How does it feel to the ladies? I started growing a beard, and a few of my lady friends tell me it itches when  I kiss them, or that  it irritates their  "Pudenda" area when i DATY.
Now I am about to shave it off, unless it  happens to be  a positive thing. Any opinions from the  wise  men and ladies on TER?.

Well, personaly I don't like facial hair on men. It just feels yucky.  However there are many ladies that love it. Maybe just shave half your face. That way you're sure to please everyone!!!

Me personally I don't like beards- usually they are scruffy looking and yes they do irritate when they are first growing in.  Maybe you should just try a clean cut mustache at first and see what feedback you get.  Now to me, a goatee is just majorly HOT HOT HOT!!!!

"Such a beautiful face, why hide it?"

...a few ladies have commented.

Mostly it has been positive, saying that the sensation is interesting, or at least different.

A few have been negative, saying that it feels too weird.  I've seen one gal who refuses to see me until I shave - it ain't gonna happen, even though she is a top provider in my locale!!!

A couple of tips -

1) Don't trim to close!  The shorter your facial hair, the more likely it is to irritate.

2) Trim your beard a couple of days before your meeting!  Electric trimmers can leave a lot of jagged edges, which fall off with time.

I hope this helps,

jazz32

I tried it,let it grow long, then shaved it off. Left a lot of red,irritated pussies around. Clean face is better from my point of view .

Its length changes all the time so I have years of DATY experience ranging from the 3 day “stubble” length all the way to a 5 month growth, which is 2 to 3 inches long.

It varies from woman to woman of course, but I have had many ladies who claim to have very sensitive skin that do not mind at all (and even enjoy) when the length is longer than about 1/2 inch.

At very short lengths, many ladies object to even attempting DATY, although it can be in part psychological. Depends on technique but many woman don't want you to try due to their previous experiences. That's fine. I have had some success with a few, talking them into what became an enjoyable experience.

When attending to the main area (hood of clit) you must be careful to not drop your chin into the lower vaginal opening (this also probably depends on the shape of your face and chin). The secondary negative will be your cheeks rubbing against the inside of her thighs, but she can mostly control that. Unless of course she loses control and ends up being one of those women that tries to squeeze your head off at the neck (LOL).

Then there are the few ladies (very few) that actually enjoy all the "roughness" that you can provide with a trim beard. Go figure.

The softness at longer lengths will also depend on the style and thickness of your beard. Shampooing and conditioner actually helps here.

At longer lengths, I like to say that my beard is like a “mink glove”. Many agree, some don’t.

Right now, I've been letting it grow out for my crusade to Vegas in a week.

I agree with ed, if you are gentle on the clit and v she will never know its there. i love my flava sava personally so do my ladies and wife.

btw i have a goatie not full beard


uc

my kind of man!!!!!!!!!

Shave it! The smell of smoke really lingers in the hairs and can be so overpowering to where I don't want my face anywhere near yours.

But if you're not a smoker- I find a goatee (well-trimmed, not too full) to be absolutely gorgeous. I almost have a fetish for them! If you do have a full beard, that can really feel pretty nice down there- again, keeping it extremely clean is essential.

I agree, I dont like facial hair either, its very prickly, specially to our "sensitive areas"

I'm clean shaven baby.  Looking forward to seeing you in 2008.

why thank you! Bring it on!

...the sexier women seem to find me. Go figure.

On the other hand, I have yet to make the cover of a romance novel. [shrug]

I agree, too.

Facial hair is a huge no-no for me.

Feels like a brillo pad against my sensitive areas.

I have had a beard since the 1960s. One time in 1990 I shaved it off before I went on a scuba training vacation and I hated the way I looked. All the worst of Jim Backus (also I was about 100 pounds overweight).
 Met a couple of women online who didn't like beards and figured different strokes . . . etc.
 About 5 months ago I met a lady who has become an ATF, great friend and I don't know what all. I just found out the other day that my beard "tickles" her. I had always shampoo'ed, creme rinse, the whole 9 yards to keep it soft and tame.
 Now I am reconsidering. Knowing her I have lost almost 30 pounds and somewhere in my head is a number that will make it all right for me to show my chin again.
 Also, as a DATY fan a large part of the fun is getting her high and if she ends up with a scortched thigh problem afterwards I have to reconsider.
 This is one of my more interesting problems in life.
Beret