This is a question towards guys and is two-fold.

First:

I sometimes entertain gentlemen who are in town on business and they don't have a vehicle with them.  If we make dinner plans, I often volunteer to pick them up from their hotel in my personal car.  

My car is small and sporty and nice for zipping around town, but its not exactly the ideal car for chauferring clients and making a good impression.  I really like those big, new Jaguars for example.

Anyway, do guys care about what kind of car they are picked up in or is it irrelevant?  

Second:

I spend a decent amount of time watching the cable news channels and keeping up with current events and stuff.   I do this so that if someone asks me my opinion on a subject, I can answer without sounding like a complete dingbat.  

So my question is:  Guys, do you expect a provider to be bright?  If she wasn't, would it turn you off?  How important is it that she be able to carry on a conversation?  Would you continue to see a girl, even if she was an airhead?

On occasion I am picked up from the airport or the hotel or whatever so that we may start our date. I think it'd be quite hypocritical of me to make comments, or even think negatively of a lady's ride.

Shit, you ain't seen mine.  

Second, I understand the desire to want to be able to carry on a conversation with someone on their level. But the way I look at it is, they picked you for some reason. Maybe you're hotter than hell. Sweet as candy. Or really know how to show a guy a damn good time.

My point is, though you're there for them, they felt comfortable enough with you already to make a date with you just the way you are. Know what I mean?

You don't have to be the quintessential Miss America brainiac sex fiend to get a date.

Just be you. Nothing's sexier than a lady comfortable in her own skin. When you know you're sure of yourself and you project that unto others, they'll appreciate who you are and will make for a wonderful experience!

a client should not be cridical of your choice in vehicles.  There should be enough room for the client & his lugage.  
The only thing I'd say is the car should be reasonably clean, especially inside, to make a good impression.  
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A provider picking me up in her own car? That would be a royal treatment for me. All I would be expect is the car is reasonably clean and not reeking with cigarette odor.

Where are you honey? Are you in DC area by any chance? If yes, I want to see you.

The car won't matter to me. Clean and dependable is the only issue. There are two of you. A big fancy car is not necessary.

Yes, I like for the lady to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation.

"Anyway, do guys care about what kind of car they are picked up in or is it irrelevant?"  

I could not care less about your car you I drive a over 20 year old truck. Yes it is heavily costumed but it still is an old work truck. If you don't mind my ride trust me I wont mind yours. As long as it is clean I would be happy.

"Guys, do you expect a provider to be bright?"

Yes, I do. I expect any professional to be intelligent and educated in their profession. Providers are no exception. Now as far as current events go, that is not a deal breaker, but I do expect a certain level of mental competence. If not I move on.

"If she wasn't, would it turn you off?"

Yes. I don't require her to be well educated. I am looking for her to be able to smart enough to keep us both safe and carry a basic conversation. If not I will not be back.

"How important is it that she be able to carry on a conversation?"

Vital. I spend about half my session talking to the lady. She must be able to carry a conversation or else, I well get bored. If I get bored I will not re-book.

"Would you continue to see a girl, even if she was an airhead?"

Depends on what you mean by an airhead. If you mean unwise or unintelligent, no, I would not continue to see her. If you mean uneducated, or not up to date on current events, maybe depending on the rest of the package. The things I look for in provider in order of importance is integrity, professionalism, personality, skills, looks, basic intelligence, communication skills, and then education. If everything else is in order I would be fine if her knowledge base was bit limited in so areas.

Yes...I like to have conversation before, after, and during sex.  Typically, I can converse on broad spectrum of topics, but if the girl is completely ignorant about the current events, then that is a buzz killer...

A smart woman is a major turn-on.

This is what I have a problem with. You didn't book time with her to talk the whole time, right?

I've had the pleasure, and am currently, talking with ladies that have a hell of a lot more to say, meaning, they're much more intriguing than just what may happen between the sheets.

I agree that their intellect is also satisfying, but come on. That wasn't the initial reason why any guy booked with them in the firstplace.

