I gave a bad review to for a duo from an agency. The agency wrote to me that I should have called them to report the experience to give them a chance to make good. Unless the review is about a scam or rip off, I first reach out to the provider to discuss the experience. I have had luck in this regard either positively (good second experience) or negatively - confirm that a bad review is needed (this has mostly been the case with rip-offs).
How many guys are afraid to post negative reviews?
I just got a message from a guy that said he completely agreed with me about a particular provider that I reviewed and messaged about. She said that she was having me blackballed because of my review. He said he saw her a couple months ago and it was his WORST experience ever. This guy has a history of over 10 years and has posted reviews of some top ladies from all cover the country. He said he won’t post a negative review. Huh?? I thought that was why we were here. To let others know of the great ladies as well as the scams.
I personally only post reviews for three reasons. They asked for a review, I took one for the team or it was a really bad.
I told the guy that he needed to grow some balls and post a bad review if it was warranted.
We need to look out for each other and not be schill.
among other things, but it should get around anyone's fear of retribution. I would also alter minor details and generalize the issue if it would likely trigger the provider recognizing the writer.
Just another reason to not disclose your TER handle to a provider.
And wait at least a few weeks before posting it - memory fades over time and if she has a typical schedule then it'll be less likely that she'll remember general details.
I don't agree that you should wait to write a bad review as during the waiting period (weeks, months) other guys are potentially getting burned. What you should do however, is see another provider or two as soon as possible so that the provider with which you had a bad encounter with is no longer your most recent reference. I don't write reviews for every encounter. I would say for every 1 review I write there's 2 other encounters that I just don't feel like getting into for whatever reason (she has a sea of other reviews and mine adds nothing, it was a meh encounter, etc, etc). I think a lot of guys are afraid of getting blackballed simply because they cannot use that bad provider as a reference anymore to see the next provider. This is why having a few regulars who can vouch for you, or seeing another lady or two after the bad encounter is key and alleviate your concern for retribution from her. Most providers don't check this supposed blackballed sharing site where they compile the numbers/contact info of problem clients anyway.
Guys tend to make all kind of excuses for providers i.e. maybe she had an off day, maybe it was me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You see it in reviews all the time. Just because she has a good review history doesn't give her the license to occasionally treat some less than expected. I had one lady snap at me as soon as I entered the door because I had my phone in my hand; turns out later, the previous client had tried to record his session with her. I politely told her that I was here for a nice time and that if she was not up to it, then we should reschedule and/or I can leave. It quickly snapped her attitude back to being nice and she explained what had happened...and then she fucked me every which way to Sunday afterwards! Sometimes you just have to man up and be forth right with people.
I see providing as any other service I'm paying for. Treat me bad and I won't be back; your personal issues are not my issues. Just like if a dentist gave me an attitude, a mechanic gave me an attitude or a grocery store gave me an attitude, I would take my business elsewhere in the future.
... but it would have to be a pretty bad experience for me to do that. I write reviews but I don't write reviews of absolutely everyone I see, even if they are ok with having reviews written. I've written one, maybe two bad reviews here and I know one was a total rip-off situation that happened many moon ago.
The thing is, if I write a negative review, it will be fair. However, it will take quite a lot to get me to that point. A single "off night" kind of experience won't be enough for me to write a negative review.
I guess some of this "courage" is related to my TER presence not really coming up with the ladies I see, for whatever reason.
I gave a bad review to for a duo from an agency. The agency wrote to me that I should have called them to report the experience to give them a chance to make good. Unless the review is about a scam or rip off, I first reach out to the provider to discuss the experience. I have had luck in this regard either positively (good second experience) or negatively - confirm that a bad review is needed (this has mostly been the case with rip-offs).
And that's how agencies damage control the optics.
There's nothing wrong with giving someone a second chance. But I don't see why not write a review for each such chance.
If it has happened to you, its likely to happen to someone as well. The girl had a "bad day"? Sure, but if you can't work you shouldn't work.
