Is it proper etiquette for a provider to be soliciting for business while you are having a date with her at a restaurant?  Seems a little over the top to me............but I've been wrong before.  I felt very uncomfortable, and probably won't take her out in that environment again.  Is it accepted behavior?

Of course that's not proper! I don't even check my phone while I am with a gentleman, in private or public. Solicitation of people at a restaurant is, IMO, unacceptable and trashy whether she's there with a date or not.

She's supposed to be focused on you...that's what you paid her for. And, if she's obviously with you...how very indiscreet, how embarrassing for you, and how potentially dangerous (someone could have called LE, and/or had you two escorted out). It's more than just a faux pas...it's just plain old trashy.

Solicit for business on her OWN time. This is your time, and she's using YOUR money to solicit? Oh, hell no.

Is this someone you picked off of BP?

she is trying to get me to a duo session later that night.

Suppose, you are haven g dinner with a hot lady who is not provider and she wants to take you back to her place and suggests.  

Was she taking a phone call or returning a text?  If so, that's not the best since she ought to be focusing on you; but it's not all that unusual either.

On the other hand, if she grabs some guy's dick while he's walking by......

So when we saw her sitting there we hand signaled her to fulfill her obligations to us.

Nothing like being out somewhere and introducing yourself... Hi, I'm Suzy Cream Cheese, and for a few dollars, I can take a walk about with you too.  Wow, as LR would say...  You struck Hooktard Gold.

If you are on the clock with her, she should be focusing on you, not anyone else.  Now it's off the clock, that's different.  Off the clock, it would not bother me, but if I'm paying her to have dinner with me, she better not be talking to other potential clients!

Women always hit on me in restaurants. Look I eat in restaurants almost everyday, maybe she was flirting?  But the?  Is y r u a boring dinner date?  If she wasn't hungry y not ask her to blow u while u r eating?  I mean give more details to this story? ???? Where did u go?  Hey in NYC do 1you if by land 2 if by sea, trust me she'll wanna fuck y , well maybe not but all my dates there duck the fuck outrage me but I'm I'm fun and handsome.

He should slam her in a review!  No this sounds like one of those dates with no chemistry and she's supposed to read his mind.  And entertain him.  If you can't do dinner good with a divvied don't do it with a provider. And that goes 4extendedif also!  Oh and I'm still upset with u and your NOT my type!  Your mean!

Sorry these fucking phones suck to type on!  Plus I'm getting a NJ so that'd doesn't help matters,  well it s nice and she's hot and smiling . Also solid 9/9

s this an "off the clock" date?

Just told me it was u and you had a line around the corner,  tax and tip included! ! A haha ha ha co
o rorfflmao and getting a bj.  

Yeah she was the dessert.  They wheeled her around with the metal dessert thingy and she gave head kinda like a pop tart new item on the menu that night!  

Posted By: ChgoCPA

So when we saw her sitting there we hand signaled her to fulfill her obligations to us.  
   
 Hey...she finished up before dessert came...right?  
   
 I'll bet you're surprised that nicky and I go to Wendy's....but I was in the mood for a Frosty    
   

Posted By: Warmhearted

Is it proper etiquette for a provider to be soliciting for business while you are having a date with her at a restaurant?  Seems a little over the top to me............but I've been wrong before.  I felt very uncomfortable, and probably won't take her out in that environment again.  Is it accepted behavior?

You don't give enough detail, but I wouldn't want to be embarrassed by her sending a message that she is with me for anything other than my good looks and charming personality.  

It tastes especially good whilst receiving a BBBJCIMNQNS

You or another customer?

I am paying for her for a date, not a networking opportunity.

U don't know who I am!  That's what's funny. XOXOXO

Posted By: devindavette

Bad chemistry or not, she shouldn't try drum up extra business while still on this guys time.  That's inexcusable. Are you serious?  
  As far as me being mean, well I guess I could be, not often though... and maybe it's because I know who you are and don't like you  
   

Posted By: Back_In_Black

He should slam her in a review!  No this sounds like one of those dates with no chemistry and she's supposed to read his mind.  And entertain him.  If you can't do dinner good with a divvied don't do it with a provider. And that goes 4extendedif also!  Oh and I'm still upset with u and your NOT my type!  Your mean!  

That is incredibly rude! My phone is always off-limits during a date. Where is the courtesy??

Seems my question raised a lot of questions............which is good.  So, it was not considered "right", which I thought was the answer, but being new in the hobby, I needed to check.  To clear up a lot of the questions, here some further details.
The provider was getting a bit shit faced at the bar with me while we were eating apps.  The plan was to enjoy some cocktails, apps, etc, then go back to my place for the "appointment".  At some point, I got up and went to he john and when I returned, she was having a heated argument with the female bartender.  She had tossed down another drink (martinis) while I was gone and was getting pretty loaded. This is a place I frequent a lot, and know the owner/chef and wait staff well.  The barteneder said to her that she was not going to serve her anymore to drink, and my provider/date got pissed. I apologyzie for the agrument scene, paid the bill and got out of there.  we went back to my place where she insisted on having more to drink, past my protest. She got pretty drunk, stayed the night, the sex was poor (usually is with a drunk) she was remunerated, and I drove her home in the a.m. about half hour away.