it was a common theme I noticed with the "daytime girls" at the Del Rey in Costa Rica, I asked several of the daytime girls over a period of several years if they ever worked in the evening, and by far the most common response was that they needed to get home to take care of their children.

Not that I believe everything a woman ever tells me, but it was the overwhelmingly most popular answer, so I tend to believe it.

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which is that most married guys who hobby at home find it easier to sneak during the day during work than they do sneaking out at night.

So it is very possible that many  providers are simply working hours to accomdate their cheating customers, not to hide from their own BFs/spouses.

I have actually had similar conversations with a few agency owners who only operate during daytime hours. The usual answer is that most of the clients prefer daytime appointments, and that the percentage of "problem clients", drunks etc, go way down during the day.

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You're seeing the wrong ones then.

Your post wasn't about what you "know", it was about what you assume. There are many reasons why someone would work certain hours only. Those reasons were pointed out. You chose to ignore them and just state your point over again.

So you're obviously seeing the wrong ladies if having an SO affects their performance. Can't really comment on your experiences since you are yet another non-reviewer.

Whenever I see a lady advertise that she is only available 10-4 Mon thru Fri, I automatically assume that she has an SO who thinks she has a legit job. Gives her time on the front end to pretty up and time on the back end to cleanup and get home. I say that because I'm not a fan of seeing ladies who I know to have SOs. Not that it ruins any fantasy, I've found that those ladies tend to be more distant and less into the sessions.

One mans observation.

...someone who has an afternoon or evening job....  There are a lot of possibilities.

Many men who hobby are married or have girlfriends, so why should it matter to you if an escort is married or has a boyfriend, as long as he's not interrupting your time together? Not trying to be rude or argumentative, just asking.

As for only being available during daytime hours, maybe she just prefers days. I'm the opposite-I prefer evening meetings, but I get the most appointment requests from 9 am to 2 pm for some reason. LOL

she's an LE decoy. That's also a possible explanation, altho a bit primitive as a sting M.O. In any case, I always assume all providers have an SO and go from there. Just as long as I don't have to meet him or hear too much about the fucker.

"I say that because I'm not a fan of seeing ladies who I know to have SOs. Not that it ruins any fantasy, I've found that those ladies tend to be more distant and less into the sessions."

My experience has been that providers with SOs generally tend to be mechanical and not that much fun.

Many, perhaps most, escorts are in committed relationships with SO's or are married.  Besides the fact that it's none of your business, why on earth would you assume their SOs think they have a 'legit' job?  Firstly, escorting is work and it is a job and it is a business for the escort - maybe not legal, but a job nevertheless.  And to assume that every lady decieves her SO is just plain nuts.  You need to start getting a grip on reality.

ASSCLOWN ALERT!

scoed knows the dif too. sd hominem man


HH

but in your case I think you nailed it.

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Sorry OP is having detached sessions.  Personally I like the fantasy that an appointment is a hot torrid forbidden affair, and I've been known to ask the lady, if I know her a bit from a prior visit, to wear any type of wedding or engagement ring she might have from a past, present or future marriage just to have it on her lovely hand when we have our fun together.  So far I haven't offended anyone--and one provider whom I know to be engaged has subsequently remembered I liked her to wear it and did so again without me asking.  But that might just be my kink.

Horniest pure sex lover I was ever with was married, and it got her hot that I knew it.  And one of the very best connections was with an engaged lady.  We kidded that I was her "affair".  

Takes all kinds.  If you want more passionate sessions, search reviews for DFK, connection, and passion.  Backchannel other hobbyists and see if there are any insights to be shared on a confidential basis.  But yeah, having posted reviews under your ID is sort of a pre-req for back channel.  Do your research and know what you are looking for.  Don't use SO as a proxy for not into it.

As the other posters have stated their are lots of reasons for a provider to want to work days beside she is hiding her providing from her SO. Things like: like many people she prefers to work days, The kids are out of school, she ha a second or third shift job outside of the hobby, and she want to save the evenings for her SO that KNOWS what she does for money.

Then you say stupid things like,

"I say that because I'm not a fan of seeing ladies who I know to have SOs. Not that it ruins any fantasy, I've found that those ladies tend to be more distant and less into the sessions."

Guess what, as many ladies have an SO in the hobby as don't and many ladies lie to their clients about it. So you can not even have a bases for such a stupid statement. You will likely never know the truth about most of the ladies you see status as far as dating, engaged, married or single/divorced. Many ladies keep their private lives private.

So, yes, you are an idiot.

I had a full time job that cut into my providing time. I wasn't available at all on the weekends due to the job (retail at a mall will cut into home time, much less anything else).

And, FWIW, I'm single and my kids are grown and flown.

I think you're just annoyed that many providers aren't available 24/7. Like the guys who think that all providers should quit after they're 30 or after they're over 110 pounds, you sound like you think ALL providers should be available all the time at any time of the day or night.

Ain't gonna happen buddy.

Congrats.

I was asked why it mattered, I repeated my post because that contained the answer to the question asked.

I know a lady who used to only work on Sunday thru Tuesday days. She was going to school the rest of the weekdays, and weeknights, Saturdays and Sunday night were reserved for her 'personal' time, meaning immediate family and friends.

It worked for her. On occasion she would skip class, one Wednesday afternoon when I busted my ass to get out of work to see her comes to mind, lol, but she was as serious about her responsibilities then as she is now. Now, she's just enjoying the fruits of her labors more which is fan-fucking-tastic!

