I love it sometimes it seems concockted, other times its genuine,
either way give it to me, baby.  "Do I make you horney?"  shagalicious, baby!

And I also like "directional" dirty talk like:

Well, are you going to pull my panties down?

Or perhaps...

Are you fucking me today, or what?

I find this very helpful.

I can do either way. But the use of language, among other things, influences

how I will think of you, and how I will respond to you....

a major potty mouth is not conducive to GFE in my view - but of course perhaps others have chosen different girlriends LOL

So my response will be more PSE than BFE '

That is not a "bad" thing - depends on what you want out of a session -

never underestimate a lady's "power" to set the stage. P4P is a different headspace than civvie boy/girl in many respects.

I'm definitely with David in that if it's going to happen then it's only sexy if the person means it when they're saying it.

That said, I won't dirty-talk if I'm not feeling it. This really just depends who I'm with and the mood we're in.  I agree that it's more of a PSE than GFE/BFE... not that I haven't gotten dirty with boyfriends/girlfriends (lol), but dirty talk really seems to be reserved for the raunchier, rougher, chandelier-swinging monkey-sex. (Ha!)

If I'm feeling like dirty-talk might be good for the mood, I'll usually start out with something like "You like that? Hmm?" -- some sort of question -- and their response tells me if we should get more into the dirty talk.  If they're quiet then I know they're not all that into it, but if they moan loudly or talk shit back to me, then the game is on. :-p

Re: Talk Dirty To Me.....

i feel its a mandatory part of her seuality.if a lady realy enjoys what she is doing, i feel she will say and tell you what she feels and likes, if it all turns into a nasty talking session and the gent joins in with his feelings then all the better,i personally like to see just how verbal a lady realy can get and i hope it all turns into sexual ephoria.

I tend to like some... not too pornographic (call it naughty)... call it verbalization of desired action, "God I want you to lick my pussy..." kind of thing.

While I'm doing it... I generally only want talk if I need to focus differently to get you off. Otherwise, act naturally to the moment for you...

I tend to find the "Fuck me with that fat cock you big stub" to be disingenuous, even if it (could) were real.

I'd say find a middle road until you get to know the guy.

Their words are as erotic as any part of their body or activity that we perform.

The trick is for it to seem totally natural and not contrived.

Contrived talk that attempts to mock a cheapo porn firm has just the opposite effect.

Good sex talk is a skill to be honed just as giving head or riding cowgirl or kissing or any of the many activites that make this hobby so much fun.

I love some dirty talk but it has to be real. If it's some BS out of a lame pr0n video then it's just distracting.

But a woman who tells me what she wants or what she wants to do to me? Yeah buddy, that's pretty hot stuff!

Sometimes the girl will overdo it and ruin it and you can't tell her to shut up lol

personally, i love it.

... If its a natural reaction to the activity of the moment, then hell yes, get uninhibited, cut loose let the whole fucking neighborhood know you're in the midst of great sex.

When its obviously contrived, it can be a distraction and a turn-off.

On the other hand, I'm so into the oral game most of the time the only one the neighbors hear, is me:P