It's part of my living and if the truth were to be told, none of my clients can make that happen so I would be out of a part time job...all because guys have to have that happen in order to be fully satisfied. So, since my primary reason for doing this is well you know...I shall do whatever it takes to keep them coming back.
And if done right and convincingly, know one knows any different. It's the over the hill porn like crap that gives it away as totally fake.
So I guess I get some guys who it does not matter if I get mine...or it is not important to them and then there are those that it has to happen or they won't repeat. Any decent business person will find a way to make it work and thus keep repeat busniness coming back.
Girls, do you want a p4p dude to go down on you? As in, you like it better than whatever else you could be doing with the 10 minutes? I'm kinda into DATY generally, but always feel like it's just pointless in p4p and don't usually do it. Why? I assume you'll fake, or maybe have, an orgasm, but that you would actually be happier if you spent the time blowing my mind with the skills you brought to the deal.
True? False?
I'm really curious, and will actually change how I deal with encounters if it turns out my assumption is wrong.
FWIW, I figure any response with a handle tied to reviews that gushes about how awesome it is to have a guy go down on her is a little bit advertising to the dudes who purport to have wanted to "stay there for the whole session" so feel free to use your alias.
Don't over think it .. show up clean, be polite and just be yourself..
If I am not in the mood I will tell you or direct you to other places.. If I am in the mood I may even give you tips and pointers or just enjoy the time spent on me..
True? False?
I'm really curious, and will actually change how I deal with encounters if it turns out my assumption is wrong.
FWIW, I figure any response with a handle tied to reviews that gushes about how awesome it is to have a guy go down on her is a little bit advertising to the dudes who purport to have wanted to "stay there for the whole session" so feel free to use your alias.
If I end up near Charlotte, I'll track you down. That's basically my approach, I guess. If it feels right, cool. But if a gal wants to just rev me up, awesome too. Who knows if I'll get honest responses like this across the board, but thanks.
DATY is not required.
DATY is an option.
Are you good at listening to my verbal desires? Do you truly want to eat pvssy? Will you continue to your last breath whilst I grind on your face and grab your head with my hands in your hair pressing you against my special spots? Legs wrapped around you, pushing you, pressing against you, dripping, throbbing, heated conquesting that "0"?
I know I don't stop. Do you?
xxx
Jinni
-- Modified on 12/5/2012 9:05:47 PM
So you're game hehehe?!?
(I can show ya what I mean 
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xxx
Jinni
I like DATY after I suck (or during ...) cuz that's what reaaalllyy turns me on
But the most important thing is that YOU Reaallly wanna eat me too.
I don't know about any one else, but I can tell when a guy is just eating pvssy cuz "it's exxxpected" of him ...
And if that's how you are, then (don't bother )
xxx
Jinni
Should mean that you get to do what pleases you as long as it's respectful and within the menu. If what pleases you is what pleases her, it appears that most providers are pretty open about that (based on what I have read). To say a provider has never been turned on by a client is wrong. As is saying every provider is turned on by every client.
If you are looking for every provider out there to say they can't get enough of DATY, I think you're barking up the wrong tree IMO. You are paying them to blow your mind.....do you really think you are ever going to know for sure if that was what they loved or if that was what they delivered because they are pros?
I have been with 2 providers that said go at it but it's not going to happen. Not seeing them again.
Seems to me that if you enjoy it, and the woman in question is open to enjoying it, and you are good at it, then life is great. I've been with one provider that said it was off the table, and one that I just didn't really want to go there. My ATF, however, really enjoys it, really cums from DATY, and encourages me to do so. It turns me on more that she's turned on, and it makes the whole experience more pleasurable and real.
Bottom line is, as in the real world, YMMV. Every girl is different. That's what makes life so great.
I'll be frank...there aren't a lot of men who excel at this artform (please don't fill my inbox with comments about how great you are and you need the opportunity to change my mind...I bet you have the hugest penis ever too, lol--but do feel free to book an appointment if you really need to prove me wrong, lol)
there are a couple of clients I actually DO NOT want them to go down on me and I will gently direct things in other directions because I'm too polite to tell them they don't excel in that area and it's a waste of time...or it actually annoys me...cause if you do it really bad you can give me an infection or make small tears in the tender tissue that make normal things like peeing uncomfortable. I'll just take this opportunity to make a public service announcement: It's not bread dough people!
There are also clients I'm excited to see because I know they want to please me, do a nice turn and don't stop just when I'm getting started...I also know some guys really enjoy this aspect of being with a women and even if they are just gonna be flopping around down there I let them have their time as long as it's unobstrusive...I'm sorry, I don't fake it, I think that's insulting. When I'm enjoying myself you will know...at the same time, I try to remain somewhat uninvested in the whole deal because in most cases, mr. man stops at his leisure and that's all fine, but if you were my boyfriend you would keep going or you wouldn't get your turn, lol.
