.....Providers not wanting us to just expect to go for the FULL TIME that we are with them. I must be missing something ( other than common sense or why would I be posting here). If we wanted to only go for let's say 1/4 to 1/2 the time and talk and cuddle ( HMMM sounds like being home except it would be 5-10 min and then talk and cuddle). WHY would we do this ?? We could go for coffee or a drink after Jerking Off and just hang with lady friends...wouldn't it be cheaper and less stressful on everyone ? I mean do the Providers really think that the numbers they are quoting and we are willing to supply are for something that we already get for the most part. Granted most of the ladies I have seen are very attractive BUT I for one want something I am not getting at home and that would be TRUE RAW UNADULTERATED HOT PASSION !!! Why does that make us so wrong. I saw a prior post where it seemed we were WRONG for expecting to enjoy ourselves for the whole time ( JACKHAMMERING for the bulk of the time was frowned upon). So I am just curious do the Providers really think that they are worth Twice what we are paying them ?? Since in theory if you think of it, doing it for only 1/4 to 1/2 the time is what that amounts to. I have no problems with paying it's just what the end product is . Yes this is a very cut and dry way of looking at it but when you are paying for ANY service you should expect to get what you pay for. We as Hobbyists for the most part ( not speaking for the guys who actually want to just talk or do whatever it is they do during their time ) are paying with the full intention of YES, GOING FOR THE BULK OF THE TIME ( or as long as our little soldiers can muster ). I expect to get all kinds of grief for this but I truly am amazed that the posts on this issue don't get more backing by fellow hobbyists or is everyone just worried about the backlash ( yes I'm using an alias as compared to my ALIAS to avoid too much drama). Yes I am not very good at grammar or writing but I believe the point is covered, and NO IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH $$$$$$$ for someone who LOVES to ENJOY her time as much as me Price is not an object !! ( as the ones who know and enjoy me will attest )  FIRE AWAY

Now, some girls can get pounded for three hours straight, but most cannot. If you have a problem with anatomy, by all means take it up with your god or whatever scientists you may know.  

A 60-minute is not 59:59; it's 60 minutes and then time to clean up and part ways with a DFK good bye kiss, similar to what happens at the door when I initially open it to greet you!  Love how you ended this post with FIRE AWAY.  I feel the same way in my post; I'm probably going to receive some not so positive responses either.   I cannot attest to what other providers do nor would I begin to tell them how to conduct their consultations.  I can however AGREE 150% WITH YOU and for those clients who have seen me know that I'm often purposefully keeping them over their allotted time because our hot passion is still oozing  I'm multi-orgasmic so when I'm erupting 5, 6, 7, 8....times in a session it's only fair that I go all out to give them as many shots on goal as they can possibly handle.  Don't get me wrong I love the cuddle time post HOT PASSION where I listen to some of my client's erotic fantasies and/or tales.  This helps me craft future creative sessions to keep the HOT PASSION alive during our consultations.

It would also be gentlemanly for you to notify her that you plan on popping a handful of Viagra for a wall-to-wall poundfest. Do your research - there's a wide variety of services offered in this biz. It would be unreasonable and idiotic to expect the same level of performance from everyone.  

Mostly kidding, lol

Hard to believe I know. Most ladies do this because they can. Most ladies see longer appointments as "freebies" because they can fill the time with other junk and provide minimal action. I can't speak in all generals for sure, but I have heard most of this before. Your best bet it to find a lady that is high energy, maybe more mature, maybe less high volume, and get what you want. It is easier to mention this in the first meeting or after you have been screened via email as long as you are discreet. Or check with her reviewers and see what kinda gal she is. Never hurts to know what you are getting into before you fork over your $$$. GFE tends to imply a little more affection and less action. I like my GFE to be more like new lovers that can't get enough of each other... Now that is PASSION!!!

too eye fatigue and giving up on the effort. It's akin to opening a page of prose in 'large case'.

