I met with a provider today that brought a friend with her. They were both very different from each other, but each was amazing in her own way. I ended up having a problem halfway through the session though. I lost my wood and couldn't get it back for the life of me. This not something that is ever a problem for me, but I have also never been with two women at the same time before.

I always thought of doing this and thought it would be incredible. My only guess is that I had some kind of sensory overload. I spent over an hour with two gorgeous women, had a ton of DATY, lots of CBJ and HJ, but very little sex because the equipment just wouldn't cooperate. Of all days... The enormous amount of DATY left me extremely happy with the session as a whole (I could eat pussy all day and never get tired of it), so I have no complaints.

Am I just getting old (43), or has anyone else ever had this issue with a MFF threeway?

Sometimes the equipment isn't cooperative, and that sucks.  But, like you, I could eat pussy all day and be happy with it.

Maybe I just enjoyed eating pussy so much that the equipment didn't see the need to work today??? That's BS, but sounds like a good enough excuse.

Hard to believe I left there with such a huge smile on my face, god I love eating pussy.

I have had the pleasure of this experience many times in Thailand. The ability to feel two different vaginas so quickly is great. My favoirite finish (and deciding where to cum) is with a girl riding me cowgirl and another sitting on my face.

Relax and enjoy the experience. Don't overthink the session.

My friend is 61 years old and does four Thai girls a day.

Make sure that you are really sexually turned on by both girls or you may lose wood.

Go to Thailand if all else fails.

About to be 46 myself.
I am like a 7 inch piece of construction rebar 30 minutes before AND after !
I am not kidding ............That puppy is hard as a rock !
I am with a lady that I was totally attracted to ...........100% my type . God I was turned on !
Never saw it cumming ,but after a change of positions and her damn giggling, I lost it. NEVER saw it coming and NEVER expected it !  Fuck ,she was SOOOO   HOTTT   !!! Her insatiable "giggling" just spoiled the moments .
It went limp in 5 seconds .........WTF???
I learned from it .........It was the "illiusion" was gone. I realized she was "acting" !!!
I LOVE to eat pussy and please like you .............But .........I NEED the mental thing that she actually WANTS to be with me for the hour ! If they are not convincing, then I go limp..........
Kinda kills eating the pussy as well .............Just be a good actress please !

Many men of all ages have said what a fantasy it was to be with two women, then felt a bit let down when it happened. If you feel you have to "keep up" with them, don't...not here anyway. They don't much care about your performance in that way, so you should relax and let them take over...in more ways than one. 43 is far from young to be having your first threesome...most have done it in high school or at least college. I have had threesomes with guys from 19-65...age had nothing to do with anything. I would say it was about confidence or lack thereof, more than anything else. Next time, don't put so much pressure on yourself babe. It defeats the purpose of paying to relax.

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That's the part I don't get. Nothing happened. No giggling, no bad acting, nothing. Both these women were amazing and I couldn't have been more into it. It was like someone flipped a switch though. One minute I was hard as rock, the next I was like a wet noodle.

I could see how the giggling would deflate you. These chicks were both doing an incredible job of lying to me about how great my cock was. Maybe I picked up a subliminal giggle and didn't realize it???

Posted By: guybeingaguy

About to be 46 myself.
I am like a 7 inch piece of construction rebar 30 minutes before AND after !
I am not kidding ............That puppy is hard as a rock !
I am with a lady that I was totally attracted to ...........100% my type . God I was turned on !
Never saw it cumming ,but after a change of positions and her damn giggling, I lost it. NEVER saw it coming and NEVER expected it !  Fuck ,she was SOOOO   HOTTT   !!! Her insatiable "giggling" just spoiled the moments .
It went limp in 5 seconds .........WTF???
I learned from it .........It was the "illiusion" was gone. I realized she was "acting" !!!
I LOVE to eat pussy and please like you .............But .........I NEED the mental thing that she actually WANTS to be with me for the hour ! If they are not convincing, then I go limp..........
Kinda kills eating the pussy as well .............Just be a good actress please !

Posted By: sueabel69

I met with a provider today that brought a friend with her. They were both very different from each other, but each was amazing in her own way. I ended up having a problem halfway through the session though. I lost my wood and couldn't get it back for the life of me. This not something that is ever a problem for me, but I have also never been with two women at the same time before.