So yeah, OP. Until you step into these lady's shoes, or actually know WTF they're dealing with besides being there to be at your beck-and-call whenever the fuck YOU feel like it, STFU!

Your father and I are so proud of you! *sniff, sniff*....

and you do not.  Be careful who you call stupid ... stupid.

I stand by my observation.  In my experience, the ladies who have told me they have SO's, have been distant.  Whether they lied or not, that is the information I went on.  That is my BASIS.

So, yes, you are an idiot.

at no point did I say providers should be available 24/7.  You are projecting your own biases.

I fully admit my ability to communicate by written word is limited. To communicate by written word I have to depend on spell check and spell check often fails me. So yes, in that area, I am indeed an idiot. I will own that.

I should not have called you an idiot because of one post with way too many assumptions. Everyone knows I have posted worse. I do stand by most every thing else though.

I still think your basis is flawed. I could post why but I will not as it likely will not change anyones mind. Besides, I would likely commit more grammatical errors in doing so. I don't want to provide any more evidence of my idiocy in that area. LOL.

Let us agree to disagree. I don't want a flame war even though my post was an opening to one. Truce?



scoed

did I say a lady should be available whenever the fuck I feel like.

I posted something that I meant as a little tongue-in-cheek (the secret SO) but threw in something I really thought (distant providers) and it went sideways on me.  I wound up doing something idiotic.  Based on that, I'm an idiot.  I'll own that one. :P

You think you're me, or WTF?....

I would fucking want to be you. :P

I knew they had SO's going into the session and then went ahead with it.  The times I've found out they have had SO's has been after the fact.  Then the light bulb goes off and it explains why the session was so distant.  It isn't me projecting anything.

Maybe you are worried that your service has been subpar when you have had an SO?  You are getting defensive because someone hasn't enjoyed their session because your thoughts were elsewhere, and that person hasn't returned or had a bad time?  Now you are projecting those fears onto this thread.  Something to think about.  

You can jump to whatever conclusion you wish but I feel comfortable that you are wrong far more often that you are right about this one.

#1, by far, single mom with school age kids.  One of the major benefits of this job is they can spend more time with the kids, but evening appointments defeat that.

#2, their "day job" is at night.

#3, they have safety concerns late at night.

You've never had an SO while working because it would make you distant and defensive about it even though you think it wasn't you.

it was a dumb question to begin with and the conversations stemmng from it have been equally as stupid.

You have convinced yourself of something that almost everyone clearly disagrees with, lets just move the fuck on.

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I think that I struck some nerve with you because you are clearly wound up about this subject. I don't know what that nerve is, it may not be the SO issue, but it's something. You continue to attack me over something that really has nothing to do with you personally. Yet you feel the need to try to "analyze" me.  My opinions are just that, my opinions. You have yours, we differ. Fine. I'm not changing your mind, you're not changing mine. that's life. I'm moving on.

I work out from 6am to 7am. Then attend a 7:30 am class til 8:45. I need a shower after class. Here ya go 10am... when my kids were little I was home by 5 or 5:30 unless you are really special.
Does that answear your question. Depending on the semester I could have a 6pm class and need to be home and do the dinner thing and then go to class.

My big question to you is..  when you assume I have a SO and You ask me? My question to you is the same. Are you married??? why does it matter? because it ruins your fantasy?

She could have a SO and still be HORNY!.. Or. IT'S REALLY NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!

The fantasy is in your head!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi there-I do a few lengthy appts. a week, mostly afternoon and evening hours. My BF thinks I work in a hospital, this explains the odd hours. I like what I do and it pays well, so I feel if I get awesome clients in my peak hours.So all the guys wanting a 3 am appt,-sorry lol!

How's that for the last fucking word on a dumbass fucking thread?

Now I have to go flip all my alias posts so I don't have to moderate myself. lol

I keep my hours predominately to day time hours for the reason listed below. Daytime mean less drunks, creeps and problem clients to handle. I like my clients to be gentlemen and respectful. It makes my time with them so much more enjoyable for both parties. Most of the scary stuff happens late at night. If I know you, I'll go out of my way to accommodate you, even if it means a later appointment time. But if you're new, forget it.
I also have kids. I need to be at home with them at night to help with homework, bath time and be a mom.

Our job, while enjoyable as hell, is also hard. Give us some credit. We put our asses on the line every day to be here for you. And why does it matter if we have a SO? I don't get upset if you see another provider!

Thanks girl! You beat me to it.

Posted By: blondeandbusty83

Many men who hobby are married or have girlfriends, so why should it matter to you if an escort is married or has a boyfriend, as long as he's not interrupting your time together? Not trying to be rude or argumentative, just asking.

As for only being available during daytime hours, maybe she just prefers days. I'm the opposite-I prefer evening meetings, but I get the most appointment requests from 9 am to 2 pm for some reason. LOL

Hey Babe

I had two or three boyfriends since I began in this profession, and not one of the breakeups had anything to do with my work!!! Honestly, SO's promote better, and I truly mean BETTER sex with you clients!!! PM me if you need more info!!

Muah

Ms. CandyGyrlxxx

I am a SO of a provider. From what I have heard  She loves her work, she is hella good at it and she makes better money than I can or do.  To add to this, we have been together for 4 years and just got married last month.         Not all is what you think ===> HarlandSanders.

  I have even met a few of her clients and helped them with their SOs.

 It is in your own head Mr. Sanders  ... I got it out of my head a long time ago.

                    Best of luck to you