I had a long conversation with a provider about guys who book 1 or 2 hours but expect to go longer but don't want to pay the extra. She said, and this is true for a lot of people, "I feel uncomfortable asking for more and if I do it ruins the GFE". And or, she is afraid she will get a bad review and be labeled a clock watcher. And at times when she has pointed out the fact they went over on there time, the guy acts as tho he did her a favor because she enjoyed the experience, she is a total nymph and really enjoy's everything, then cops an attitude. I'm not looking for an answer here because i know the answer already. Some of you guys are total Dick Heads. And I'm not talking about the girls who wast time doing this or that. I'm talking about the good ones who have stellar rating's 8.65 or better. It's your job to watch the clock and bring enough for what you want. Most of these girls will give you 110% Give what you get. Don't be a Dick Head.

Some guys are dick heads.. Some guys are gentlemen..

Some girls are fuckin' bitches.. Some girls are sweethearts..

The guys who act in such a way will not get second appointment or will get bad recommendation from the provider.. Nobody can control the behavior of every single person...

Have you decided to save the whole hooker world ?

So let the chips fall where they may....


* Edited for grammar.

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This Gal has not yet learned...  that all good providers must be skillful time managers.  They must use cues if they don't have a natural great sense of time.  Some have a routine which takes about the correct time, even if she let's it slide over a few which IS fine.  Music tracks or set playlists work.  A Fav Gal has a small clock...  I eventually noticed it moved to what ever room we played in...  while neither of us could see the bedside clock, this smaller clock was sometimes on a high shelf or a low book shelf but always to the side of our area.  
Gals must also have great people skills...  letting a guy wind down the experience nicely.  Trying to get more money after the play has started is difficult...  means breaking GFE personna.  I wouldn't blame her for not allowing it.  
One way I've experienced for wrapping things up once time is nearly expired...  she makes a brief bathroom break and returns with a sexy robe on & cleans him up & helps him dress.  There's nothing wrong with her saying "Wow, look at the time!" or "Time flew!".  I have had to get up from the bed to see a clock...  because I'd lost track of time.   She needs to conclude things on time, it will still be over getting cleaned up & dressed.  But she SHOULD NOT be a door mat.  She needs to plan better & work on her closing.  
If the guy does not take the gentle HINT, than she must be FIRM.  
HV

A woman who gives you the time you PAID FOR, is not a clock watcher! A woman who kicks you out before your time is up, is. Seems simple enough to make the distinction, but yes...some men are ass hats.

I get out of bed to leave when my time is up , usually about  five minutes early . If she stops me or tells me don't run off,  I will stay if I was having a good time , even if I have something else to do .
If it's four hours later, or  next morning  before I leave , with no added donation , I would never put that in my review .
 Dick head or not , I could have made money those hours ,  if I hadn't stayed .

as long as you conduct yourself as a gentleman, it's all good. While posting this thought scores points with the ladies, do you really think a "dick head" is going to pay atterntion to this.

I work in the service industry and we try and "educate" our customers all the time.  Unfortunately, the dick heads are going to be dick heads and it's unlikely they change.  

My brother works for a company who believes in the philosophy that 80% of your problems come from 20% of your customers.  So they work like crazy for those 80%, try to develop additional business, and they don't much care so much about that 20%.  They make it hand over fist.

Unfortunately, some can't afford to kind of "ignore" the 20% of their customers who are responsible for 80% of their headaches.  But it's a refreshing approach if you ask me.

Casually mention she has a personal appointment of some kind that she has to be at after the meeting is over.

HH, you and Gopher are completely right.  But the boards being what they are, people will come on and ventilate about this and many other basic issues.  Bottom line: a dickhead is incapable of knowing he's a dickhead and will never change.  It's useless to try, but if venting about it will make one feel better, why not.  No harm done.

Consider how that statement would go for me lol. "Oh yea, she has to be on TER" bwahhahaa.

