Check out this article.

maybe just the women.lol
didn' read the link.

Lots of sex addicts both hobbiest and providers in Nyc.

Sexual addiction is not defined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM -IV TR). So if the APA doesn't give it an axe to grind, why would any of us label ourselves. You know the old joke about too much masturbating will make you go blind, well, I want to fuck until I need a glasses, a cane, and a scooter chair.

DO YOU THINK THEY'D BE GIVING IT UP TO US FOR FREE? WTF

does that make you angry?

It seems to bother you the Ladies won't fuck you for free.

And this is a surprize because.....what?
This IS pay 4 play...right?

if it angers you to have to pay for sex I suggest you go back to hitting on hotties in the bars.

When you start coming here and playing in this venue you should already have resolved yourself to the very basic and simple FACT that she will not fuck you for free. Its a business here that they are running.
Do you work for free?
Do you tell your boss," no keep my paycheck I love comin here"
so why is it a bad thing when a lady in this "business" expects to be paid for her time at work?

Get over it.

I'm not angry. Where did you get that Dr.? Maybe you went to the wrong Pre-Med school Freud. lol

It is so hilarious to see the response on this board from the girls and their Mangina White Knights that cannot accept reality.

Yes of course it is Pay For Play. What other reason could I have for inserting the photo of $100 dollar bills? You are living in a dream world if you think that the ladies think of anything less or more than the money. Get over yourself sir. You are a sex addict just like me. Twist it all the ways you want to. Or, why not riddle us this? Give up chasing after and paying for pussy tomorrow, better yet today and lets see how you feel. Bit of unhappiness setting is is there, without that pussy? Need mental health provider? Not really we do what we like.

On the ladies side, go ahead girl stop providing sex for money tomorrow, better yet try today. Would bitterness set in real soon? Would there be a sense of OMFG how do I pay this months bills?

Please stop insulting the intelligence of the Non-Mangina subscribers to this board and tell it like it is. Its all about the MONEY honey.

Isn't that how this game is run?

A provider provides an escape from reality. Discussions of money and intrusions of real life would shatter that fantasy, wouldn't it?

I am slightly mildly concerned you think this way..but then again, everyone is entitled to their opinions. Whatever creams your twinkie!

Just don't hate on the ones that live their life according to their rules and not yours.

This P4P is about a fantasy world. I think you need to lighten up a bit...and see a provider who can whisk you away into a fantasy world so you let go of the bitterness.

We ALL, men and women, have a sense of OMFG how am I going to pay the bills. It is the price one pays for being an adult.

Why let realism intrude on fantasy when it doesn't have to?

do you work for free? Of course not.
If you quit your job you would have a bit of trouble paying your bills, so you'd find another job. Whats the point in that, you already have a job so why bother. One you like I hope as most women in this business like what they do and the money is good.

No I am on the recieving end of the financial transaction here so the only pussy I like is my own. I am not addicted to pussy or $$$ its my job so of course, I get paid, and I like my job so why switch to something else.

If anything I am smart enough to see there are many men out there who are addicted to sex and I am taking advantage of that addiction by providing a service they will pay greatly for Because they have an addiction as you put it. I capitalize on what about me is sellable for a great price and the weakness of men who are willing to pay. It's a business.

If you aren't angry, why is that the only time you trot out this alias is to complain about provider's being only about the benjamins, or to complain about how bad TER has gotten? Nope, no bitterness there fella!

I will concede that your analysis fits some women. There are in fact some women who are all about the bennies, and nothing else. I made my tongue in cheek post to make the point that providers are not one size fits all. For some of us, it is about more than the money.

YES, as a matter of fact I could stop providing tomorrow. Not only would I have no trouble paying the bills, but in this economy, I would probably be earning more than I am currently. But I like what I do, so why would I give that up? To go back to a job I hated? Hell no.

PS. Can we agree that I won't tell you to kiss my grits, if you won't call me honey?

What isn't an addiction. Too much of anything is now labeled an addiction whether it be to food, caffeine, drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, whatever. Why must we be labeled. Do what you enjoy and don't judge others enjoying what they do. As long as we are not hurting someone (unless they want to be lol) who the Fuck really cares? Well, I'll tell you who cares the therapists making money off of your addiction. Talk about money whores...

All kinds of crap is WAY overdiagnosed, overmedicated etc etc etc etc. Generally, of course, by those who benefit from the overdiagnosing!

but are you cooking is the question? I promise to not call you honey in any event what so ever. This I promise.

Now, back to the facts.

A couple of the ladies here seem to have painted a picture in their mind that I am ANGRY. That is so funny I can't stop peeing my pants.

"I love what I do", "I love my Job" yada yada yada.

The fact of the matter is no matter how you spin it and you are all the master spin doctors, is you would not give away your pussies for FREE. Of course some will retort back of course; "Hell yes I would give some away free, IF I FELT LIKE IT" of course. ROFLMFAO

I am trying not to get angry here, cause it would mess up my 11am Pussy Buying Romp. Funny, she's my ATF and has been for what 3 years now. I have yet to get any free pussy. lmao  Course I have not asked for any either though. I'm just fine with it and so is she.

We both understand. She sells pussy for a living, actually does love her job too and is more than energized like a pink bunny. Me, I have no qualms of forking over the money either. And shit, we dispensed with the envelope a long ass time ago.

Toodles... gonna get me some. Oh, did I say I am addicted to pussy? Not sex pussy. hahaha

You obviously don't make enough.

You rang my bell, I did not call on you.

But, since you did pop in to say hello, my previous statement stands regarding what ladies are addicted to. Only the Mangina's or the world, or has that been interchanged with White Knights, would take exception to the point.

I was not aware that the amount of money a man had made the man. After all I am only but an Aspiring Monger, not a wealthy experience one like yourself. But since you brought up the point of how much I make, I feel most comfortable in stating I am far above your pay grade, trust me.

Here, perhaps this can help you with your next session, when ever that might be.

Just like with fat people, they have to start saying "No."

Well hell YEAH I'm cookin baby!

BTW: Just have to say, THIS is how to have a disagreement. With a smile

Ok, maybe angry isn't the right word. More like cynical. You are just very very cynical

We are just going to have to agree to disagree on this point I guess. Do I charge? Yes I do. Do I love what I do? Hell YES I love it. I'm living the dream fella.......doing what I love, and loving what I do.

I will bite...for me it is about the money. If it wasn't about the money I would do it for free. Found that being paid is much, much better. That does not mean I'm in any way damaged by it. There are some clients I really enjoy and others not so much...just like any other job.

I give it my all just like I would with any activity I get paid for. It's a business of providing and illusion and being good at what one does. Business is great so obviously I am doing something right/well or it wouldn't be.

It definitely means more to the masses when spoken in that way.

To say "I love my job", and all others to the exclusion of telling it like it really is just insults peoples intelligence. BCD, tell him whatever he wants to hear. lol Thanks for sharing.