Some people think Barry Bonds and Mark McGwire should have asterisks next to their names in the baseball record books if they used performance enhancing drugs.
How do providers feel about clients who use "performance enhancing drugs?" I don't mean guys who have a legitimate need, but the ones who take it so they can go a half dozen rounds with a woman and still have enough wood to drive a golf ball five hundred yards. Should providers put an asterisk next to their donations to indicate a wear-and-tear surcharge for guys who use a "performance enhancer" like Viagra?
It doesn't bother me. Use a pill or anything else you want. It doesn't bother me at all.
I look at it this way..you are paying for a service I will try my best to get you to your achievent. My only thing..don't make me give you a BJ for an hour and keep trying if it isn't happening (an ejacuation) then just stop.
IF any other way of achieving an O isn't working well then relax...its all in the head (and not the one between your legs)
Shane
I wasn't asking about being able to come. I was talking about being able to come, and staying hard and going again, and then coming, and staying hard, and the guy is furiously pounding away for an hour and a half. He's defintiely having a good time and will walk (or limp) away a happy man. But will you be able to move sometime in the next seven days after taking something like that?
And my second question, why is it objectionable for a man to ask you to stop a BJ if he's not going to come?
When he is on viagra for pe it is miserable for her.
There have been some previous threads on this and it seems that generally the women don't like that. If you take some "enhancers" just to keep hard for the whole session and want to pound the lady constantly, you probably won't be seeing her for a second time.
My two current steady ladies, one indie and one agency gal, both hate it when young guys who don't need ED drugs show up looking for an hour or two of "baseball bat" pounding sex. Asterisk? Well, these guys generally wind up on the "Do Not See" list and it has as much to do with their attitude as it does with the physical discomfort. Guys like this may be having themselves a great time but it is at the woman's expense.
The best sex is always a two way street.
I can't imagine these guys care but they are missing out on a lot of the enjoyment involved in just being with a beautiful woman when they decide to use a woman as a rubber fuck doll instead of treating her like a real live girl...
I'm pretty sure she meant that she'd RATHER have the guy stop demanding an hour-long BJ if the end is nowhere in sight.
And boy, I understand. I had one of those a few months ago and my jaw's still sore.
Damn! I thought this was really a post about Barry Bonds. Sigh.
The "Helper" that I use is an herbal supplement. I am 57 years old, and a little help is a good thing. I'm stll usually a one cup guy, but it helps with prolonging it to around 8-10 minutes rather than the 2-4 minutes that it would normally be. If we do go for a second round, I can still get good and hard, but if it's not going to happen, I try to recognize that the lady is probably starting to get uncomfortable, and I will let her know that I am usually, but not always, a single round kind of guy. As discussed here before, the orgasm doesn't need to happen for it to feel good, and the time between rounds is just as enjoyable to me, sometimes more. Yes, the climax is great, but spending this precious time with a beautiful woman, and being able to connect on a personal level brings me most of the pleasure that I get out of my dates. This was a totally unexpected gift that I didn't know about when I started in the hobby.
what about the imposition of a "lubrication surchatge"? As much as I'd LOVE to pound for 60 minutes unbroken through a dozen different positions, I do realize it can't be fun for the lady. so I forebear.
I have no objection to seeing those gentlemen who DO need a bit of help to get a woody and perform. However, I can't stand it when the younger men take them. I am not a rubber doll, as stated in another answer. I don't mind having a mind blowing experience and the man lasting a long time, just as long as it's slow and sensual as well as hard and fast. Everyone needs to have a pace with sex and I don't think it's possible to really enjoy yourself (as a provider) if you're not able to enjoy the encounter.
This is obviously a service but most men who do that and treat us like we're not real live girls will never get a second date and any reference they ask for usually includes something like
"Took an ED drug and pounded me for 90 min. without stopping. Stay far far away."
I had a really great gal who I was a regular with a couple of years ago. She was determined to get a second pop out (it had never happened) of me on a particular visit and tried , with BBBJ for about 45 minutes to make it happen. I still remember her adorable little South American accent as she exclaimed "OK, I gives up!"
Of course, it feels amazing even if the second pop doesn't happen but I figure, once it gets to the point that I'm starting to wonder if the lady is getting tired than she probably is.
I like the idea of the asterisk. Then he could find someone that would be able to comfortably accommodate him. Some of us are not into marathons.
BTW guys, feel free to take whatever you feel necessary. Just find the right provider for you...it makes it better for all concerned.
Seriously, if it were up to you guys, I'd have risen my rates for a ton of crazy situations by now. lol. Good thing for you I don't.
Katie