There are always those who will try to get something for nothing, or more than they paid for, from everyone.  They crash through life with a sense of entitlement.  As a consultant who bills for my time, I face it frequently, not only from regular clients, but also from supposed friends, and even people I don't know, who call with a "quick question" then expect me to spend all morning solving their issue or telling them how to fix it, for nothing since I didn't have to come to their office.  Sorry, it doesn't work that way!  Still, it is anoying to be put in that position.  Then again, it is easier to hang up than to kick some jerk wad out the door.

The ladies here are lucky that their clients can't get GFE over the phone, lol. Though I guess some may be happy with phone sex.

Pretty fucking simple - cut and dry, easy peasy,etc.  

Although, I find nothing wrong with letting a gent whose company I especially enjoy stay over the allotted time.  That's a personal choice though.  And even if I do want a guy to stay over, I have other sessions scheduled so it's not even an option.
Hobbyists should really keep that in mind if a provider is hinting, getting dressed or whatever, she might very well have another session with only a half hour to shower and primp...

XXX-Giselle

I hate to hurry you up sweetie but my probation officer is coming over in a couple of minutes.


That should get the lead out of his ass.

haha, Good one.

after that she needs to stamd her ground, be forceful...  even rude if necessary.  
I DO have ladies who will invite me to stay & visit after our play time...  but we are getting dressed & beyond that, if we sit & talk, it is fully dressed.  She'll drop back into GFE for a hug & a kiss when it is time for me to leave.

For starters every provider is different and every relation ship between a provider, agency and the hobbyists are different just like every provider and hobbyists is different.

If she has this constant problem, she needs to talk other providers and figure out how they deal with it.

But if you are ten minutes over, then you are over time.  Simple as that.

And in percentages, 10 minutes over is 17% over the hour.

How would you feel if your employer asked you to work 17% more hours and got paid the same?  Let's say you work 40 hours a week.  That's another 6.8 hours.  Or another 1.4 hours per day.

I know you're not into them, but that's exactly why.

"You said you had somewhere to be after our session, but then I saw you on ter."

"I emailed you to chat even tho I won't be able to book w/ u for another three months. Why haven't u replied yet? I know u were online b/c I saw u posting on TER."

"I would've scored her higher in performance, but she lied & said she had to be somewhere, but then I saw her posting on TER instead of spending OTC with me."

lol

Might want to see "tricks" that have a higher maturity level LOL

Honestly my dear...most of "us tricks" know what the deal is.  To have to manufacture a reason to bolt isn't necessary in most cases.

Now if the tricks you see are so emotionally immature that they will have an issue with you seeing another trick after him, or go for lunch with your CPA, or want to go shopping..or even heaven forbid just want to babble on TER.  Time is up and those "tricks" need to leave.

Or just suggest that they pay for another hour.  That'll help them get dressed pronto  

Just tell them that Mr. Viper told them to "get the fuck out...NOW".  

You know...the one where YOU worry about getting rid of your johnnie boy(s).  And being afraid that they may catch you in a lie.

Yep...you have some seriously awesome johns there...too bad it sounds like they have some boundary issues.

Or maybe you just made all that up?  And that the awesome clients that see your 10/10 ass all leave on cue?

Can't have it both ways WOTW...pick a side and stick to it!  Or not  LOL

Where LONDON said she would be on TER. WOW was putting that to a couple of scenarios should LONDON get rid of a guy and then was seen on TER posting...not going where she said (lied) she was going.

You can't f*ck and type at the same time? I thought you were a woman with multitasking abilities. Now I'm worried that maybe you're not really a woman and all this time I've been hitting on you...

Ah yes, but London won't ever lie to a client just to get rid of him. They flat out know, where I have to be even if it's all by myself eating a sandwich lol. Regardless of "what" I might have to do, is really none of their business. I don't get paid before or after their time.

I can also blow a guy whilst chewing gum, and playing on my phone.