This is a follow up thread to one below posted for providers.

My own answer.....

That it's so damn hard to get to see the ladies you really want to see. I mean, when I was a skinny pimple-faced teenage kid I knew I had no chance with the most desirable ladies but then you get older and make your fortune and think money can buy you what you missed out on in your youth only to find out you are right back in the same predicament. I won't list all of my experiences but it seems like it's always something no matter who I fix on and try to see - either screening information I don't want to give, inability to nail down a date with a provider who travels a lot, doesn't do incalls and can't book a hotel nearby - whatever - always seems to be something.

Sounds to me like you're trying to make up for lost experiences quickly. I have no idea of your approach and it's none of my business and I really don't care. But just be smooth, man. Think about what you want and what a beautiful woman can give you and tip-toe into it cleverly and respectfully. Patience does pay off and I have the gray hair to prove it. Good luck and be happy. gf60

That as long as i have the cash, i can sleep with some of the most gorgeous women in the world.
Been sleeping with a gorgeous 25 year old lately.....life is good.
Not sure why your having such a difficult time. ( especially if you have lots of cash )
Dude, their are ladies right here on TER, that will ROCK YOUR WORLD.
Maybe i need to set your dates up for you? Some of us are just better at it than others!!
Let me know!! ( be glad to do it )

-- Modified on 8/20/2012 10:51:07 PM

probably a combination of bad karma and bad luck..i have been very lucky so far to see who i want to see with no problems..that is the best thing about this hobby..all your fantasies eventually do come true..

min. but not two freaking hours you goofball! If you want more time, buy more time..doi! Come shop in the south...we are cheap here ha ha.

Its like that, sometimes you gotta make a little sacrifice to get what you want. That goes with the screening. Also, sometimes you gotta spend a bit or travel a bit to get what you want. Nothing is easy as 1,2,3. I sometimes drive 45 miles to get some good pussy. I also sometimes have to book hotels too. Sure, sometimes you gotta give them a bit of information to get what you want.

Dear London:
Considering that you don't work a lot within a given month, when you're a ho your time is commensurate with your dough.  Therefore if he wants to smell your scents he must pay more cents.

locally because of that very reason. When I did have an hourly rate, I always gave an extra 15-20 min. because quite frankly I felt rushed as well. Then it hit me...just offer 90 min. for the hourly rate, and done deal. I make the same amount of money and he gets an extra half hour.

long ago...it was all about the guy getting off...and the wife's lack of enthusiam about giving a bj prompted a huge number of escort visits.

today oral sex is not near as taboo, in fact, may be most common (a la Clinton).

what i find different, from reading reviews is that guys like getting the girl off (me too).  maybe we feel more like a "man" if we have to power to orgasm a girl, maybe we just like seeing her squeel and wiggle.  reasons are many, i am sure.  but, i think, years ago, it was about getting the guy off, now...part of getting the guy off means (for many)  him getting her off too.

happy girls?

If you give a lady the run around about being screened then you will get the run around right back! Plus, I know rarely post and I am a not on here enough to know ya, but you seem pretty negative. You get what you give. If you expect us to not be human you will be not be treated as well! I cater to my guests as much as I can, but I am only human. How is a lady supposed to be able too book a hotel that works for you (who she has probably never met), but works for her and her repeats? If you want a certain location than maybe you can get the hotel or search by location. If you expect there to "always seem to be something" then there will always be something!
Good luck!

My two hour rate is very reasonable, so have to take that into account.

-- Modified on 8/21/2012 1:31:54 PM

What surprized me was how little a provider looks made the difference.  Some of the best ladies in bed were 4 to 8 in looks.  Sure there the exeptions, but I was surprize it was more about her autitude and ability to enjoy or act like she was into our time together.  I found out you can't judge a book by it cover to be ture.