Of course!

Talking with the ladies is one of the main draws for me; so much the better if they have some Brains to go with that Beauty (mmm... lemme hear that voice, darlin’...)

 
And we can talk about /anything/, not just sexual desires (though THOSE never go outta style).

 
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But I love the ditzy dumbed down type, makes me feel intelligent LoL  

Seriously though. When I hobby, it’s for sensual sexual contact, not for an intelligent intellectual conversation.

Yes it arouses me to be challenged by a woman who can hold a conversation on numerous topics. But that’s not what I’m paying for.  

I guess there are others who might want there knowledge and intelligence challenged as foreplay, just not me.

While I never graduated after years pursuing 4 degrees of widely varied curriculum I will say I enjoyed the company of many young students pursuing those same degrees because we could hold a conversation about our course studies.

Many times after class and wine we talked until our passion about our studies overwhelmed us and we fucked like rabbits.  

I’m single now. My first wife was dumb as a box of rocks but fucked like a crazy woman. My second wife had her doctorates in biology and was as dull as a lump on a log.

So in the hobby it’s nice to be able to have a conversation, but please fuck me first with wild abandon and surprise me later with how smart you are, I’ll likely repeat, for either of those points.

As long as the also have a sexy face, DSLs and a banging bod.

For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.
-Isabel Allende.... and for hobbyists the best provider encounters, the ones that will keep you coming back for more and not just a one nighter are the ones where the girl is fully present in mind and body. If you look into her eyes and you find her looking back, if you sneak a peak down there when she is loving you with her mouth and can sense that nothing else is more important to her at that moment than your excitement and pleasure, if she truly appears as though the whole rest of the world has temporarily vanished during your time together and at the end has a big smile on her face that reflects the way you feel but cannot find adequate words for, you will be running to see that girl time and time again.

I use big words, even if I don't understand them so people will think I'm ambidextrous

... as long as she is obviously competent to give consent ...

......... I turned 13 and hormones kicked in.  

My life failing has been being attracted to beautiful and intelligent women. It's also been my success.
Most of the wonderful women that I frequent are smart enough to push me out the door when my time is up.  
Actually, the real attraction, aside from beauty and sexual prowess, is emotional maturity. I equate that with intelligence.
So, discussions are intelligent and sometimes powerful or sometimes just sweet and kind.  
That is incredibly attractive to me.  Now, as usual I am verbose. Time to listen to the other geniuses.

Yep, a big part of the chemistry and attraction for me to any woman is her combination of smarts, intelligence and education (three different aspects of her mind).

One of my faves and I spent 20 minutes discussing metalworking, blades and custom katanas while sharing champagne and getting warmed up. We also share esoteric appreciations for the earth sciences, natural history and SCUBA -- then we get naked and have the hottest sex I've had in years.

Part of the exothermic reproductive activity (see how I'm being all sesquipedalian there? ) is the mind/body connection. For me, the more intimate the mental and personal connection, the hotter the sex. We riff on all sorts of things while in the midst of naked play time -- she brings out the e-stim machine, we did a bit of off-the-cuff role play yesterday and it totally works because we have a connection based on aspects in addition to the carnal.

It's the reason we travel 250 miles one-way to see each other.

If a woman doesn't give me a reason to engage with her other than her body and the physical aspect of performance, then yes, I can have a good time with her -- but I'm not likely to repeat with her, and especially not multiple times a year.

Engage my mind and my Dino Dick (TM pending) will follow

I appreciate dirty talk that’s both vulgar and educational.  Something like, “I’m gonna fuck you like your cunt was Carthage during the Third Punic War in 149 BC.”

Thank God For Women & Both ..Brains and Vaginas And MEN....and their Brains And Cocks 👄👄

Three longest RL relationships were all with women who held a doctorate (PhD, JD). My ATF has her masters in mathematics, speaks 4 languages, and I can't keep my eyes off of her she is so beautiful.

 
On the other hand, sometimes a little minx who just likes to fuck is fun too.

Yes.  Yes, there are.  I love sex talk in coherent sentences with clever allusions.  I wish I could do it while under the influence of the awesome ladies who do it for me, but the Creator's hydraulic miscalculation intervenes.  Sometimes betweentimes, yeah... .

We are all interesting creatures here.  While it's not required in this arena, it's nice to have something else hot to think about other than just when I'm supposed to be sucking dick.