how many of you had a provider that allowed you to CIM?  Also do they usually swallow or spit it out?  I just thought I'd ask, seemed like the next step from the post below *smile*

I can not think of how she can do "to completion" and not allow "cum in mouth".

"how many of you had a provider that allowed you to CIM?  Also do they usually swallow or spit it out?"

Most I've seen do BBJ, less than half are to completion, but most of those have swallowed.

bringing you right up to the brink of orgasm, then applying the last couple of strokes with hand or body part to avoid the CIM.  As opposed to starting with a BBBJ, but applying a party hat well before completion and either continuing the BJ or proceeding to FS or other activity... or applying the cover before any other activity, e.g. CBJ.


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I am not ashamed to say that I do bbbjtc without swallowing. I am don't swallow for I am not fond of the taste of semen (. The only guy that I had swallowed, was a guy that I had dated for a while, who was a vegan, and the taste was fantastic!

Mel

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Half spit, half swallow.  To me, the swallowing isn't a particular turn-on itself, but it can be with certain looks & comments.  Someone once said, good sex is really made by what you say and the faces you make - fairly accurate. The CIM part is what I find glorious.  
My all time best BJs were from an old GF.  GOD she was good!!  I wish I knew at the time (I was about 25) that she was as good as it gets.  Once, we had a bet that I wouldn't pop in a minute (60 f-ing seconds, how could I lose?).  She won with lots of time to spare - I was totally "blown" away.  Oral was better than sex with her because she would not use the pill, so FS was always covered.
The bet? I had to give her daty on demand for a week afterward - life was such a bummer!!! LOL

...seems to be that she can just stay there afterwards without jumping up to clean/spit. As was mentioned in that thread below, that period right after cumming can be extra special and it's ruined (at least to some degree) if the lady gets aggitated instead of relaxed.

Don't get me wrong

I am not one to jump up and run off to rinse. Just because I am not fond of the taste, I refuse to take away my client's pleasure of him enjoying himself, with him in my mouth Infact, I stay right on his member, way after he does ejaculate, for it's important that his needs are met Then, my needs can be met, by me rinsing lol But, I can see where a gentleman would be agitated by a provider, who just upped and ran off to rinse, and not allow the time for him to "cum down" from heaven.

Mel

a lady swallow my cum... its so erotic... however i would say it has been about 50% of the providers that do bbbj have swallowed...
just something I noticed was that alot of asian providers have swallowed mine...

I wanted to clarify that many women do provide bbbj's but don't provide "to completion" and was wanting to know if the "to completion" (CIM) was a requirement for getting your business.

I have always provided bbbj's but i've never provided "to completion" (CIM) because I have a SO and don't feel comfortable having him read this in my reviews. Other's what's your feel on this?

I booked one provider just for the BBBJTC noted.

After CIM she jumped up ran to the bathroom and I was treated to gagging coughs, spits and many rinses.  It did not enhance the moment.  I have not returned.

I just returned from a visit with a provider who gave BBBJTCNQNS. While the experience was fantastic and I will return for more, My ATF provides a more complete GFE and she will just do CBJ.  Providers, we hobbyists are looking for just as much emotional release as physical.  The complete package will keep us coming back for more.

it really doesn't turn me on too much; maybe a facial. lol  I remember I saw a lady who gave me my first bbbjtcim, it was good but I was shocked she did that.  afterward I was reluctant to kiss her.  lol.  I know I was stupid and selfish.  :P  Wish you luck in deciding what will be best for you Requirements.  

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I find that eye-contact/winks/verbal-teasing far outweigh TC/CIM ... I think for most guys (not all), swallowing is NOT a big deal (can't say I blame you ladies for spitting it out). BUT ... finishing with facials (sans-CIM) on the other hand, is most men's "holy grail" of oral play and it approaches sheer "nirvana" with PCH!

btw, Melinda is right: veggies/vegans definitely taste better. Been one for 20yrs and never had a complaint from girlfriends/providers who were inclined to taste it (and red meat will sour your essence, trust me!)

did i mention EYE-CONTACT ladies? ok ... just checking!

Okay, I accept and respect taste, surprise, health and the like are all issues.  Yet jumping up to spit and rinse sorta interrupts the moment too.  For me, when that happens it makes me wonder if the discharge (clinical term, but PC)is 'offensive' and then dampens the euphoria that was only moments before.  What we are all looking for is a compromise.  Unless one has an aversion to the result of the moment (and if so, aren't you in the wrong business), why not engage in some 'play' with the remains??  Look up and drool or spit right there, rub on breasts or even on the 'dispenser' for that matter, continue fondling and touching, see how long of stands you can make, whatever...., even have a glass of juice or water nearby in advance if taste is an issue.  Then there is no need to jump up, still avoids swallowing and keep the heat of the moment rolling right along.  The few times I have had that kind of experience has been very erotic for me. Quite visual.  But then, that's me.....