I wrote a blog post on this and other topics recently on my website called "owners manual"
First, thanks for being candid. Second...
Brilliant!!!!!
Unfortunately, the very hobbyists that should heed that, won't. They will always think their way is the way and don't much care what the average hooker feels, even though it's her body.
Thankfully there are some hobbyists that do care and I hope you see those types. Some just completely forget that there is a live human being attached to the pussy they are poking, probing,entering etc. And some of those feel because they paid, they can treat it and the person it's attached to as they see fit, even if it cause pain or discomfort...it's all about the monies worth to them.
I think I'm actually pretty lucky in who I attract and also I am smart in how I screen leaning strong on intuition. I tend to avoid guys who say things like, "babe, you are gonna love me" or "wait till you get a load of me" LOL...
Also I use tact to let them know if they are crossing lines...I seem to come across mostly men who wouldn't dare want to cause any discomfort and very much appreciate knowing whether or not you are enjoying yourself...of course there are cases where I grin and bear it for gents on the larger size who can't help that they are just plain well endowed, lol.
Mainly I wrote that post for people who want to ask questions in the heat of the moment which is too distracting and annoying for me...and also just a heads up on how sensitive I am compared to porn stars (lol) which in some cases might be the fantasy land from which they are basing their ass-umptions.
That is some mighty specific feedback! I have always thought it funny that many guys think the harder they pound, the more the gal likes it. For some, maybe? I've always been more of a deliberate grinder to be honest. LOL
I hope you treat your civie boyfriends well. I think I'd be a little scared I was always screwing (pun intended) something up.
hmmm...do I treat my boyfriends well? I can't remember the last boyfriend I had who didn't want to marry me, LOL.
It's part of my living and if the truth were to be told, none of my clients can make that happen so I would be out of a part time job...all because guys have to have that happen in order to be fully satisfied. So, since my primary reason for doing this is well you know...I shall do whatever it takes to keep them coming back.
And if done right and convincingly, know one knows any different. It's the over the hill porn like crap that gives it away as totally fake.
So I guess I get some guys who it does not matter if I get mine...or it is not important to them and then there are those that it has to happen or they won't repeat. Any decent business person will find a way to make it work and thus keep repeat busniness coming back.
The lady said something along the lines of: "DATY is a requirement." or "DATY is a MUST!"
I thought that was quite funny.
Anyways, what's wrong with pleasing the lady?
Do you not get pleasure out of it?
Whether she is faking it or not, the session should be about pleasing both parties, and not just one.
Of course, you could do sex and that would be mutually pleasing.
If a guy does not wish to daty, I would prefer he just book a damn blow and go, vs. booking a gfe and expect me to flow like a damn waterfall just because he tries to jam a dry finger in there. NOT going to happen.
-- Modified on 12/6/2012 1:45:09 PM
I get that many reviews may be exaggerated, and that many ladies are good at faking (or not so good). And I know that what I say will be taken with a grain of salt, for which I wouldn't blame you. But here's my two cents anyway:
I don't fake...and I don't have an orgasm every time DATY is performed. And I have no problem guiding someone gently to the things that do "work" for me. Most of the time, I am able to have one or two...but again, it's not 100%. Either way though, it feels good...unless nails or teeth are involved, in which case I will saw "ouch!" :P.
Whether or not I come, it is a good warm up to get the juices going and does make me readier to engage in intercourse. Of course, if you'd rather forgo that, I am happy to get my own juices flowing with my hand or my vibrator. In the end, I would like a little time to be worked up. But I don't speak for all ladies when I say this. This is just how I work, and I think overall this provides for a more authentic experience.
I'm guessing lots feel this way, but some (see a bunch a threads) think its pointless. So how do we know? Asking in-session seems too likely to get a "yes" because it's safer (since it's really important to some guys) and if it gets you hot, I'm up for t, but making you fake it sucks too.
I am a generous lover and ALWAYS eat out a woman to please her first. I almost never have providers that need to use artificial lube to have intercourse with me.
I saw my Thai provider in Chicago last week. It had been about two weeks without a woman or even masturbation. I pleased her until she gushed like a waterfall since I would not last long fucking her. I literally came within 5 minutes of intercourse.
Thankfully, she wanted more and we just talked about her experiences in the US. I went down on her again until she orgasmed and then she performed oral for a minute and got me hard as oak according to her.
She put a condom on me and this time I came in about 10 minutes with her having the upper body female orgasm flush in breasts and neck.
She got the best of me. I am in my 40s and she had me cum twice within 40 minutes with no ED meds as assistance. I could have easily cum three or four times in a 90 minute session with her.
I think that it all comes down to eating her pussy. I just loved the sweet musk that was coming out of her pussy during orgasm.