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Married hobbyists, if you found out your wife was seeing male providers, would you react positively
RussianWithLove 2005 reads
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or negatively?  Would you set limitations on what services were allowed such as no bbjcim or no greek?  Would it be important to you that she saw established providers, even though it cost more?  Would it bother you if she saw more than one at a time?

89Springer717 reads

I would have scribbled out my name on the marriage license, written in his and said, "here, asshole. She's yours."

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Fridays117542 reads

now I have grounds for divorce and taking custody of the kids with little or no alimony.  It would no longer be cheaper to keep her.  I could trade her in for a younger model who actually liked to have sex more than once or twice a month.

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Blowing Chunks537 reads

I doubt a girl I'm dating would even need to pay a guy for sex.  Most good looking girls don't need to pay,  that would hurt their girl ego.  

Btw, you're seeing escorts so isn't that a bit unfair for the girl if that's your reason to divorce? (or are you single

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perfectstorm544 reads

can you not know his story?

But just for you, since you were probably drunk the 100 times he told his story:
He was married 45 years. Divorced now. Never cheated while married.

Ok you got it?
:D

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Blowing Chunks499 reads

I'm sure I'm not the only one who just skims through most posts and only read in detail if the posts are from people I'm closer 'board friends' with or have some communication going on. Too many posts on these boards. That isn't to say that I don't find 89jerryspringer's posts interesting. Should be apparent that at I least read his recent posts entirely.  

Also, I was completely gone from the boards for over a whole entire year...  
And yeah most evenings I'm a tad drunk... although not too too drunk, but still drunk enough not to drive.  

cut me some slack lo

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Skinny_Minnie:-)585 reads

I don't think most guys would be ok with a woman who they truly care about, and love, to sleep with other men under any circumstance.

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Jinx_The_Cat649 reads

...to find out your wife, who hasn't blown you in a decade, is paying some dude for the privilege of blowing him BBCIM.  Ouch!

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mrfisher644 reads

she started to date other guys openly.

I was all for it.  We had already come to the conclusion that sex between us wasn't working.

She had her thing and I had mine.

It also kept her from grabbing more of my stuff during the divorce as I had all the names and phone numbers.

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SuperBustyBlonde638 reads

be Positively horrified.  :)   A lot of men's wives ARE seeing a gigolo.  Their Personal Trainer and HE is paying of fit.  Sorry guys, but its the truth.  Those personal trainers sleep with more of their married female clientele than you would want to believe

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RussianWithLove520 reads

Do they have reviews?  Like a special little section on Angie's list... lmao

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SoftlySarah501 reads

hypocrisy such a post elicits. :)

I think it would be great if couples could just agree to get their needs met however they wished. Jealousy is a waste of energy. And life's a giant buffet!

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NeilDiamond456 reads

It's only hypocrisy if we're talking about identical situations and the guy condemns his wife for doing what he has done.  In many cases, the wife would have an unlimited supply of sex from her spouse if she wanted it, but she doesn't want it.  Not the case with the husband.  He would likely prefer to have his needs met by his wife, but instead he is forced to choose either infidelity or forgoing a basic human need.  Not the same, and not hypocrisy.

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lopaw444 reads

I'd be mad as hell and all hell would break loose.
But if I found out that she was seeing a FEMALE provider, well then all is forgiven and how about a 3some!



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ramblings540 reads

hiring one for my ex-wife.  I thought it might make her a little nicer.  But I couldn't bring myself to do that to a male provider.  

Posted By: RussianWithLove
or negatively?  Would you set limitations on what services were allowed such as no bbjcim or no greek?  Would it be important to you that she saw established providers, even though it cost more?  Would it bother you if she saw more than one at a time?  

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Robert_BadenPowell565 reads

I'd be shocked beyond words that my wife would see male providers... for many reasons which I don't need to or want to go into here.  

But if we were to change the question a bit, to what would I think if my wife were to see providers for the same reason I decided to start seeing providers, then I'd react positively.  In fact I'd be glad she was getting the sexual satisfaction and I hope some happiness that she could not get from her spouse.  I'd only hope that she'd be discreet, and take the proper precautions for health and safety.  As for BBBJCIM and Greek... I cannot in my wildest imagination think that my wife would ever do that with anyone, provider or not.

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