I got my  VIP membership and I just enjoy going through the reviews and whacking off to them (and looking at the provider's pics).

Anyone else into this?

Right now, I'm still hesitant to actually see a provider although I've been to a RMP and gotten whacked off before. I don't know part of it is moral qualms (even though I'm not married and no gf) and part of it is fear of STDs. Where I live has one of the highest AIDS cases (NJ/NY) in the country.

I am sure that no one knows what you are talking about (LOL). However you are in a room full of grown ups who partake in this hobby. No one is going to hold your hand.. Be an adult, make your decisions and move on..

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You can learn a lot from observation on these boards and reviews.  Lots of interesting people and views.  Take your time. Don't do anything you're not ready to do.

In terms of your fears of STD's, you do research and determine for yourself what risk levels you are willing to accept. Go to google.com and search on sex and STD, sex and HIV, oral sex HIV, oral sex STD, and you'll get more info than you can shake a... stick, at. Plenty to make your mind up, including demographics of those high HIV rates you're concerned about... which, unfortunately, tend to show much higher rates of HIV infection in the poverty stricken, uneducated classes than in the upper middle classes that this hobby appeals to.

Hugs*
Nicole

I lurked for quite a while before taking the plunge.  But when I did, it was man overboard!

The final decision is yours to make. Choose wisely!

Even if I gave up being a provider today, I'd have a lifetime of wonderful memories with great guys to keep me warm at night.

And since I have no plans to stop anytime soon, I think it's just going to get better and better.

Life is so good!!

"Sexual satisfaction is found in the palm of your hand!" (LOL)

I guess so, Mr Hot-Dawg with 26 reviews! LOL LOL

Sedona

Quite of few of these lovely ladies also provide massages.  So book a massage and enjoy the companionship of a beautiful woman.

I'm not sure of your preferencs, but MPs in Connecticut and Phila (depending which is more convenient to you)generally offer good service. Don't be afraid to tell the management that you're new to this.

In my experience, professional girls are generally cleaner and healthier than non-professionals.

BTW, why use an alias?

Are you trying to regain your "normal" status?  Relax man, you worry too much.  If it makes you feel better, I whack to reviews of providers I plan to see and eventually do see.  

By the way, regarding moral qualms...beliefs are great as long as you chose them and they serve *you* well (in the broadest sense of course).  Oh yeah, and don't harm others!

Cheers,
CY