I've heard more than one definition of ATF. I have 2 or 3 guys who are "on my list"..just always have such a great time together; it's all in the attitude! However..I DO have one ATF; met him recently and it was more of a cosmic connection? I see him every thursday for 2-3 hours and we speak on the phone. Not to say the clients Ive seen arent nice, etc..just more of a connection which is a REAL bonus for both of us!! Thats my definition of ATF!!
I'm fairly new at this so please bear with me. I see a number of ladies locally, mostly mature providers, and 3 of them refer to me as their ATF. This is just a little hard for me to believe.
So my question is do you ladies tell all your male friends that they are your ATF or when you say it do you really mean it? I'm trying to understand this environment, completely different from anything I have ever experienced.
and what sort of integrity she holds. Of course there are those that will say that to every gentleman she meets. A mere business tactic to have you come back for more.
There are however, ladies, that will be honest with you about your being an ATF. There are certain gentlmen that one tends to click with that makes time together enjoyable all around. I think one would be able to discern the difference, but that again comes with experience in the hobby.
No, I don't tell everyone that they are my ATF, though I did tell one recently that he was on my short list of ATF's....he thought that was funny, as he felt that by definition, you could only have one - I disagree...so many wonderful men, there aren't ALOT of them, but there are some special ones I get to hold in my arms.... As to the honestly (or lack thereof) of your providers saying you are their ATF, I can't imagine that the poll taken here would suffice in answering to the sincerity of these particular women...every girl (and boy) is different...
But i think to be everyones ATF I would not like it. you are my ATF and i don't care who knows it. Ladies if you get a chance to be with this gentleman he will Rock your world. I will share. If you find a great thing tell everyone, and i am.
I've heard more than one definition of ATF. I have 2 or 3 guys who are "on my list"..just always have such a great time together; it's all in the attitude! However..I DO have one ATF; met him recently and it was more of a cosmic connection? I see him every thursday for 2-3 hours and we speak on the phone. Not to say the clients Ive seen arent nice, etc..just more of a connection which is a REAL bonus for both of us!! Thats my definition of ATF!!
Well, I don't think I'm taking a poll, but I'm trying to understand the ladies in this industry. When a lady tells me I am an ATF, and I have little experience in this environment, I'm just curious if it is true or a tactic to get return business. Not intened for a poll at all, but the opinion of the ladies.
I once had a provider who called me a sweetie, sugar, a doll, and a friend. Within three months, everything changed and I was no longer a welcome client. She is definitely a seasoned actress.
Boy I can't stand these terms! You said she must have been a good actress...that has always been my general rule of thumb...I call it 'ho talk'...whenever I hear a provider friend do it, I beg them to stop! I feel (generally, there are always exceptions) that a woman will use these so that she doesn't have to remember your name....I might be wrong, but its something you will find a LOT of in spas and it is certainly the case in that environment....in any case, if she's calling everyone these...it seems to reduce the value of the affection being conveyed....of course, its an effective means of ingratiating yourself, but it feels so fake and wrong to me....just my POV
I'm not interested in reducing a relationship to a three letter acronym much less this particular term. Every experience I have is unique and special. When I do find the need to define a specific relationship I think there are more personal ways to express this.
If you have chemistry with these ladies (and that should be easy to tell), then I think these ladies are on the level.
I tell a few of my regulars that they are in my "top favorites" list, and I would possibly tell one if he was indeed my #1 (but maybe not--I don't want any unnecessary "love" complications, LOL.)
From chatting with other ladies, I don't think the ATF term is used very often, so if not one, but three, ladies told you, then I think these ladies are on the line.
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