About 10 years ago I absolutely scorched a guy on a board similar to this one about getting a regular provider. He had a thing for a provider in CA and was gaga for her, and I thought he was loco. Hell, play the field and enjoy the ride, right? Since then, I myself have slipped into having a regular more than once, and while I was not quite as nuts about a single provider as he was, I did sort of like it, while still exploring.
Now, finding a regular has a few technical requirements, such as location, availability, and cost (which rather limits the field even in the most hospitable environments). In the end I found that was looking for three things. Physical attractiveness (duh, I suppose, but the providers who became my regs weren't exactly supermodels), passionate kissing, and anal play (not greek necessarily, but that was certainly desirable).
Surprisingly, two of the providers were AMP stock, who are/were in general more known for high volume and few extras. But both of my regs loved to kiss, and while I never had greek with them, we certainly tried with many prying fingers with never a "no!" Both had incredible racks and pretty faces. One got deported because she pissed off her partners and the other retired when she found new work. The remaining reg was a Caucasian provider with a great face and bod, but an unimpressive rack, however, Oh, did she like anal, and I could not get enough of her.
I've had a number of encounters with providers with great racks, pretty faces, kissers, and even greek friendly ladies, but my combo seems to be overall attractiveness, kissing, and anal play.
Having the right regular (or 2) is fine, not having a regular is fine also.
Knowing what we're looking for and taking the time to find providers who match what we're looking for makes for better sessions.
Absolutey agree with the response. I myself have just found a regular that I visit at least once a month while seeing other providers in between. The reason she is a regular visit for me is because at least I have a great experience with her, a few laughs, and she is smoking hot to me, and at least she does a good acting job and makes me believe she is having a good time too, but what do I know. I figure the sessions keep geting better, so why stop a good thing.
I get a hankerin. If I'm lucky, sometime when I have the hankerin, I get a window of opportunity (doesn't happen often), then I make the call to my ATF. She's usually available on short notice. I give her about an 8 for looks, and most times together or 8 or 9 for service, she's very discrete, and I like her meeting set up. This weekend I got the hankerin, called several new ladies, but only one called back, but by the I was already with my ATF. Oh, well!
After seeing several ladies, there are only 3 who I would say I have the best chemistry with.
Not all pretty sexy ladies will always get you the best "O". I've been with great gorgeous ladies that didn't do much for me and they were GFE alright - chemistry was just off.
Today, my previous regular just got back in and put an ad. Her BF dumped her - saw it on her Facebook Wall (yeah, I know her real name and she was not into providing the last 6 months). Sad for her she got dumped by BF - good for me she's now available and moving on and warming up to me again.
