I never do it on the first date because I don't want the girls to think I'm a slut.

I don't do DATO very often but I have not generally asked first, though it's probably a good idea.

I thoroughly enjoy this and ask if they mind getting on all 4s so I can eat their ass. One provider said no and said it wasn’t her thing so we moved onto other positions.

Someone I had seen before, I made an advance request.   So she was prepared for it.  
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I'd do it again if the lady desired it ... and is clean.  

Ewww........

Only kidding....
This really made me think. In all my years I've only DATO with one young lady. And as I reflect on how I initiated it, well she liked to rim me so I figured what's good for the goose is good for the gander, plus I really connected with her and I felt really comfortable with her.Now as to the how, as I was DATY, I slowly moved my way there, she didn't resist and the rest is history....I didn't ask to do it I just did it. Sorry but that's all I can add.

Maybe the provider in question had a bullet in the chamber and was just doing you a solid?

 
brb I am going to go hurl.

I sometimes visit an Asian agency where the girls  will stick their tongue up your ass.  I politely decline.  The offer comes before you even get into bed.  These girls take a shower with you and try to stick their soapy fingers up your ass in the shower.   The first time this happened I jumped and asked what she was doing.  She explained she was prepping me.

I like these girls but am not interested in this specialty.  No thank you.

...always make certain what the rules are...

“Pardon me, my dear, but do you prefer tongue or toilet paper?”

Especially regarding DATO and rimming.

For this to be a mutually pleasurable experience, there's some preparation that needs to be done before the session.

My ATF and I are both on board for the fun, so we're prepared well beforehand.

This is mos' def' one area were you don't want any unwanted surprises.

Buena suerte!

upfront. No need to spoil the moment. Many times, simply declaring your intent to do something upfront can be a turnon (just leave her time to react). If the reaction is positive, go for it. If not, make a joke of it and move onto something you'll both enjoy. Consent can flow in the moment; it doesn't have to be (should not be) structured as a list of activities in an introductory email.

I just put my nose up in to it. If it smells good I just follow it. If the owner of the ass gets annoyed she just turns and snips at me. If that happens I run across the park and find another cute ass to sniff. Simple.  

Canine rules apply here.  

Are you kidding me that this is actually a thread.  Eating ass???

Snake 🐍

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Usually just sort of happens during 69..mutually..