I do thank those gentlemen, who have NOT complained, and UNDERSTOOD, that yes- EVENTUALLY, I will need to rinse my mouth out, in order for me to continue other activies To me, they represent a type of man, that I like having around me: Someone who understands and actually care about how I feel. THANK YOU GENTLEMEN


Mel

For ladies who do TC (which seems to be more rare every day) why not set up a hand towel nearby for discrete removal and then some mouthwash to rinse and a glass?  If health isn't the issue - and shouldn't it be? - why not have a nice drink nearby for her.  I think my wife drank about 400 gallons of koolaid when we were in college and dating as she perfected her technique.  Contrary to what some may think semen breath isn't that sexy after its been in there awhile. I was damn glad she drank some koolaid! And for here it's not like she just had a refreshing glass of ice cold water - semen is hot, sticky, thick - a gentleman should have a drink  handy to clear her palate.

I agree.  Given the disease aspect of this hobby, I think it is reassuring when a provider at least takes the small precaution of mouthwash after the CIM.

I havent had an opportunity as a provider yet, but when I do they would get the same treatmeant as any other one of my bf or sex partners.  So if something was to happen and I got the urge to give a BBBJ it would be a CIM mouth opportunity but I just can't stand the taste and Im not a "facial" kind of girl but none of my ex partners have ever had a problem with me spitting because I don't hop up immediately when I'm done.  I do however head to the bathroom while hes taking a break and relaxing.  I see that a few women have a problem with bbbj with CIM but to me its just easier I dont have to guesstimate when s guy is gonna cum and risk catching it in my eye ( I heard that burns like hell!)  I dunno thats just my .02 cents.

Mouth wash is what us ladies doooooooo, use

After his "high" is gone, I excuse myself like a lady should, and head to the bathroom to wash up. Sorry, but I find it more rude to keep a cup right there, and have the gentleman watch me spit out his semen. I find that more rude, than excusing one's self to the bathroom lol I am pretty sure, some men would agree to that Those are the type gentlemen, that I tend to see and a preference for. Besides, what gentleman would not let a lady take care of herself, with a fresh mouth??? I am just thankful for those gentlemen friends of mine, for being respectful of that fact, that I just don't swallow, and allow me a minute to refreshen my breath, for some continuance of dfk with a clean mouth

Mel

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One swallowed and the other one didn't which didn't bother me because my eyes were rolled up in the back of head and I couldn't see anything anyway.  For me it was just the sensation of that extra suction that does it for me.

Although I might be a little disturbed if a provider felt the need to floss afterwards!! (LOL)

In my area, finding a provider that swallows is very rare.  The ones' that generally do are older or of a body type that I don't particularly care for so it's a catch-22.  So when I find someone who I find attractive who offers that, I keep coming back for more...  I only wish more did, oh well

Out of at least 30 that did BBBJ, I can only remember 5 that allowed CIM, and of those 5, 2 spit, and 3 swallowed.  By the way, of the 5 that allowed CIM, 2 did not allow CIM on the first visit (and they both swallowed on the second visit).

As one provider once told me, "If you are going to let a guy come in your mouth, you might as well swallow it!"

V.

I rinse with peroxide after unprotected oral sex. There are several links that say alcohol based mouthwashes should be avoided. Several of these also favor the use of peroxide.

http://www.jhu.edu/~dsaga/minutes/19990308.html

http://www.tdh.state.tx.us/hivstd/infoline/tapes/oral.htm

Most providers I've seen offer CIM because that's my minimum requirement.  More than half swallow because I especially like that and seek it out.  Its a huge turn on for me knowing she's going to swallow my cum.  I don't see providers now who won't at least do CIM and when I find a cute swallower, I'm in love!

I have had the pleasure of a wonderful BBBJTC from Jenni in San Diego and I do have to say the DFK with the taste of my cum on her lips was delightful. Appreciating the taste of semen is like all other acquired tastes. I didn't like caviar or olives either when I was younger. And for that matter if you can find a girl that loves the taste and feel of oysters in her mouth you have a keeper that will certainly learn to swallow.

Amen, well said.  When I do searches I ALWAYS look for ladies who do BBBJTC and swallow.  It's such a huge turn on for me.

I'm not sure why some men make such a big thing out of coming in the mouth and swallowing. For me, blow jobs are fun and a fgreat part of foreplay, but not the end-all and be-all. Some guys seem to feel cheated if they don't finish in the woman's  mouth or she doesn't swallow.

Oh well. Tastes differ...er..different strokes for...er...damn, I can't escape the cliches. You know what I mean.

What I don't understand is women making a big deal out of us coming in your mouth--I personally taste very sweet according to my partners. Must be all the Diet Coke, pineapple juice, and grapefruit juice that I drink.
I mean, c'mon--when I DATY, I do it until a woman gushes all her juices on my lips, tongue, teeth, etc--and I love the taste of women coming in my mouth. I grip their thighs as they come and they literally have to push my head away or I won't stop.

If you are worried about the force of the ejaculate hitting the back of your throat--just tell us to warn you ahead of time. I had a GF who used the bottom part of her tongue to catch the semen in her lower palate. She never swallowed because she said it was extra calories and she was always on a diet. But I CIM all the time.......