So heres the thing I'm really new to this hobby. I kinda have this thing with condoms where I quickly lose interest when its on and what not. My ex was cool with it she was on the pill and on occasion even let me go inside her and it was the greatest feeling ever. Anyways we broke up a while back and I haven't had much luck with the ladies and have been kinda depressed lately so I have been looking into hobbying. 99.9 percent of the escorts I've asked have said they don't offer it but I found one. She's young and pretty, should I go for it. Cops or disease I'm highly considering it. I've done a lot of research on the subject and most say the same stuff that I'll catch AIDS and die or that she's banging 20 dudes a night and all of them are doing BB any way I'm looking for advice is there any one that's done BBFS and what was the experience and did you catch anything or just general advice on hobbying thx
I'll try to explain this without jumping all over you but just check out the thread below this one.
Would you come to a new place and play Russian Roulette? You don't know the "players", how many times they've played, who they've played with, etc. Sure, maybe 5 out of 6 turns you'll win, but watch out for that 6th time!!!! And, not knowing what "turn" you came in on just adds to the danger.
Not sure what the "odds" are in your situation, but needless to say, they are NOT in your favor. This hobby is great and asking a lady about BBFS is just crazy.
Do some do it?
Absolutely.
Do most of those that do advertise it?
No way, that would be business suicide. No better way to ensure you either don't get an appointment (if you ask before you meet with her) or you only get the one (if you ask her in person) than to ask about BBFS.
Why you would want to take that risk is beyond me. Even if you have no family or SO in your life to "pass things along to", why would you put your own health at risk like that?
So you have an "issue" with condoms. On rare occasions, I have the same problem. Depends on many circumstances whether or not it happens to me. Sometimes the condom is too small and cuts off the circulation, other times it's the lack of sensitivity, etc. When it does occur, I simply remove the condom and ask the lady (most of the time I do not even have to ask) to get me "up" again and we find a different way to enjoy ourselves. It happens.....no big deal.
Save the BBFS for those in your real life whom you plan on being together with in a serious relationship. Please, protect your health and the health of all of us here by continuing to use protection.
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Why would you want to risk your health??? Why would you want to risk "her" health!!! If you want to FUCK w/o a condom then go find yourself a GF....
Ridiculous!!! To the CUNTY who's offering BBFS-Go fuck yourself & please stop providing cuz your risking everyone's health!!! Ugh ugh ugh.....
Ridiculous!!! To the CUNTY who's offering BBFS-Go fuck yourself & please stop providing cuz your risking everyone's health!!! Ugh ugh ugh.....
... and want to expose yourself, and others to unsafe behavior.
The narcissist in me says go for it. as far as BBFS goes it feels better, and there are greatee health risks involved
I also have difficulty coming with a condom on so I often finish between her breasts, or in her mouth, or on her face, or between the butt cheeks, etc.
Just a little imagination and bottle of massage oil and you can really have a ball.
... I think he means cover-less throughout..
There are all kinds of way to enjoy a woman without a condom....
ever tried a female condom?
ba-doom
But seriously folks:
I did try it a couple of times with one gal.
it was generally OK, but two things stand out as not that great:
First, the time it takes her to install it as things heat up breaks up the rhythm a bit and secondly it felt a wee bit chilly in there. Maybe warming it up in a cup of warm water first would solve that problem.
Lastly, the visual effect is nothing to write home about.
It did feel nice, however.
HIV isn't the only thing you can catch. Herpes is making a big comeback and it only takes one BB session to catch it. Contrary to popular belief, you CAN catch it even is she is not having a visible outbreak.
Once you have it, you'll have it for life and you will have to have an awkward conversation with every partner you encounter from now on.
For a solution, you need to practice with different condom brands. Not all of them are created equal. I find the ones that are lubricated inside are a huge improvement over the standard latex ones. For instance try Trojan Pure XTC. Alternately try some of the ultra-thin brands that are out there new these days
read reviews and find providers that use the female condom (FC). Much different feeling and very enjoyable.
Do not fuck yourself to death BBFS.
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FC feels pretty good when it has some extra lube inside. You can also try putting some lube inside male condom. It might feel better.
has a looser area around the head. This can also help. 
http://www.safesense.com/CW_IEINSPIRALLL_P010info.shtml
Go for it!...since I couldn't care less what happens...
But if he does, it sullies the pool for all of us.
Think of it this way,
You can go BBFS for about an hour with a provider because you don't like condoms. Then catch AIDS, and then have no choice but to use a condom for the rest of your life, or else pass on a death sentence to someone else.
