Because you're not really having sex with the woman. You're having sex WITH the condom. Now sure, you may be using the pressure and heat of the woman's vagina to make the sex that you're having with the condom FEEL better, but you're still just having sex with a condom.  

So, if I kick you in your balls, and you are wearing pants and underwear, I really kicked your pants. And hell, you have two layers, so don't even start telling me I kicked your balls. In fact, not only did I kick your pants, but it was your pants that kicked your underwear, and your underwear that kicked your balls. I mean, don't pay mind to the painfull sensation and try to lay any blame on me. Because I really didn't kick your balls, the source of your pain. If you want to blame your underwear, the thing that really kicked your balls, I understand.

because you are TECHNICALLY correct, there is no direct cock to pussy contact unless you take scissors and snip off the tip of the condom, and if you are going to do that, why wear one at all?  

That's the funniest thing I have read here in months! Kudos!

REVRIG!

If "sex" is defined as the act of breeding, is sex occurring if:
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1.) one or both of you are sterile
2.) it's not her time of the month
3.) wearing an IUD
4.) spermicide
5.) hormonal  
6.) diaphragm
7.) sponge
8.) M-M or F-F play
9.) other ???

What about the Sheriff now?

?Really? What do you mean by that? Are we going to talk about soaking next?

If you paid the other person to have sex with you, then you didn't really have sex with them, since you had to pay for their appearance and cooperation. It was just expensive masturbation.

really kick him!
The shoe and sock did, so you aren't at any fault for his pain!

You can finger pop
You can even swing  
But you're going to jail  
For doing your thing.
Here comes the judge. Here comes the judge. Here comes the judge. ...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGqTZUcemrU

At this point is a useless endeavor lol. Everyone on here is sinning as it is lol. That being said you may have a valid point..

Well ain't that the truth!

I did not have sex with that woman! She was just helping me jerk off into a condom with her pussy!

but here's the original and the best:

It's like takin' a shower with a raincoat on!

There's alot more to sex than the mechanical actions required to participate.
 
There's also alot more to sex than an orgasm, but you're clearly not ready for that conversation.

... would be my wife.  Could I hope that she would find this persuasive and dispositive?
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HAH