... you should mention your member discount, point out your failure to take it on prior visits, and ask if the refunds can be cumulatively deducted from the current date.
In all seriousness, commercial or not, however, its a live female behind those eyes. If there's one thing in the world a woman likes to know, it is that she's valued. Rate haggling can be a huge turn-off, even when done obliquely. If it isn't a lot of money, I might not mention it.
I've seen a highly reviewed lady a few times. She's at the high end of my financial budget so I simply wait until I have the resources to meet again.
Since the last visit, I joined a verification service and I see she has a published discount for members. While taking advantage of this would allow me to see her a bit more frequently, I feel hesitant to ask about it since I've only seen her at regular rates.
I have no clue if she would consider it to just be a casual question about the commercial nature of this acitivty and thus no big deal or if she'll be offended and I ruin a good thing. No doubt I'm overthinking the situation.
...I see you have published rate on the XXX website. Could you tell me more about it. How can I take advantage of these rates. I would really like to see you again"
in her profile that she offered members a discount. Inform her that the email is to clarify that the discount applied to you as well.
If she says no, it should send a clear message to you about how well she values you as a client and that she only cares about your $$$. You should move on and find another ATF, too many fish in the ocean to worship just one.
If she says yes, the downside is you might notice a drop off in her performance where she goes through the motions. If such is the case, be prepared to move on just the same.
Many ladies offer discounts if you belong to a verification site. IMO, it's just a beni of joining. So if you go to Sam's Club or Costco, do you insist on paying the "Trader Joe's" price for bag of Dorito's?
... you should mention your member discount, point out your failure to take it on prior visits, and ask if the refunds can be cumulatively deducted from the current date.
In all seriousness, commercial or not, however, its a live female behind those eyes. If there's one thing in the world a woman likes to know, it is that she's valued. Rate haggling can be a huge turn-off, even when done obliquely. If it isn't a lot of money, I might not mention it.
.....if she has such a published discount for members (TER, date-check, p411 etc) she shouldn't be surprised or offended if even a regular one day decides to partake in it. I (wish I could bold that I) wouldn't be not at all because I put it there and I would think she didn't just place it there just for "shits-n-giggles". If she doesn't state it's only for new clients or for the first appt only or w/e then eehhhhhhh it's in your right or w/e to do so. If she gets offended by you one day partaking in the discount well to me that's kind of silly and she should then take it down or make clear who she wants to be able to use it. So........yeah.
If you ask you should get the discount (a guy might walk out on her if she says no). But the girl will probably show less than regular enthusiasm for a discounted session.
Best to keep the good providers happy and they will keep you happy.
Would like to read replies to this question from the ladies.
Lots of seasonal discounts. Just saw a high-end girl offer a $100 discount to TER members. If you are a member of P411 or Date-Check, lots of providers offer small discounts to members. They are often so small ($25) I don't bother and pay the full amount, rather than be thought a piker. Some agencies, like Aphrodite Companions, also offer discounts to "members" (meaning any male whose member hasn't fallen off). Often, that means a cut from $350 to $300 and I've taken that.
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