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lustkatrina See my TER Reviews 1476 reads
posted
1 / 28

By a member of Ter who has been screened.

The threat of many things and yet a little battered and bruised not lost a penny due to "low funds:

Still....feeling really bad about it

Wondering all day what to do about it

mrfisher 115 Reviews 964 reads
posted
2 / 28

Beyond that, I'm not sure what else to do.

Very sorry this happened to you.  

I'm also hoping that the "battered and bruised" is meant figuratively.  If literally, then I would not blame you for contacting LE and pressing charges.

Foodyguy 29 Reviews 747 reads
posted
3 / 28

She maybe able to get it onto the provider's board to warn others, or at least help you determine the best route to go.

Good Luck!

inicky46 61 Reviews 781 reads
posted
4 / 28

putting him there is warranted.  People who rob, stalk and abuse providers are legit candidates for the BL.  And, yes, the PO board is a good place to go.  If you're not a member, find one who is to help you.
Just keep in mind, if he has friends on the PO board they may call bullshit on your claim.  And, like the RO board, the PO board leaks like a sieve.

-- Modified on 6/17/2013 7:21:27 PM

tg_baby 942 reads
posted
5 / 28

As other members said, you can report him to a blacklist site. That's all you can do about that situation.

What you CAN do for yourself is prevent it from happening again. You might want to hire a screener, or ask a girl in your area to mentor you.  

Sometimes guys will just take advantage of a new girl, but more than likely, he's done this before. Yea, some guys are whitelisted...and have just as many blacklistings as whitelistings. Yea, some guys have a reference or two or even three...a reference is only as good as the girl who gives it. Some girls can't remember whether they saw the guy or not, so will say 'he's OK' rather than admit it. Or, they don't set healthy limits and so will think a true creepazoid is OK for everyone else to see, too. Screening is an art and it takes time to perfect (if you can ever even do that)...I've been at it for years (and I am a BITCH lol) and still an asshole slips through once in a while.

Tallman57 3 Reviews 688 reads
posted
6 / 28

Why can't you post his handle her? then everyone would know he can't be trusted!

lustkatrina See my TER Reviews 918 reads
posted
7 / 28

and I thought long and hard before making this post but I have no-one to share this with and felt pretty upset all day.

He was screened really well but he uses his Ter ID as a weapon.

I have no proof .


Thanks for caring to respond, in some weird way it made me feel better

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 775 reads
posted
8 / 28

Post you exact post on your local board. Let the ladies there pm you to ask.  

Also follow the advice of other posts on here.

RLBD 1 Reviews 853 reads
posted
10 / 28

to handle this for you, get in touch with me Katrina.  I travel the Mid-Atlantic region weekly and would be happy to assist.

The shit-smudge who did this to you (or any other provider) needs to be reached out to and have his outlook and perspective adjusted somewhat.  Guys like this are usually pussy's that only bully and victimize women, cause another guy might knock them into the next zipcode.

Firm persuasion can usually produce surprisingly remarkable results.

Richard

inicky46 61 Reviews 562 reads
posted
11 / 28

Of course they were nice!  They were looking at that bodacious bod of yours and those big baby blues!

Panthera12 741 reads
posted
12 / 28

I would say the odds of getting robbed by a TER member after 3 weeks is slim to none especially if he was screened.

I am not necessarily calling BS on your post, but I will not take your post at face value either. No one knows who you are or whether or not you are credible.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 775 reads
posted
13 / 28

Many members here are fake.  They have reviews & never paid to see a provider.  I called out a few in the past for writing me fake reviews when I never saw them.  Regardless if the score was a 9, or an 8 I still ask for all fake reviews to be deleted.  I would hate for another provider to base seeing a member off a review.  Sorry this happened to you, but do not let him do it again.  Warn other providers.

You post in the PO  forum to & have the providers pm you for details.   Keep your head up!

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 686 reads
posted
14 / 28

If you don't, those women will continue to vouch for him putting other women at risk.

lustkatrina See my TER Reviews 924 reads
posted
15 / 28

Not credibility. This is what a newbie does. That is why I have not  posted the details. No-one would believe me.

