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Seeking Sugar Baby advice....
simontheman 8 Reviews 1891 reads
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I am finally going to try to satisfy my curiosity with the whole sugar baby thing. It's been on my mind for a while. My area has few escorts, but with there being a couple of regional colleges, there seems to be a plethora of girls doing the SB thing.
Any words of wisdom anyone can share??

Some you can pick up for a happy meal and some won't take a 500k diamond. ;-)  

In all seriousness, I've had a few of these SD/SB things and some worked out fairly well and some didn't.  The basic how-to and relational concepts I learned have very little to do with the amount of money at stake, though, so in that regard no, champagne and beer don't enter into it.  

Just like in this playground (or kitty litter box, as it sometimes becomes), each girl sets her own rate and decides what she will and won't put up with.  That number can be anything under the sun, but the basics of human decency and being able to make it through a dinner without earning a butter knife to the thigh tend to be fairly universal.

if I am going shell out 3-4 K a month....:D

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All I know is "I'm out".  

Your ears would bleed if I tried to sing. ;-)

You have proven you are more than respectful of women, their rates, and their boundaries, so sugar land will encompass all of that, but much more. Be prepared to have a lot of time wasted cruising for real ads, and that she is the girl in the photos. There are no rules in sugar land like there are here. Do not EVER send her money upfront for anything, unless you've already been seeing each other. There is no sugar baby review board, so many scammers out there not being held accountable.

Also, be prepared to spend some money before you get laid. The only SBs who usually fk you on the first night, are probably also providers. I know, because I play both sides of the fence.

Panthera12488 reads

copied on your notepad just waiting for permission to post it. Do educate us. All of TERland is waiting with bated breath.

You may have bait breath, but I brush, floss and rinse several times per day.   :)

Sadly, no.  If I were that good, I'd .... hell, I don't know what I'd do.  Unfortunately, you have to suffer through me writing off the cuff.  I'm better at it than most 4th graders!

Panthera12232 reads

then a 500 word resume of ego. Thank you for sparing us.

Johnny3Balls250 reads

By your standards EC we are all beer guzzlers so why even waste your diamond encrusted hootchie time on us mortals anyway. Isn't there a billionaire playboy discussion board out there somewhere you should be shilling your services to?

If you are deluded into thinking that every hooker on this board caters to the same kind of men, and the same market, think again. I would never offer GFE for less than what I do now, and for good reason...it's not worth the rate for the shit you have to put up with. Does that make me a snob or a victim of GPS (Golden P*ssy Syndrome)? I think not. Might make me a bitch, but heh...I don't care lol.

Johnny3Balls285 reads

Just like not all hookers are built for every man. Still the champagne and beer comment dug deep. You may be opinionated, but you are respectful and respected. I've never seen you diminish anyone because of the amount of $$$ they want to spend.

about service when he is only spending 60 bucks. That might not be what you would be offended by, because you spend more, but I bet other guys at that budget, were pretty damn offended lol.

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I can imagine you just wouldn't waste your time interacting with such peons.....doing otherwise would be silly.


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having a sugar baby is just like being sucked into a Blackhole..once you are in it..it is hard to escape from..it will drain you..legitimate sugar babies are hard to find..most are scam artists looking for the quick and easy buck without giving it up..

Posted By: simontheman
I am finally going to try to satisfy my curiosity with the whole sugar baby thing. It's been on my mind for a while. My area has few escorts, but with there being a couple of regional colleges, there seems to be a plethora of girls doing the SB thing.
Any words of wisdom anyone can share??
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AnotherPerspective408 reads

I have zero interest in a Sugar baby for hire .
That said , my  advice based on life , there are too many variables to  begin to advise you .

 It's a completely  different world in  College town .
 
 How to attract  College girls  not in the provider game .
When you wear the right cologne in the College coffee shop , she might
gravitate to you .
Works like a charm if you're fine being  blind .
Don't go in with your   :-D eyes :-D  wide open .

  P.S. Speculation on the Sugar baby college scene ,  If you wear your best  Kiton  suit when you meet your College girl , don't expect her to be impressed ,  you will probably pay more for less passion , or she might ignore you .
 



 

Posted By: simontheman
I am finally going to try to satisfy my curiosity with the whole sugar baby thing. It's been on my mind for a while. My area has few escorts, but with there being a couple of regional colleges, there seems to be a plethora of girls doing the SB thing.
Any words of wisdom anyone can share??

LongTimePosterAlias267 reads

Choose carefully and you can have a lot of fun without breaking the bank.   I've met several women thru SD/SB websites and out in public, typically 20 years or more younger than me.  Overnights typically cost me less than the price of two hours with a provider.

But, the escorts are more upfront.  With an escort, it will cost XYZ and that's it.  With a sugar baby, be prepared for the cons, the sob stories, the I need xtra money for ABC.

If you do the SB route, my advice would be to have clear financial boundaries.  Otherwise, she will milk you for more and the drama will increase.

Help, my cat died, my mom's sick, my car needs fixed...

Yay, sounds like my wife.  Oh wait, she won't f... me.  Never mind

Posted By: DateJessicaK
But, the escorts are more upfront.  With an escort, it will cost XYZ and that's it.  With a sugar baby, be prepared for the cons, the sob stories, the I need xtra money for ABC.

If you do the SB route, my advice would be to have clear financial boundaries.  Otherwise, she will milk you for more and the drama will increase.

Help, my cat died, my mom's sick, my car needs fixed...

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