Do you see him anyway? Gentlemen, Same question in reverse.

Any person seeking sex, is actively seeking bb-sex. Reason being, your libido has no idea what a condom is.

To each their own. A lot of people have wives, girlfriends, lovers, fuck buddies, and they're bound to have some kind of bbfs. The only difference is that in some instances you will know that he's engaging in bbfs and some other times you won't know that before hand. Knowing or not knowing this info doesn't change the way you will conduct yourself during a session, and by that I mean playing safe.  

If you are specifically talking about hobbyists who almost brag on the boards or reviews about engaging in bbfs, I would probably not see that person purely based on the mental exhaustion of having to deal with someone who will keep asking for bare back during the entire session. I take for granted than everyone is having some type of BB sex with someone in their lives. The question is: is their personal sex life going to affect your safe sex practices?  

I'm sure most providers will tell you here that they wouldn't , and also hobbyists may also say they wouldn't see a provider who does BB. The reality is that most people don't know the other person's personal sex life. Statistically speaking, a provider who does BB is more at risk than the average hobbyists who most likely has a handful of regular girls.  

I think what's really important is just to keep playing safe and assume everyone is having BB sex with someone in their personal lives. We are not here to judge, just to keep it safe for everyone in my opinion.

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To think that you're going to cut everyone out that partakes in BBFS is moronic. Everyone  at some point or another has had unprotected sex or has engaged in oral sex with someone who BB. Some people are married...have b/fs or g/fs...do porn or even have friends with benefits. You could be sucking your client off and feel all safe about it because he's not one of those "creepy" well known bbfs guys, but completely disregard the fact that he's most likely fucking his wife raw, who could in turn be cheating on him...there's always a risk. If you're worried? Then where a condom! If you're narotic worried then there's always CBJ.  
The reason I hate this topic so much is because people get so extreme about it.. On one end you have these predator hobbiest who try to weasel they're way into a girls vagina dispite her reluctance and on the other end you have this holier than thou group passing judgement on what others do with their own bodies!  
I know plenty of girls and guys that practice BBFS..whether they do it in the hobby or out of the hobby..I always appreciate their honesty as it allows me the ability to choose whether or not I want to expose myself to that..There's this one client that sticks out to me..he tried, I declined and he couldn't finish. Later to find out that he practices BBFS for basically all of his sessions. He still tries to see me and I say no..not because I'm scared to catch something but because I can not give him that level of intimacy he requires to enjoy himself..he's going to leave frustrated and ill be left feeling disrespected...so what's the point?  
I've also had situations in the past where I've performed duos with other providers who had never mentioned their involvement with offering BB as a service. That really pissed me off. I think it should be a common courtesy to a fellow provider to be honest about something like that. Especially when I'm slurping up your juices like a Capri Sun!  
At the end of the day..i could care less if you're fucking your SO raw, or if you occasionally have a drink to many and forget to tell the cute bartender to suit up...or if you down right said fuck it, the connection during this session is epic!  
The only time i get hesitant is when BBFS is being performed by a person multiple times a week with continuously different partners.  I think that should warrant a heads up, and just like I won't judge you for partaking in that..please don't hold it against me if I decide to pass...sometimes I don't though.

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There's a local lady, very beautiful, very popular, very well reviewed.  However, one reason she is so popular is because, for an extra $100, she will bareback with a client.  I love to eat pussy, but really don't want another man's cum in my mouth, so sadly, I must avoid her.

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Hey, a BBFS discussion without everybody going off the deep end. Let's see how long that lasts.

I know they are telling the truth because they swear on the lives of their children. lol

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Good lord this topic is getting tiresome..

I've only had three sessions with BBFS.  Two of them with the same regular (she wanted to do BBFS because, as she said, felt comfortable with me and trusted me).   The other time was with a young skinny hottie who was just starting out.  The latex free condom was so damn tight and constricting that nothing was going to work.  She finally said  fuck it and away we went.

D.

There are many, many reasons why a client and a provider would agree to participate in BBFS. Many. None of those reasons are anyone else's business.  

But if you seriously think that BBFS within the hobby is a myth, you're sorely mistaken. There are reviews that consistently state providers offering/providing BBFS, and there are clients who ask for it on a regular basis

but any hooker who doesn't professionally offer bbfs could still be fucking anyone else in their personal life bareback.  

This is essentially the same as when clients are all "I wanna be your first of the day", which honestly just shows that despite being in the p4p game, you actually think that sex is gross and that women are sullied if they have sex "before" you.  

Also, since when does "woman has bbfs" mean that "man's cum ends up in next client's mouth"?  If you don't like the idea of another man's cum in your mouth, maybe you should stop kissing hookers too. More cum ends up there than it does in pussies

People are free to do what they want but I think it's naive to think there is little risk.  To the contrary I'm not sorely mistaken from the reviews I've read, which have been many.  

Erin, you have some good points...but...I'm sticking to my guns here.  If a provider barebacks with a client just before my appointment, doesn't take a shower, and I eat her out, the previous client's cum could very well leak into my mouth.  Now, of course I hope that everyone is showering and using mouthwash; if I find out a provider isn't doing that, I will no longer see her.  This doesn't mean that I think sex is gross.  It's just common "germ sense."  Also, my mother was once a nurse, so I probably have a higher level of awareness than the average person when it comes to the potential for unwanted infections.  I am perfectly aware that most people have a partner who they go "au natural" (bareback) with, but there's a big difference between that and barebacking with multiple partners in a given day.