that matters.

ROBS are not providers. They are petty thieves, just like a pickpocket or burglar. They have nothing to do with providing.

These women are talentless grifter wannabees who have chosen "johns" as their target, knowing that that their cheat is unlikely to lead to a police complaint. They bank on their targets being honest average mem who will do nothing about it.


HH

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..that would rather steal a dime than earn a dollar.  I used to know a dancer/hooker who went through her life constantly 'working an angle' or scamming people... even when, in the long run, it was to her disadvantage.   I think she enjoyed going to California where there were warrants out for her for some fraud charges along with a bunch of ignored traffic tickets.  It gave her a rush to avoid the cops for a few days.  Go figure.

MVR

If you have money to throw away then keep taking one for the team.

If you cannot afford to throw money away then you should see a well known lady such as myself.  I don't rip off anyone.

. . . why they do what they do, and it's all subjective.   Here's a completely different perspective:

Survival is a they key instinct of anyone in this world, and people aren't always born into great situations.  A lot of these girls that pull this kind of shit come from difficult backgrounds, broken homes, were abused.   They could be drug addicts.   They don't know any better.  Without any guidance they end up with the lowest common denominator and do what they do.  Sure, there are some true soul-less beings or psychopaths in this world but I think most criminals are a product of their environment.  They don't live "fake" lives, they just live the life they live.  If you grow up being around hustlers, drug dealers, criminals, that's all you know.  She's not gonna end up having a nice job like you might have.  The ROBs probably look at us with sheer contempt as well, so they can totally justify what they do.  They look at us like rich, fat bastards who have the balls to think they can fuck a chick just by paying them money, we are just as "low" in their eyes as we see them.   I could have grown up in a drug filled, criminally based home environment and turned into a hustler, working the angles, ripping of rich fat bastards.  It's a class war.  It's a war between the "haves" and the "have nots".

I don't like getting ripped off more than the next guy but I can understand how people end up doing what they are doing.  Unfortunately that's just the way life is, you play with the cards that are dealt to you.  Sure, there are stories of people who pull themselves up by their bootstraps and build a life by sheer will, but those stories are few and far between.  Most people don't have that kind of inner strength.  Imagine what life would be like for you if you didn't have the foundation that you had growing up.  

I'm not justifying anything, just making an observation, since you're asking how to better understand why they do this.

I've TOFTT 5 times in my career as a client.

1st time: Went great, had an awesome time. Me and that provider dont have sessions anymore, but we're really good friends now. I've help her out in need, and she help me out in need once.

2nd time: bait & switch, didn't know until the session was over.
3rd time: bait & switch, was same girl. We both just laughed it off.
4th time: bait & switch, was a provder I had seen before, We both just laughed it off also.
5th time: Almost got robbed, by a pimp.

After that I only providers I've seen before, or providers that have been confirmed legit by providers, or hobbyier i know.

But to answer your question, people like that could care less about your feelings, and how hard you work for your money.  Their main goal and objective is to make as much money as fast as possible, by AMN.

Even with well reviewed providers, if nobody I know personally hasn't heard of her i'm still a cautious.

Those are all valid reasons. Thanks for pointing them out.

A large majority of guys who use BP as their primary source for finding escorts, have never heard of TER, or think it's "too expensive" to join & would rather TOFTT... so these ldies continue to get away with their scams, as the guys don't review them. And even when they are reviewed on here, once again, most guys who use BP, do not check reviews... they see a hot pic & just call. These ladies are going on way more than 2 calls a month... possibly 2 or more per day in some cases.

What they don't realize, is that eventually their reputation will precede them... when in reality, it's sooo much easier to just provide good service, then go through all the dram of ripping someone off....some people will just never get it.

I found that the woman in question had previous reviews similar to my experience.   This has made me a big believer in TER & the review process.  It's not perfect but way better than trying to avoid all the scams out there on your own.