Why do most providers refuse to kiss? I mean, they are willing to blow me and screw me. How  can you be more intimate than that? Yet the least intimate thing imo is a kiss but most providers refuse to do this. I have always been puzzeld by this.

Kissing is about the most romantic, intimate thing two people can do. Sure, oral sex and genital penetration are more invasive, but actually being so close to a person's mouth, with lips connecting and tongues swirling together, and having the scent of each other's breath so entwined with their senses, especially while having sex, is much more personal and conveys a lot more intimacy than just thrusting.  

It's so personal, which is why I generally look for girls that allow kissing during a date.  

But Diamonds  Are A Girls Best Friend. 😚   I Luv Too Pucker up..and KISS...as long as you have a Fresh  Mouth & Minty Breath .. .Hugs and Oh Yes Kisses

Not to mention a lot of clients are sloppy kissers and I understand that can be a real turn off. Personally I love kissing. LFK, DFK, sloppy, they're all welcome! I actually made a tweet just yesterday stating how much I enjoy sloppy dfk

...you aren't searching properly.  Do a search for providers that kiss/kiss with tongue.  If THEY won't kiss you, then it's your breath or snaggly teeth.

I did a quick search of providers in Los Angeles.  There are almost 20,000 profiles of providers and only 3,100 are listed as not kissing.  Do your homework!

Lol your funny, but so right, we like fresh clean mouth with teeth  and icy cool kissing breath!!  xoxo

....was into at least some LFK. Most were down for DFK.  
Sometimes when you think it's them, it's really you.

Good oral hygiene is a given. The point of my question is more philosophic. I have encountered a mentor nurturing a new gal who advised her to never kiss a client. BTW most of the gals that I do patronize offer GFE. I research my potential providers fairly well. After all, that is the point of this site.

I feel that kissing is an energy exchange of 2 souls and real passion! It is most definitely very intimate.  I LOVE to kiss!  a great kiss will make my pussy throb.  
No matter how much I love to kiss though, if the breath wreaks of a fucked up mouth or gums, I'll turn my mouth the other way and refuse. Take care of the teeth and gums, have minty fresh breath, regular dental exams.... before you attempt to throat fuck someone with the tongue lol  
XOXO  
TL

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... is one of this mentor's favorite movies "Pretty Woman"?

items in my search criteria. If the provider doesn't kiss, she doesn't get a request for a date; simple as that.

Maybe you need to be looking elsewhere?

I actually find sex without kissing awkward tbh. However, a bad kisser can suck the joy out of a date.

I don't think it has all that much to do with the person's real feelings towards you, though I suppose that factors in somewhat.

 
I've met gals that on the first date they want to play tonsil hockey with me while I've known other gals for years with whom we share a very intimate attraction yet don't want to kiss for reasons that I can only describe as aesthetically unpleasing.   I enjoy kissing, but only if the gal is enthusiastic about it herself, otherwise, we can find oodles of other ways to enjoy each other's company.  

 
But do not ignore the hygiene issue.  Even if she is an avid kisser, poor breath will turn her off.   I know this is the case with one gal who originally told me that she never kissed.   Then after using a much better mouth wash and a very aggressive hygiene plan, she suddenly became very enamored of kissing.

 
Another important advisory:   Lay off the garlic for a few weeks before a date.   The chemical in garlic that causes bad breath remains in the blood steam for up to two weeks, and is passed on to your breath in the lungs.  All the oral scrubbing in the world won't get rid of it.

LOL very funny and shockingly true though!!  Especially the snaggly teeth LMAO

.... when I was the bouncer in a brothel, the ladies would tell me that they always saved one intimate sexual act for their private life. For a lot of them back then, it was DFK. For some it was greek or something else.  They liked to be able to tell their boyfriend or girlfriend that they only do .......   with them.

Personally, I desire a good amount of kissing when playing with a beautiful woman, whether p4p or not. My searches on TER always filter for kissing.

I'm sure I  probably need more practice.

I love to kiss. Kissing is an art, a dance, an intimate communication. But I have to admit, during cold and flu season I'm petrified of catching a cold from a client.

I definitely kiss my clients unless they are not big on it. Some find it more intimate and rather not go there but I hate to say at least 20 percent of people are horrible kissers that will try and stick their tongue down your throat. It could be that they want to avoid all that.

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So what's a good kiss?  Probably not a slobber.  Probably not the protrudy lips kind that most people do for air kisses (the duck face look.)  I recall reading that Hollywood movie kisses often are just inhaling a bit while open lipped pressing -- no duck face.

and find it a huge turn on.  I love to taste myself too and really gets my juices flowing.  In all my years of kissing there has only been 2 that I would turn my face away because it felt so unsanitary..  both were soured and had halitosis that I even shy away from DATY.  I am not sure but the smell and taste was so putrid and I wasn't sure if it was from horrible oral hygiene or gut rot coming up the esophagus.   They definitely needed the attention of a doctor and dentist and just gross.  But that has only been 2 men out of years and years of kissing

exactly TL.  Kissing is the most erotic turn on in the brain.  And what you said about the fucked up germy mouth.  There is no way in hell I am going to let a soured candida bacterial and infectious tongue inside either lips  To feel like you need to take zpac after seeing them.  Which brought back a memory of someone from Tennessee coming to Atlanta for an extended appointment with me and yucky fever blister healing on his lip;  that I had to cancel after having a wonderful dinner.  I did make it up later by driving to him in Tennessee.   I didn't understand his logic on that and I have never had one of those and don't want to intentional take my chances with my immune system.

Hope you are doing well TL.

Love,
Madison

I don't think that's weird, sex without kissing is really weird. I won't see a provider that doesn't offer kissing cause its honestly not worth it to me.

But it's extremely intimate. Skilled art that does take some temporary emotions into play, since you are face to face.

I will be a little hesitant with those that have hygiene problems or with facial hair.  My skin is very sensitive to being truly scratched, anything from a little stubble to full beard will hurt at least later, enough to possibly make it uncomfortable to work again soon after.  Redhead problems, lol, but probably not exclusively!

I had an appointment with a very attractive young lady (not on TER) recently. Cupping that beautiful face with my hands while kissing her deeply....needless to say one of the better 'dates' that I've ever had.

MfSD>>>>

If I don’t want to kiss you then the encounter is off.  
Simple
I have politely walked away from probably about 6 get togethers over the years - maybe more - because I’m not feeling it. Fuck faking it - it has to be enjoyable for me too

C