Its very simple and fair. A mediocre sesh is reviewed as such. A better session can be reviewed later too. Most people who are reading your review have not seen her yet so their experiences logically will likely be closer to your first experience than your latter ones.
So what did that agency do to make good?
If the provider is one you want to see again for whatever reasons, a great body that's one's type, or a personality, or if the bad session was just because the provider had a bad day.
Primarily a provider a client wouldn't mind repeating with again, or is a regular repeat customer of, or even a favorite otherwise known as an 'atf'. Sometimes a repeat client with a favorite is hoping for a better session in the future where the provider isn't having a bad day, or is in a different mood for whatever reason, later.
Then one is jeopardizing being refused by the provider to be seen again, i.e. 'personal blacklist' , if one writes a bad review of the provider. (Sometimes a client gets even friendly with a particular provider. Even a provider may fall for , or a agree to leave the hobby for a particular client in the future. It has happened and has been talked about before here on the boards over the years. Even though the "general wisdom" is to not "get involved" or be friendly with a provider.)
Of course, a first time client may not care to see a provider again after a bad session and would not care if a provider would refuse to see him again after said client wrote a bad review.
reviews under an alias, but you can change your alias every three months. If you limit your reviews to a handful under each alias, it's nearly impossible for a provider to ascertain who you are. Reviewing under an alias will eliminate blowback whether you do it because they asked for a review, you took one for the team or it was a really bad session. It can be as negative as you want. Reading honest reviews before spending our money on pussy is why most of us are here.
I doubt that many will respond saying they are -- so do but I suspect more don't.
While I agree that point about the site (any review site) is about sharing the information on both good and bad we will never live in that perfect world where anyone's ideal view of that state of things actually gets realized. As such, that is why one should be as interested in "reviewing" the reviewer as they are about reviewing and using reviews of providers.
Not disagreeing with your suggestion that this should be about helping one another but I think you slip into an equivocation when you got from "guys afraid to write a bad review" to "not be [sic.] schill" If some reviewer only writes positive reviews and not bad reviews then that should be something of a flag for those wanting to use the information from the review but doesn't mean the person was being dishonest in those review.
He's a douche.
In more ways than one, a huge DOUCHE.
Screen properly, they will keep their negative experiences to a minimum and as a result, also their negative reviews. If you are screening properly for service, you should have 80-90% positive reviews resulting from having more positive than experiences. Too many mongers book providers based on their looks and as a result, they have more negative sessions, but are reluctant to say how bad it was because they are to blame for masking poor selections, so they often sugar coat the bad ones which is a disservice to the rest of us.
Men are wired to be visual, so they will often book without considering if a provider is a good match for them personality-wise, or whether they deliver a session in the style or at the pace that they prefer.
Why would you not place a negative review? They're not going to track you down and blacklist you, unless you reveal information that you shouldn't.
I haven't had a totally bad session in recent memory, but I am unafraid to mention a few negative details in a review, (1) if the pic in the ad is grossly unrepresentative, which sometimes happens, it should be mentioned, and (2) if services are below expectations relative to ad, or (3) if there is vigorous upsell on services, and I avoid these and can't even remember the last time it even happened. If there is a full on blatant bait and switch vs. ad, you should walk, and still report if you feel like it. I have been a lucky SOB, and even many of the ladies who didn't quite match up to their photos have turned out to be a ton of fun. So many pleasant surprises, so little time.
I can see why guys won't post a negative review. Probably for fear of getting banned and having the word spread.
And if you're dealing with a agency, they'll know pretty much who you are based on the review.
So I can see the hesitance, is it right? no... But alot of the guys deal with agencies and they probably don't want to chance it.
And I'm of the mind that if you write a review, you own it and it's consequences...good or bad. Hate the alias BS. it's wimpy to me
Worried about the agency backlash? How about just submit a lukewarm review, and leaving out key details that may connect to you. Speak the truth, but go easy on her to. Maybe it was just a matter of bad chemistry, maybe she was just over-worked, tired, or not on her best game. And thank her for her service.