Re: Any Suggestions-need help

Oh how wonderful it would be to have a"full erection" and actually have the big O inside of a vagina!,,,Be thankful you don't have to take anti-depression meds!
Shows you how bad depression can be,if you give up the greatest feeling in life,just to be well!
Damn it anyhow!!!!!
Be thankful,very thankful!

If you do and still have fun after you cum then why stop..

Does having a big O end your travels or is their so much more to experience

If you said "no" then go ahead and do all the things you enjoy without needing to cum

If you said "yes" then figure out how long you can last without having that O and book that amount of time.

KissesHaley

I can only speak for myself...  I'm a few years older & my recovery time exceeds the limits of my dates.  So I enjoy all the date has to offer & I finish once...
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With a couple of my favorite ladies I am a one shot guy..... but getting there? Good Lord is that hot!

There are other ladies that get two or sometimes more out of me... but sometimes this is more like athletics that I enjoy at my age...

I enjoy the company of a couple of my one-shot favs more, enjoy the sensuality and the overall experience more... as well as the friendship. So to me more pops is not the prime consideration.

I found that I simply perform better if I'm in better physical condition.  Makes sense, doesn't it. If you're not exercising regularly, try working out three times a week for just an hour for a month and see what happens. I do stairstepping up to 30 minutes every day, if possible, and weights three times a week. My weight training only takes a maximum of about 40 minutes and I do everything at home. I've tried a lot of things but being in shape seems to make everything work better.

I personally feel that working up to one extremely enjoyable orgasm can be so much more satisfying than trying to push your body to do more!  Why is it soooooo important for a man to cum more than once?  I guess I just don't get it.  I imagine that we as women are lucky since we are blessed with multiple orgasms.  HOWEVER, I still prefer a long tease/buildup to one explosive O.  It is sooooo much better and more gratifying than a bunch of O's.  It is even better if the person you are with works with you and you both hold back and explode together with a body numbing O.  YES!  That has to be the absolute best.  (In my opinion of course)  I'm certain others may feel differently.

I say, work with what you've got and focus on completely enjoying youself within the boundaries of what your body can give you.  

Take Care and PLAY Safe...Betty xoxo

First of all, let's be clear: ED medications are a serious business so always see a doc who takes your physical condition seriously.  That being said, Viagra etc sensitize the arteries in your penis making your penis more responsive, quicker to get erect again and more likely to stay erect.  These meds may help you have a second climax.

I hate to pay attention to the score since I have had wonderful one shot sessions as well as the spectacular and very rare three shotter so I don't count or keep score.  

I am 67, I take Viagra on an empty stomach just before a date and book two hours unless I have more time then I ask for three. I have dates when I have one O followed by many sensations and cuddles, dates when I have two or very very rarely three, and dates when I have one O followed by a series of smaller Os.  With each of these, the pleasure comes from the tastes, smells, and feels of a lovely lady no matter how many Os result.

Worrying about Os is like sitting in a room trying not to think of a rhinoceros.

I agree with everyone else, that the 2nd shot might not be that important as long as the whole experience is enjoyable, but since you asked....

When working on shot 1, refrain from doing your favorite thing (as much as possible).  If it's oral, don't do oral, if it's FS...you get the idea.  That way for shot 2 you can repeat the things you already did for shot 1 and have the big finish of your favorite thing (assuming the provider is ok with what that is).  I personally stick with the 'one and done' providers as I am not usually good for a second shot in a short span, but I know when I've been intimate with an SO and we decide to go at it a second time (vacation or anniversary....not usual) I'm usually only successful if I get to partake in my preferred method of finishing as much as I want.

It's a suggestion....
SMEGMA!!

It is very rare for me to come twice in an hour or two. I too have tried everything, as with you starting is easy finishing is difficult. I can go four or five times is a 24 hour period, but twice in an hour is usually not attainable for me, especially since it usually takes me the better part of an hour to finish once.

I wish I had advice for you. My only suggestion would be do an activity that makes you finish the quickest for round one, and then do an activity that involves no condom such as a BBBJTC or a hand job to get that skin on skin contact. My only other advice is to book longer sessions or book sessions with two different ladies a couple of hours apart.

BTW ED drugs have no positive effect on your ability to cum, they may have the benefit of improving your recovery time to get hard again, but they are of absolutely no help to cum again, as a matter of fact most men report the exact opposite.