Being new means lots of mistakes ..like when someone  says they are a member of this board and they really are not.

Panthera12 789 reads
posted
16 / 28

You had said previously that you had screened him.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 712 reads
posted
17 / 28

I sent her a PM about this, but no reply. My guess is some guy told her over email he was a member here, and she did not verify that by making him PM her. She probably has no VIP. She may have taken it at face value that what he said was true, but that's about as nuts as believing a guy is not a cop because he says so. She is new, and lucky to be alive.

GaGambler 772 reads
posted
18 / 28

first he was screened "really hard" but used his TER ID "as a weapon" now we find out he is not a TER member at all, I am sorry about whatever happened to you, as exactly what transpired is not clear either, but you need to get your shit, and your facts together before any one here can offer you any useful advice.

lustkatrina See my TER Reviews 904 reads
posted
19 / 28

I was giving an example of mistakes made when a provider is a newbie. ( I made that in the past) I am pretty sure the high profile ladies on here have had a guy threaten to give bad reviews or such if they did not give in to certain demands. I have read this many times on here.

I was feeling pretty low about the situation and had no-one to tell and I am glad I let a little of it out on this forum.

I am "too" afraid to go into details for the obvious reasons and also very, very concerned using any blacklist board.

I really do appreciate the ladies on here for their stories

and thank the members for making me feel better about this tricky situation.

Thank you very much!

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 704 reads
posted
20 / 28

I get it. She was blackmailed by a TER reviewer, and does not know what to do. My guess is he is making threats to "ruin her" if she tells anyone what he did. My advice...fk him and his handle! Put it on every blacklist site around, and let that punk take his best shot. If he is married, he would be na idiot to try and do a damn thing.  

If someone is blackmailing for good reviews from either end, TER won't put up with that. Of course, she has no proof because most guys are not dumb enough to ask for BBFS or threaten via email, when they know the provider trusts them enough and they can do it in person..  

Yes, this does happen a lot. Hobbyists use their so called "Reputation" to pimp, extort, and try to get providers to do all sorts of things. "I will give you a 10 if you give me half off." "I will give you a higher score if you let me BBFS." "If you don't give me extra time, it might affect your score. Girls I give 9s and 10s always seem me for half the rate, or off the clock.

Panthera12 780 reads
posted
21 / 28

It almost looks like you are filling in the answers for her.

I had serious doubts about her story when she first posted it, and now even more since the distinct smell of swiss cheese is in the air.

Don't get me wrong. I trust your hooker translation service, but today I want a refund  :)        

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 788 reads
posted
22 / 28
GaGambler 732 reads
posted
23 / 28

after reading her often changing story, I have no idea what, if anything actually happened.

My advice, stick to vodka, it makes you a bitch, but it makes you a smart bitch, or at least a "smart ass" bitch, and I kind of like you that way. Stoned, you might just become "nice" and that would be boring. lol

Panthera12 782 reads
posted
24 / 28

And mellow chicks bore the shit out of me.

lustkatrina See my TER Reviews 878 reads
posted
25 / 28

You were the only person I thought would know who he is

I called twice on the hotel phone because you are not familiar with my cell and knew the hotel I was staying in and you did call back after I left.

thanks so much

liamdoherty 25 Reviews 666 reads
posted
26 / 28

Does he have a P411 account you can contact them and tell Gina your situation, he could lose his account, Let TER Admin know and he can get banned....be ready to provide email contacts and such.
he has no place in this community

honestprovider 656 reads
posted
27 / 28

Blacklist him on EVERY site and have a large male friend pay him a visit!

Forestgrump 776 reads
posted
28 / 28

Go see a lawyer who has some guts. This is an intentional tort, it sounds like possible extortion,but two can play that game. A good lawyer can obtain his real name and the threat of a lawsuit mixed  with the publicity he might face may do the trick without anyone getting arrested on your part. Keep your big tough guys and use a lawyer instead, in matters like this, they are much scarier...

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