I always thought of doing this and thought it would be incredible. My only guess is that I had some kind of sensory overload. I spent over an hour with two gorgeous women, had a ton of DATY, lots of CBJ and HJ, but very little sex because the equipment just wouldn't cooperate. Of all days... The enormous amount of DATY left me extremely happy with the session as a whole (I could eat pussy all day and never get tired of it), so I have no complaints.

Am I just getting old (43), or has anyone else ever had this issue with a MFF threeway?

This makes sense.

Being the loyal husband for most of my adult life kept me from even wanting a MFF. Since getting divorced a few years ago, I still didn't really have an interest in it. This kind of just happened and was not planned at all. It didn't turn out like I had hoped, but I did have a great time anyway. How soon would be considered too soon to have a repeat?

Another benefit of hobbying in Thailand is the low cost that allows you to enjoy "multiple scenes" in the same day without emptying out your wallet.

It helps that I find Asian women so incredibly sexy and feminine. My next long hobby trip will be to the Filipines. For now, there are the latinas in Tijuana to rock my world.

Is the potential mind fuck if will it happen again next time, and the embarrassment that will follow if it does.

I wouldn't worry about it though, I hear it happens

I'm a one at a time kind of guy...   I'd have to psych myself up for it.

Honey, don't beat yourself up that you're not a master of group sex...I can assure you, it is not a bad thing for even a hooker to hear. I have had guys who also wanted to "prepare" for the event...with a few drinks lol, so if it was an all out surprise, you are just not used to it. Next time ease into things, and you will be just fine. If you know it is going to happen, jack off 2 hours before ha ha. I am going to get bitch slapped for that one!

Let him crawl before he jumps ass or d*ck first lol. Yes, you are right though...rates are low as hell, and many are up for just about anything where you hobby, but he is not there so it is a moot issue.

Well, in an attempt to eliminate that mind fuck, I am planning to meet with both of them one on one in the near future. If all goes well with those two sessions, then I am going to try a threesome again.

I really think I just became overloaded. The sights, sounds, smells, tastes... oh the tastes, that filled that room were mind blowing.

London,

I don't want to scare the guy off either. I just don't want him to have a second session go poorly and have him scarred for life.

In Pattaya, Thailand, the girls are really know how to work well with "virgin hobbyists" to two girl sessions Most girls that perform this service really like each other since they are working together. I had my first two girl session in Thailand a few years ago.

I am sorry if I offended you about bbfs. However, in Thailand that is the way it goes and even more so in the Filipines where many brown skinned girls hope that a "good looking White American hobbyist" will father  a child for them that will raise their social/economic status based on skin color. In short, their "light skinned child" will have a better fututre than a "brown skinned" child fathered by a Filipino man.

I know it sounds backwards and racist towards the dark skinned people. However, I don't make the rules of "social value" in SE Asia. As far as bbfs in Thailand, the worst that I caught was Ocular Chlamydia caught most likely from rubbing my eye after touching a vagina. This can happen anywhere. All other STD tests showed up as negative. Importantly, I did not partake in bareback anal sex which is risky to both partners.

Or all inclusive  LOL

I was wondering when somebody was going to start ripping on someone.

This whole fucking thread was so nice I didn't realize I was on the same hooker board.

the first individual session goes well but with the second provider the ole wet noodle strikes again? Do you just brush it off and swing for the fences again with the double or do you just go back to the first one?

You got Chlamydia in your eye? You are using the wrong balls bro. That is the funniest fucking thing I have heard all day? I just got me thinking how bad did that snatch smell? Did it smell like she washed her pussy with a dirtier pussy?

Scare me off? Scar me for life? Dude, I was a little freaked out about going limp, but what is scary about being with beautiful women? You fall of a horse, you get right back on...

I think London laid it out pretty good. Shit happens...

I don't think I'd do anything differently. The CBJ was their choice, not something I care for, but I doubt that was the reason.

Could very well turn out that its simply not my thing. I plan on having a lot of fun while finding out though.

If the wet noodle comes back with either, than perhaps I will remove her from the equation. I don't think the issue lies with either of the ladies though. It lies within me. I enjoyed this far too much to not try the double again.