And actually, I think it would be funnier than shit if I was picked up at the airport by a wonderful lady and her car took a shit on us somewhere on the freeway!

I'm twisted that way, and it's life's little follies that make for the interesting stories and the ability to laugh about them...

I appreciate the feedback!  

Of course I am mentally competent (most days) and can carry on a decent conversation.  I was basically trying to find out if guys really cared if girls know about the economy, stock market, presidential candidates etc.  But it seems like the consensus is, she doesn't have to be a genius but she also can't be a complete moron.

Good to know.  Now I can stop watching all this damn CNN lol!

just do your job.  sometimes the short answer is the best one.   Now I know a lot of others like a lot of conversation but after 26 years of marriage I am talked out.

 

If a lady advertises as upscale... then the car shouldn't look like it's falling apart. That would be my only 'request' lol. No need to be a bugati, benz, lexus, bmw, etc...  I'm really not much of a car guy. I don't know much about cars either and don't care. As long as the car is SAFE, as in, has minimum safety requirements... and the lady is driving safely without talking on the cell phone or DUI, I would be fine.

As for 'intellectual' discussions: It would really turn me off if the discussion turned into some strong opinion about politics... or blurting out psychobabble with lingos. I'm MORE interested in knowing more about the girl herself not her vast knowledge in various topics that I'm not even interested in discussing.

But that's just me. I think, to generalize it, the most important point would be to keep the conversation "fun" rather than just talking about things for the heck of it in order to kill time.

Actually, there was one lady who really impressed me by showing her true intelligence in something else that I have zero knowledge or talent in.  One of my favorite ladies from a while ago, was able to recall every topic we discussed in reverse chronological order. How I found out was when a waitress interrupted our conversation and I forgot. I asked the provider, "Hmm, what were we talking about?". She responds "First we were talking about A, then B, then C, then D, and then we drifted to X, then went back to D, and now E... ". etc. ...   Heck I have trouble remembering what I was talking about the last 5 minutes, let alone the last 3 hours. This showed me that she 1) has a very exceptional memory and that 2) she was paying close attention to what I was saying to the point where she could intelligently summarize it in her own words.


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Exactly! Call me old fashioned. A masochist. WTF-ever. There's something about the gleam in their eyes when they talk about something that's passionate to them.

That's not to say I want our whole time on the clock to be all blah, blah, blah...

But you can't fuck for two hours straight, lol.

You know what I dig? I smoke, and if the lady does too and after she fucked me, quite well, we take a breather. I'm lying on my back, her on her side next to me, ashtray on my chest, and we talk for a while till the cigs go out. Then we start to fondle each other, talking and kissing on each other until lil mikey is ready to go again.  

Oh yeah, its got all the latest safety equiptment.  It comes with driver AND passenger side doors, an airbag, no seatbelts but theres a "oh shit" bar on the ceiling that you can grab onto if you get nervous and an 8 track player for your listening pleasure.

I would feel intimidated if you picked me up in a jaguar. I think it would be a priviledge just to get picked up by the lady. The car doesn't matter. But a simple car would be better for me. She doesn't need to impress me. In fact I just recently had a date where the provider did pick me up in her car. It was a 90 something Toyota camry  She was a down to earth girl next door type personalilty and the car fit. We had been together several times before so we know each other well. She obviously didn't have to impress me, and I felt totally comfortable. On a previous date where I picked her up, I actually borrowed a car, because I was embarrassed to pick her up in mine. Next time I won't feel bad picking her up in my work van

As for brains, yes I like smart ladies, with some education, who can communicate, but they don't need to be college graduates or have an extensive knowledge of current events. Hell I don't like to discuss politics, and I don't know shit about the stock market. But I do longer dates,and we spend a lot of time hanging out and talking, so we do need to have something we can talk about, so we don't get bored. Of course every guy is different in what they look for so my answers don't fit everyone, but they fit me

with that corinthian leather and vinyl roof, it's to die for!

Nor any more efficient means to garble up a tape once you get sick of it.

If any technology could define the '70s, that was it.

