: TER General Board Discussion : Avoid social media like the plague that it is

36363jensen 4 Reviews 2171 reads

posted 5 years ago

1 / 20

Not sure if others have seen this or not but since at least some people are paying deposits or the few via some type of app and twitter seems to come up as a forum of choice/use enough thought this might be worth highlighting.

Basically if you use PayPal (and perhaps some other apps - just skimmed really quickly) and Twitter's Tip Jar you might be giving a lot more info about your self than you thought.

Related Link: Are you paying safe?

DT_lover 188 Reviews 119 reads

posted 5 years ago

2 / 20

I'm 100% safe

I don't do "deposits". EOM

mrfisher 115 Reviews 117 reads

posted 5 years ago

3 / 20

I've started to use Zelle:...

The only info I need is the phone number the gal sets up her bank account with, and her bank has to have Zelle.

No fees, and nearly instantaneous.

There is, however, a paper trail, but with people you feel safe with, you can't beat it.

RespectfulRobert 132 reads

posted 5 years ago

4 / 20

Why do any of this?

Why not just send an Amazon gift card that you purchase with cash and take a photo of it and email it by proton mail? Doesn't that solve all of these issues? Every girl I have suggested this to has taken it and either already was accepting it or thought it was a great idea.

J0e_Fella 35 Reviews 117 reads

posted 5 years ago

5 / 20

Re: I've started to use Zelle:...

+1 on Zelle.

I use it with my regulars and save me trips to the ATM and mindless with counting all the 20s bills.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 157 reads

posted 5 years ago

6 / 20

Does Zelle give the reciever info about the sender?

I use Zelle for other stuff.

Do you know if the receiver sees the sender's name, or can access the sending account number? Or does the money just show up and info is blocked?

eastside70 48 Reviews 115 reads

posted 5 years ago

7 / 20

Even though Twitter says...

they're not getting any portion of the tips, I highly doubt they'd provide all of the work to add this option to their platform for free. Somehow they're getting a small percentage somewhere, maybe from the PayPal fees.

I never had PayPal, Venmo, or similar due to the potential of them giving out your real info and having it connected to your bank account. I don’t believe these payment methods are suitable for this type of business. Even had one provider, who'd complained about these same companies in the past, want to use her friend's personal account for a refund. Ummm, no way. Lol.

eastside70 48 Reviews 104 reads

posted 5 years ago

8 / 20

Re: Why do any of this?

I used to do this for deposits which I don't provide anymore for overt reasons. Now I'll occasionally do this to provide her with a small gift after a great date.

sdottaylor 19 Reviews 111 reads

posted 5 years ago

9 / 20

Re: Why do any of this?

Sender still has access to the funds since they have the gift card number. Theoretically, they could send, the woman could check the amount online and later on the sender could spend the gift card on something else

impposter 49 Reviews 161 reads

posted 5 years ago

10 / 20

Avoid social media like the plague that it is

Avoid social media like the plague that it is! Their goal is to connect everyone ... whether they want to be connected or not.
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The PayPal thing seems like it would out you to anyone, whether tipping or being tipped. Payments are being mediated by "real name" PayPal accounts with real e-mail addresses and so on.

Posted By: 36363jensen

Not sure if others have seen this or not but since at least some people are paying deposits or the few via some type of app and twitter seems to come up as a forum of choice/use enough thought this might be worth highlighting.

Basically if you use PayPal (and perhaps some other apps - just skimmed really quickly) and Twitter's Tip Jar you might be giving a lot more info about your self than you thought.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 166 reads

posted 5 years ago

11 / 20

Zelle does give your name, the name on your bank account.

My banker confirmed this.

I did not ask if it was possible to open a bank account with my hobby name. Seems doubtful.

GaGambler 118 reads

posted 5 years ago

12 / 20

It's not doubtful at all

You can always open up an account under a "fictitious name" or more accurately a DBA (doing business as)
'

You simply go to your county courthouse fill out some papers and then bring them to your bank. You can even have your bank prepare the papers for you. You can either use your SSAN or you can create an EIN for the purpose.

Now the account will still be technically under your name, but your checks etc can say DT_Lover or whatever you want to name your "company" lol You probably do want to check with your bank first to be sure of their actual policy regarding Zelle.

Snotty 110 reads

posted 5 years ago

13 / 20

Jeezus christ

You are the biggest loser on here.

It's been what, a whole fucking year and you're STILL going on about the "refund". Jeezus.

ranilane702 See my TER Reviews 112 reads

posted 5 years ago

14 / 20

Definitely Not A Good Thing For Providers/Clients...

In addition to general privacy concerns, PayPal is not sex worker/adult transaction friendly AT ALL. Best to avoid for both of those reasons...

eastside70 48 Reviews 112 reads

posted 5 years ago

15 / 20

Oh look…

It’s snotrag, one of the biggest pathetic asshat losers on here who hides behind an alias. This bad hooker experience of mine is relevant to the topic at hand, so fuck off. I’ll make reference to it or anything else any fucking time I want. So STFU, sit down, and mind your own fucking business. This one isn’t even the worst experience by far. And why is your loser ass even replying to my posts anyway? Just move along shithead.

GaGambler 120 reads

posted 5 years ago

16 / 20

Testy testy

I wonder how many guys have fucked the woman that you are so obsessed about over the last year and a half ago?

Does it bother you that by now she probably doesn't even remember what you look like?

It's tough out there for a stalker, isn't it? ROFLMFAO

And actually I have a feeling that you can't really make reference to "IT or anything else" anytime you want to. I have a funny feeling that the moment you mention "Deb" on a TER by name again your ass is out of here. in the famous words of MP67. "Tell me I'm wrong" lmao

eastside70 48 Reviews 95 reads

posted 5 years ago

17 / 20

Well…

when fucktard clowns, such as yourself, try to tell someone what they can and cannot post, it tends to make one irritated and testy.

Like clockwork, the narcissistic TER bully STALKS out my post and perpetuates Deb’s unfounded lie. AGAIN. Let it go.

That’s some delusionally disturbing shit you post about your buddy. Do you actually read what you write before you post, or do you just say fuck it and post? Might want to read before posting or just muzzle yourself. Preferably the latter. LMFAO.

GaGambler 118 reads

posted 5 years ago

18 / 20

Hmm, I can't remember the last time you mentioned her by name

I certainly hope you didn't violate your "probation agreement" with TER by mentioning Deb and what you claim she did to you by name.

It really would be a shame if your stalker ass got kicked off the board. I am sure at least someone will miss you.

Ok, I lied, NO ONE will miss you when you are gone. Well I "might" miss fucking with you just a little bit, but there are plenty of stupid people on these boards for me to fuck with, one less will hardly be much of a loss.

-- Modified on 5/24/2021 3:48:24 PM

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 119 reads

posted 5 years ago

19 / 20

Re: Hmm, I can't remember the last time you mentioned her by name

What does this probation agreement, if it does exist, entail?

Is there some provision about third party NDA? Just wondering. Ie, can I talk about this incident?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 97 reads

posted 5 years ago

20 / 20

If your bank only gives . . . .

$20's from the ATM, you should find a new bank. My bank gives you a choice of 20's, 50's or 100's, in increments of $100. With ATM withdrawals from your own account, there are no STR's.