I love one-on-ones but have done some three somes and gotten great pleasure out of them.  The best have been when the two ladies are into each other and they include me fully in their sensual relationship  rather than just focus on each playing a role in getting me excited (nice tho that can be.)  My very best experience like that was in Arizona (reviewed) with two friends each one of whom was a delightful companion but they included me in the excitement they found in each other and we enjoyed a three ways experience that was memorable.  I also had an absolutely wonderful time many years ago when I was much younger (and richer) and tooK a provider with me on a business trpi to Europe; we spent a day and  a half with a local provider in my favorite hotel in Vienna.  She and my companion got very very close and clearly enjoyed each other and included me in their sensual relationship and used my presence also to get the most out of it.  For personal reasons (a very exciting and jealous girl friend over the past few years) I have been far far less active (or maybe its being well past Medicare qualifying age) so I have not had a three some in a while.

I am talking about life in the Filipines. This is a poor country where a mother wants to give her children any advantage. Here it is a lighter skin color.

Think outside of the US sometimes.

those 2 got into it, she posted that all the fighting was making her horny and wanted me over, so I was hoping for at least the same offer. All I can say is I'm glad to be on this side of her wrath, LOL. This is some of the best entertainment on the web.

I think we should send Udo a gift card to a Thai restaurant and a free clinic. Fucking Eye Chlamydia, that shit is funny. Think he now uses douche to wash his face?

You were on fire yesterday too, I laughed at every post.

With two gals, you have to raise the level of your game.  Were you well rested and well hydrated?  The extra demands on your body will start to show unless you are in peak physical shape.

It could also be some deep seated concern about being with more than one gal, or it could even be something about the intereaction between the gals.

The overstimulation aspect is also a concern.  I notice that if I try to stay rigid for more than 20-30 minutes, I start to flag.

Sometimes it's better to get off, go through the refractory period, and start over again.  (Refractory time is a good time to get a massage.)

I've had many FMF sessions, but as I am around 60, I've started to back off, and when I do have them I try to be less physical so as not to get sensory overload.

There is something about an exotic woman. The pieces parts are all still the same, give me  a warm wet shaved pussy, and great oral skills and I'm there.

I agree.  I had a threesome recently, and I noticed that I also lost it in the middle of the session.  There's an overstimulation aspect at work.  But I think I was trying very hard to please both girls, and sometimes working at it too hard causes it NOT to be too hard!  Luckily, I scheduled sufficient time to recover, and all was great!

Every guy wants to be a stud that can really fuck two women equally during a 3some.  I personally don't want either woman to be deprived, so perhaps I try too hard and it doesn't help ME as much as if I didn't care to pleasure the women.  But to be honest, I would rather make sure that the girls enjoy themselves, because all that good karma will be returned the next time!

Unless you are 20, a porn star, or taking ED meds for recreational purposes, losing it while in the company of hot, naked women just happens sometimes!

Sy

I was certainly doing my best to please both of them. I know the session is supposed to be about me, but I have never been wired that way. I get more enjoyment from making a woman cum than I do from doing so myself. I made them each cum several times (well, we're talking about providers, so there is no way to be sure, but I'm pretty confident) and I had a blast with that. In fact, I had such an enjoyable time that I am going for more tomorrow after work. If the same thing happens again, I really don't care. I've been all smiles for more than the last 24 hours and that's what this is supposed to be all about right? In a perfect world, I'll be hard as a rock and pop at least twice myself. Worst case is that I lose my wood again and end up eating two amazing pussies for 90 minutes. Either way, I'm simply going to relax and thoroughly enjoy myself.

I'm answering directly to the OP.

There are so many reasons it could happen. It was most likely because you WERE over stimulated like you said. Getting too excited can sometimes be a bit too much too. As you still had fun, I wouldn't worry about it!

Have fun and play safely!

My thoughts are that both women did not fully excite you. They are working as a pair and must get you super excited.

Some guys lose hard ons easily like a former coworker of mine. No matter how hot the latina or asian provider was servicing him, any "wiff" of body odor would drive his ranging hard-on soft.

He must have been a clean freak and sees women as clean without body odor or the odor of feces on their hands.

I look at the opportunity of disappointing two women at once as a challenge, and I think I can rise to the occasion, no pun intended!
In all seriousness, I’ve actually had quite a few 3 ways (MFF that is) and they have been fantastic.  I remember my first time with two girls, I was a 15 year old punk and there was a waterbed with no sheets and a lot of baby oil.  A lot of wrestling and sliding around; I actually remember pulling my hamstring and having to sit out the Friday night’s football game, but it was worth it!

I think you have to go into them with the mindset of being a “giver.” Spread yourself around and be unselfish.