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Not that it's any kind of deal breaker, but it is a plus.  A bigger plus is when she lets me take it for a spin.

My car is a big old American roadhog, so when I get my hands of the wheel of something sporty, I love it.

I have met at least three gals with the new Ford Mustang.  That seems to be very popular with them.

A long time ago one favorite told me she'd have a big surpirse for me when I came over.  She showed off her brand new Beamer.  She gave me a ride all over town, and it was one of the most fun times I ever had with a gal.

And yes, brains are very sexy.  A good mind fuck is always very much appreciated.

Whereever it is now, that is.

"The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think." Men responds to visuals while women to words is well recognised.

However, on cars, yes, men care, a lot. But a clean car would do gnerally for me.

I'm a sucker for intelligent women... They are extremely hazardous to my libido...

...as for the car, moderately clean... I've had three ladies chauffeur me and none where driving a Jag...

Actually, could you pick me up on a Harley? Might be a real kick in the ass...

I didn't book to talk the whole time but, I do like for the lady to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. I booked for the sex. You'll note I didn't say I wouldn't see her again if she was an airhead. Though the degree of airheadedness would be a consideration. I see ladies for the companionship not just to pump and squirt. If that was all I wanted I'd see the wam bam thank ya ma'am providers and their conversational skills would never be tested.
Like Scoed I don't need a rocket scientist, simply an intelligent person to share some mental stimulation with as well as a rockin' time in the sack.

"Oh shit" bar. I like that. But hey, don't knock 8-tracks. Mine still works and the tapes still play. (Well the ones that haven't been eaten by the player.)

I don't think intelligent conversation means you have to discuss mentally challenging topics. It's being able to converse in an intelligent manner on whatever topic and I'd say personality is definitely part of the equation. I think a mind is a beautiful thing.

I'd be less concerned with the year, make and model of a car than the quality and condition of it.  I'm neither turned on by beamers nor turned off by station wagons.  However I don't want to step on Mickey D's bags or sit on Doritos and M & M's when I get in.  I also don't want it to break down on our way to her place.  Clean and safe is all I ask for.

I'm a fairly smart guy but I like light hearted discussions with providers.  In fact I like light hearted discussions with people in general.  I do read the paper and follow politics but I'm not going to kick a lady out of bed if she doesn't know who Robert Mugabe is.  It may sound a bit crass but the primary reason I'm there is not for the conversation.  Conversation is like soup and salad whereas the session is the main course.

I guess the main thing is for the lady to be flexible.  Get a good read of what kind of guy you're seeing at the time and adjust the conversation accordingly.  Or better yet just ask general questions, let him talk and then take his lead.  With some guys the convo will be about hockey, with others it will be Lady Gaga and others the war in Iraq.  Just go with the flow and if a conversation comes up that you know little about just say you don't know much about it and ask him more about it.  But don't spend too much time asking him because, as I said, conversation ain't the number one reason we're there.

To answer your question, if she was an airhead who never shut up and said all sorts of dumb things it would turn me off.  If she was an airhead who didn't say much but otherwise provided an excellent session I'd never know one way or the other.  What's the old saying:  it's better to close your mouth and have people think you're an idiot than to open it and prove you're one.

Only one guy has said that the car matters.

I will admit that conversely, men's cars do matter to women.

If a guy picked me up in a 1995 Toyota Camry, I would wonder whats going on with his finances.  
I am very impressed when a client drives up in a nice, immaculate  Jag or Beemer to pick me up.

The car show is here this week.  Awesome to get a cow-girl ride on leather seats, head bobbing up and down through the sun roof.  New m5, let's say?  As for dumb or smart, it's best when their cootchie flows wild and they just can't get enough of you.  And awesome if you like my cooking.

'05 Silverado or '91 Harley.  

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while I care a whole helluva lot what I drive, I don't really care what you drive as long as it's clean and safe.
As for conversation, I'm all for it, but it doesn't have to be about current events (too depressing anyway).  I like to joke and tease in a sexy way.  A good sense of humor is a sign of intelligence.

