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Balancing your need vs. my need
mattradd 40 Reviews 459 reads
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I can understand your predicament, but my need is to be safe. This means I don't want to lose money for services not provided. And, I want the least risk to my health, losing my job and/or even occupation. That's why I use TER, and why I will not follow your suggestion. Good luck in your pursuits.

bladecold1971 reads

I just started to go to CV, BP, and CL and some of the girls is not on here. Now here's my question, what should i expect when i get a provider that do not have a review?

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exislandboy766 reads

You may get screwed...but not in a good way.

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Magnumload581 reads

From personal experience I'd say always go with a reviewed provider over someone that's not.

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cali3259 reads

never go with a non-reviewd provider. too many
bad things can happen and not many good things.

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Shmafty781 reads

...when you see a provider that doesn't have a review, you have no idea what to expect.

At least when you see a lady that is well-reviewed, you have a decent idea of what she is like and what you're in for.

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balathazar627 reads

You take a big chance on many bad things. She may not be the one in the pictures, she may (most likely) upsell you on everything, she may have a pimp very nearby, she may rob you, or she my be LE.

A well reviewed lady here with reviews by people with multi-reviews to their name is the best way to go. Be sure to get VIP status so you can read all about the lady you may want to see, you get a very good idea of how your session will be.

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*agirl*491 reads

The first two are probably most common. I agree, your taking a chance with your safety.

A client of mine found a girl on CL once. No reviews but he wanted to see her. He got to her incall and she looked pretty enough. They went into the bedroom and she started a back rub. They were making small talk. He said he studied her face and something didn't seem right. It hit him that she looked a little masculine in her face. So, he said, "show me your pussy" and she giggled and said, "you have to wait". He said, "no, show me your pussy, right now". She giggled and said, "you have to wait". He jumped right up and ran out.. she chased him out of the house screaming. He was at her house which makes this even scarier. He said he has never drove so fast in his life. I could tell how scared he was when he told me the story. His voice was almost shaking.

To each their own (TS fine) but when you think your visiting a woman and she turns into a he... it can be dangerous.

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-- Modified on 12/7/2007 8:58:45 PM

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Bostonguy57315 reads

It is possible to find a great girl that is not reviewed here but I don't recommend it to newbies. Get some experience under your belt and fine tune your BS radar before you start taking chances.

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MeetEricaStone1264 reads

I think all will tell you that there is much more safety in a provider with some consistant reviews under belt.  There's another side to this as well...

Providers who have a some documented experience will also have the little bit of experience that can make a difference.  Gent., there simply isn't any "On The Job Training" in this profession and there are many things that simply can't be taught to a newbie even if she has a seasoned veteran provider guiding her along.  The "flow" of the appt, time management, making you feel at ease, providing a comfortable environment or being comfortable in your environment:  All get better with time.    

NOTE:  there are provider's who have plenty of experience but come from non-TER markets and may not have a cache of reviews when they first venture into new areas!  AND:  I am in no way saying that a new provider can't knock your socks off or have an instant grasp on the nuances of the job - there are those FEW that this comes natural to.

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swimtrekr662 reads

Pay close attention to the posts above mine.  I am not gonna give you any advice except that.  These are guys who know, so listen to their advice, and your hobbying experiences will be greatly increased.

The bottom (no pun intended) line is, research, research, research, can't repeat it enough.  If you don't have it yet, get VIP membership.

Happy Hobbying,
Swim

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bladecold295 reads

I do. But as you guessed, I'm new at hobbying so i wondering as i look at these pages

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PeterPickle724 reads

no offense meant bud, but you should take the advice of the gazillion guys who've already been down this path before you.

Search the boards here on TER, you might learn something and save yourself a whole lotta hassle!

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*agirl*344 reads

I looked at your reviews. You already saw a girl you didn't research on CL and you had a bad time.



-- Modified on 12/7/2007 10:15:38 PM

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sheri714494 reads

He saw Buttaskotch and Candy, Im sorry but I am just cracking up over that

Are Sugar, Cookie and Coco next?


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Nikki6141121 reads

I am a new provider about 3 weeks out of the gate and running fast lol. I think that we new providers should be given an equal chance as well. I think I am as beautiful and as intelligent as these well known providers, the only difference is that I do not have as many miles under my skirt. When I began I advertised using print instead of internet. Most of my clients have turned into regulars but I am trying to expand to the internet and it is hard when people only look at reviews. How about you call the provider and talk to her. Ask her to email you a regular rated PG pic of herself on her camera phone and send it to you. Give us newbie providers a chance too. Dont let a few bad apples ruin the bunch. There are well reviewed providers who have had bad reviews as well.

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mattradd460 reads

I can understand your predicament, but my need is to be safe. This means I don't want to lose money for services not provided. And, I want the least risk to my health, losing my job and/or even occupation. That's why I use TER, and why I will not follow your suggestion. Good luck in your pursuits.

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GaGambler556 reads

was once an unreviewed provider. You are going throught the process called "paying your dues". the same as a hobbyist with no references. Don't worry, everyone goes through it. If you provide good service at a fair price, word will get out.

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*agirl*312 reads

He is right. You have to wait it out. The reviews will come.

Just a friendly recommendation. When you go onto your site a pop up message appears "add to favorites". You may want to consider taking that off. I've seen it on other girls site. I've heard many guys complain about it. Some have accidentally saved the site as a favorite. I'm not being critical but just giving you a pointer :)

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GaGambler695 reads

I am one of the hobbyists that find that feature annoying. It's a minor issue, but every little bit helps.

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bladecold260 reads

That's what i am saying. I am all new to this, THere was a place i use to go to philadelphia where the providers was already there and i could just pick which one i wanted to be with. But since the prices have gotten too high, i stopped and then i started looking at one website and then i took me to this other website (Not by link) then it took me to here. And some reviews i've seen is sometime about the atmosphere and not the performance. And the other one i saw I didnt know she had a review, i just took someone word for it. Now that i have a vip pass, i'm trying to learn as much as i can to get as much information as i can about the person because i dont want to get burn.

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Katielady2006411 reads

Lol.

Hmmm... Caramel and Honey might not like that. ;)

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bladecold884 reads

No. Quite honestly, it may be secret or Ms. Frisky because i like their reviews on here.

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