Found out today that I'm pregnant. Should I tell my clientele?  Don't want them to think I'm pushing them away or that my service has changed all of a sudden. Need them to be more gentle. Afraid they won't see me anymore if I tell them.

I will start by saying congrats. I know that alot of men love seeing a woman who is pregnant.WE just glow.  But even though most men are very gentle in this buiness and will be ok with it. There are a few who might not be so nice. I just worry that you and your baby would be in danger. I don't think that your regular clientele would be upset and not see you but new ones I would be very careful. I would definitely tell them about it and if you even have a hent of someone not liking it. Please don't see them. Having relations while you are pregnant is just fine. You can still be a little rough it will not hurt the baby. Actually toward the end it is very good. I helps to make you go into labor faster especially if you are overdue and want to get it over. Good luck to you. but please be careful.

If you need any advice whatsoever Please let me know I can help. I am a nurse by trade and I do still remember a little of my training.LOL

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Some people are interested in pregnant providers.  But you should definitely tell them.

You have a responsibility to the child that supercedes anything else, so you can't have someone jostling you about in the throes of passion.  It also wouldn't be fair to be restricting a clients' natural body movement and avoiding telling them why, hoping they won't mind.

Most men know that in the early stages of pregnancy, women can still have sexual intercourse, so if you tell them that you are still "safe" when the pregnancy isn't physically obvious yet, and that their experience will not suffer, if they are regulars, they shouldn't mind.  I myself would be sympathetic and more caring towards you and your need for the financial support, but that's just me.  If they are new to you, you may lose some opportunities, but the need to manage the physical activity has to take precedence.  

Also, it doesn't mean that you can't take care of them in other ways that they might find just as enticing.

Best wishes for you and your child.

When I got pregnant, I told my clients and posted it on another board, and I noticed an immediate dropoff. Its been that way even more so since I have had the baby and she's now 14 months old.

...Congratulations!

I'd be fine with it. My concern would be for you and your condition. You'd have to decide how you want the sessions to go.

Out of my regular clients, only about 10% left. 90% said, "Great! Even better!" or "Fine! Doesn't bother me!" And I picked up a few new ones by referral or word of mouth who really dig pregnant and/or lactating women. They are out there.
I only do FBSM though so there's not much of a danger factor in regard to the baby. If you are worried about that, you should stick to the regulars.

Congratulations!

I really don't care if a provider is pregnant if I can't tell. I don't want to envision, however, me with a provider and a baby between us. You do what you want with your body, but I'd feel lowdown if I knew I was with a soon-to-be mom just for thrills...call me a compassionate perv.

Congratulations! There is still a market for pregnant providers; although my personal experience has taught me that it's not a big as that of a non-pregnant provider. I would suggest holding off on telling your regular clients until you begin to show.

Wishing you lots of luck and good health. : )

XOXO,

Racquel OC

Talk to Noelle at daydreamsgirls.com. , she had a baby last fall.  She was a highly sought after lady.  Nothing like talking to someone who has gone down the same road.  Good luck to you and be healthy.

I can not remember the site address, but I have seen ads for pregnant providers. There are men out there who would like nothing better than make love with a full round lactating expecting woman.

I don't think that most your clients will care, but they should know.

The first couple of months you won't be showing, but towards the end (of course you will) be showing.

Remember some men do think this is HOTTTTT....

Good Luck,
Shaye

...please understand that I am not coming from any puritanical viewpoint here, but the risk of any STD permanently hurting the fetus in my opinion outweighs the potential gain of taking on any but the most trusted of clients.  Herpes is a good example in which it is a permanent annoyance for the mom or dad but bad for the baby.  Maybe I am an overprotective (or chauvanistic?) guy, but I would be VERY careful.  Can you stick to FB massage for the time being?  Also, watch out for DATY towards the end of the pregnancy (it's true!).  Talk to your doctor about risks though.  The entire life quality of the child will depend in part on these next few months.  Take your vitamins and be sure you are followed by a good ob/gyn.  Congratulations.

True, there ARE risk involved, but if you use proper protection the risks are decreased greatly. I have only heard of ONE provider contracting any type of STD during the three years that I've been around people in the adult industry...BTW: she let the client ride bare-back. If you have herpes or contract herpes, there is vertually no risk to your unborn baby.  The only inconvienience is the possibility of having to have the child through a cesarean vs. vaginal delivery.  But if you don't have any break-outs after your 32nd week...vaginal delivery is generally ok. : )

Regarding DATY, I have read a lot about it and have found no concrete evidence that it is a danger.  However, I myself, refrain from it just incase.

Wishing you all the best!

Racquel

My period was late. I am not pregnant and glad to know that.

before posting to the world that you are pregnant just because you're "late"

Just a suggestion....

to all the people that took the time to post for no reason in the long run.

Geez, you are late for a period and you think you are pregnant?  Welcome to the world.  Can't wait until you become perimenopausal.