Don't be a moron.
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I'll save you from the Yelling and Screaming that everyone else is doing on this subject.
My Advice;
See this Girl with a Cover for a while. Get to know her for a while. Then when you're sure she's Good, then BBFS with her. I would not go BBFS on the first few Sessions. I've been going BBFS with my Girl for more than a year. No Issues or Problems. I know my Girl pretty well. Going BBFS is Great. Just be Careful and get to know her for a while before you attempt this. Is it Risky? Absolutely. If she's good then you'll have an Awesome Girl for your playtime needs.
I've never BBFS'ed with a client, even if I've know them for a while. You don't know who that person sleeps around with and what if she offers BBFS to her other clients and not tell you about it?
I've had many guys that say "But I'm clean!" Not worth it.
If you don't want to go BBFS that's fine. There are Risks if you go for this. It's a choice. Everyone Yelling and Screaming won't stop this Behavior. I chose to go BBFS with my Girl. I asked her first. I would Never Ever Force her to do this if she said No. I asked her and she said it was OK. If she wanted me to use a Cover, then I would. I've been seeing her for more than a year. Even if she wanted me to use a Cover all that time I would still see her. She's Super Sweet and so Adorable.
Just be careful who you BBFS with.
if you will be (are) the only one she does bbfs with. Be sure to ask her to be honest (that's important). If she says "Yes", then I would consider you one very lucky man and go for it! It is rare to find a provider as you describe. Be sure to give us an update in a few years. If we don't hear from you, we'll assume the worst.
with a female condom. For clients who don't want to wear a condom, I offer this as an option. Female Condoms are as safe as any male condom on the market and and feels like BBFS.
STDs are rampant and I would never risk sex without a barrier because you WILL eventually catch something. I am tested by the doctor weekly even though I use protection, it is required by Nevada law of legal brothels. About 1 in 4 or 1 in 6 ladies who come here to work fail the initial medical and must leave and be treated and clear before they can work so I know how rampant STDs are. The most common we see in the girls who initially fail their medical is Chlyamdia.
I don't get guys that want BBFS. A couple of years ago, there was a guy on Long Island that would call providers and ask for BBFS. Word got around that he possibly had several STD's (ick!).
Doing BBFS is like playing Russian roulette with your health
Doing BBFS is like playing Russian roulette with your health.
That's just Wrong. If a Guy has an STD and wants BBFS is totally Wrong. I would Never Ever put my Girl at Risk like that. She's too Nice for me to do her any Harm.
But that's just the thing- how would you know? Unless you've both been tested every month consistently for the past 6 months and live together in a hermetically sealed capsule, you have no idea what she's (or any of your other partners are) doing beyond your time together. And maybe she's the only person you ever have sex with, but unless the conditions above are met, you have no idea who she's doing!! Don't you get that?? "Nice" and "adorable" do not mean "chaste" and "completely honest". You're dangerous and you're endangering all of us. And so is she. And when she retires, Good Luck finding Another "Girl".
Doing BBFS is like playing Russian roulette with your health.
That's just Wrong. If a Guy has an STD and wants BBFS is totally Wrong. I would Never Ever put my Girl at Risk like that. She's too Nice for me to do her any Harm.
I've had no issues after more than a year. I know and accept the Risks involved with this. I would think after being in this Hobby for a while, I know what I'm doing.
but you would be wrong. Only we don't have to be as nice about it here as we do when you give lousy and downright dangerous advice on the Newbie board.
So somehow Yelling, Ranting and Raving is going to stop anyone from going BBFS?
The Original Poster asked advice about getting BBFS. I related my Experience about it. He wanted some tips on how to go about getting BBFS and I chimed in and gave him my Opinions and Advice. I know what the Risks are and accept them. So far after over a year I've had no problems or issues. At this point if there were any problems or issues I would have noticed them by now or even sooner. So far so good.
Are you saying you don't even get tested? You do realize that not all cases of STIs present symptoms, right?
So basically, you're having regular unprotected intercourse with someone who gets paid for sex, and you don't even get checked out. Fantastic.
I think he is just stupid. lol
A handful of sauna clubs offer BBFS. BBFS gangbang parties also regularly available. Parties require a recent STD test, clubs do not. No denying risk of STD exist but no one can really quantify what that risk actually is.
try a FC. Regular condoms really dull the sensitivity.
There's a Thrift Store near me that's giving them out for Free. Not sure if my Girl would use one. I know she won't like putting all that Latex inside of her.