You took the time to research.  Why are you hiding so I or others cant research you?  I think I made it clear that I know others like great conversation, for me it is just not needed.  My opinion. She asked I answered.

my alias is to protect the ladies

If I post under my handle, everyone will know who drives a camry
Thanks for the compliment.

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Sense of humor is fucking killer. I admit mine is a bit twisted, but some people get it. A self deprecating sense of humor I think is the best of all. When you can joke about your shortcomings, makes me laugh thinking about it.

I LOVE making a lady laugh. And when she can do the same? Oh yeah, it's on!

Then I was gonna say 'What hair?' lol!

Sorry brother!

The car doesn't matter as long as the outside is in good shape, and the inside is clean... it doesn't have to be high-end but it does have to say you take car of it which in turn leads to the impression you take care of yourself well too...

As for the intelligence level, I really prefer an intelligent woman though I would almost never talk about politics anyway since it's such a divisive issue and I would not want to risk turning someone off with a comment that bothered them in some way.  So it's good to make the effort to be informed, just try and also think about things outside of the realm of news.

I just read this last night from a book (The 2548 best Things Anybody Ever Said) By Robert Byrne " Better that a girl has beauty than brains because boys see better than they think". Not that I subscribe to that. I just thought it was funny that I read that last night and then this questions is asked.

drive a down to earth car and buy cars by the pound. These are the vast majority according to the book 'millionaire next door'...  I'm just stating what the author who did this research said, and it isn't my opinion.  

Think about how they accumulated their money: being thrifty, saving up, not caring about the 'look game' by not wasting it on a depreciating asset like a Jag.  

The folks who are really wealthy can afford to waste it on a Bugati or something,
but, apparently, vast majority of financially secure people around you don't drive a fancy car.

I agree those aren't for me either. Your choice in rides needs to be practical too. If I had a jag or Beemer I would destroy it just getting to and from work. So I have a nice 4x4 pickup. So even if the lady drove a nice truck because she needed it to haul her horses and such, or she just like to drive a nice truck I wouldn't have an issue with it.

Are you planning to marry him?

If he has enough money to pay your fee, then his finances should not matter to you, and are none of your business, as your finances are none of his business. (other than the fee for service) How much he has, how much he makes, what he drives, are all irrelavent.

As for the car, as long as you don't have to climb in through the drivers side door because the passenger door is broken, and you don't see a bungi cord holding down the hood, and you don't have to use rope because the seat belt doesn't work, then who cares? Ok that's exteme but if the car is mechanically and physically sound, and basically clean, you should be fine.

I don't own one, but my provider friend does. I have an old Ford van though.

Just couldn't get the voice out of my head and looked it up.

Enjoy!

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The folks who are less likely to spend oodles of money on an overpriced car are probably equally less likely to spend $300 for a one-hour fuck session.

The Millionaire Next Door is a great book btw.

That carpet on your chest ain't going anywhere!

i have never understood the attraction so many (male and female) have to shiny, sparkly new things...i mean, we are human beings, not magpies, lol. for example, i find diamonds visually boring and ethically/morally abhorrent, so i sure as HELL do not want one touching my body. i'm the same with cars...they should be efficient, economically sound, ecologically tolerable. a few years back when Hummers were all the rage for the entitled, insecure exec types, i could very much understand the small group of protesters who hit my local area going through neighborhoods and vandalizing such vehicles beyond repair with carvings such as "earth killer." it would literally enrage me to see one of those things on the freeway, and i am generally an extremely mild-natured person.

so i would say that what a man drives does not really matter to me, so long as it is well-kept, safe and efficient, and of course, not a terror for planet earth such as the disgusting Hummer. i am also open-minded and experienced enough to know that one cannot assume much about anyone from their outer dressings...an ex-bf drove a quite old honda civic, yet at 26 was already earning 100K annually and had considerable savings. the reason he had those savings (and zero debt) was because he was exceptionally thrifty (ok, you could say cheap, lol), hence the honda civic.