The only way I agree to do this was to be able to talk with her several times prior. We talked very candidly about what the vacation would be like, what she wanted to do there, what I wanted to do etc.... Yes she could have been lying but my gut told me she was telling the truth. I had already seen her pictures on there and had her send me a few more and I sent her some of me. I wanted to make sure I would be appealing to her so we could act like a couple at all times.
Keep in mind once we got there she could have said no sex, no this, no that but then she would have been on her own and the only thing she would have received was a flight to the Cayman Islands. The room was in my name, I had the money etc.... so if she would have been lying and didn't want to be with me all the way then she would have been paying all of her own expenses and would have had to find another room. I also bought her a ticket to get there and a ticket to get home but it wasn't a roundtrip ticket. I had the ticket with me for her return.
Remember this was a business arrangement with an understanding up front on what we would do in and out of the room. Simply put I treated this like I was taking my girlfriend, I found out what she wanted to do, she said snorkeling, sunset cruise on a catamaran, pet the stingrays, and a few other things. I asked her to treat it like I was her boyfriend as well. We went with the idea of this is a blind date so to speak except for a few pictures and a few conversations mixed with the idea we were a couple.
The first two hours were simply a get to know you more with a few hugs and kisses then we went to the beach for a few hours, had dinner, took a long walk on the beach and back to the room. The sex was great but short because we were both exhausted. We woke up and acted like a couple the rest of the week. It was an incredible time with sex that ranged from great to mindblowing. That is why I am debating on seeing her again in October or seeing someone else.