Like-minded providers will put you on their YES list, and the unlike-minded will DNS you, saving everyone involved from wasted time.

You my dear, are my kind of man....
It is the subtleties that most are apt to miss...

Rather than superimpose your Energizer Bunny sensibilities on everyone, do your homework and choose a provider that offers the non-stop action you seek.  

Dear Jaye:
I noted that you said that every provider does not enjoy P4P sex.  With that said would you say since the economic downturn and the advent of the internet and other review sites such as this one, that this is a better bridge job for most or is it a job that would pay them more than there primary source of employment? Also would you say that most master the art of compartmentalization to a large extent psychologically that permits them to participate in this for an extended period of time? Finally would you say that this eschelon of the hobby would appeal to the working and middle class women more than the traditional conceptualizations of the game that we tend to identify with?

As well as give dudes a heads (pun intended) up about how quickly a gal will have her first O....many seem to discuss that first one upon entering the room.  I particularly like those gals...as I always know that it's my mission to get her off no less than 20 times in the hour.  

...jackhammering, pounding and so on. It's not the expectation of getting the full time they are commenting on it's the expectation of hammering, pounding, what have you for the full time. I've read some say they are up for it though so do your research, find the ones that are good with it and hammer away.

Provider score inflation is hardly a blip compared to the wagon loads of manure guys write about themselves. Reading such fairytales of sexual prowess would only lead to my profound disappointment when they can’t live up to the expectations created by their reviews.

A number of guys I know have tried to be discreet, saying simply "all activities were performed" or something to that effect, and then talk about all the little things in between that made the session so much better (let's face it, doggy is kinda just doggy, so is mish. It's the other stuff that makes it more or less exciting). They were told that there needed to be more of a blow-by-blow for it to be posted. It's just not what the masses want to read, but it does put those at a disadvantage that do care about the woman's ability to create a connection, or present an upscale environment, or in general be multi-dimensional in her work.  

....funny thing is the juicy details stuff is juicier if there is a nice warm up with a little get to know you chat but no one wants to read about that or the chit chat between rounds.  A well reviewed escort's bed is the only place in town where you get an update on what is really going on locally as well as getting laid.  Oh, and the fact that she knows all this stuff is because - you guessed it - someone else was chit chatting in bed.

EXACTLY why I never dated for more than 30min. a session. I already KNEW the real action was going to take around 20min. to complete so any kind of time left after that is pure fluff and filler.

While it's technically and legally right the way you said it it's also kind of Not-So-PC.

Your analogy is WAY OFF. Try this: you go into a steakhouse to order a steak. When the steak comes out the waiter says that you can only eat 75% of it even though you paid for 100% of the steak.

that a client made her sore from too much non stop action?

The eat somewhere else. THAT is my point.

and luckily only have your imagination, lol!

LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS RESPONSE!!!

Some got the point of the post, some, well...let's just say the ball is rolling around in the outfield somewhere.....S.Y.W. I never said I had or intended to sleep with all your clients ( G-d you must be busy ), I was just stating that I felt that MOST players would rather enjoy the time doing what they PAID for and not having the Provider Sidestep the action by finding every way under the sun to waste time NOT doing what was paid for. I also know that there are a LOT of providers who do like to ENJOY themselves. I just don't understand why if a Hobbyist WANTS to try and GO for as long as he can ( The JACK HAMMERING reference,  wasn't the Point, it was however mentioned in an earlier post and that was what I was referring to ) and enjoy himself and hopefully please his companion that the provider would have a problem with that. If they don't want to that is fine but a LOT don't mind taking the $$$$$$ and then do whatever they can to dance around the hour.
  As for Viagra or the like , hey guess what not everyone needs it and some people actually just LIKE to F'ck !!! Trying to go by the reviews, REALLY ??!!! Do we really think that even 60 % of the reviews aren't loaded with more FLUFF than a pillow ?!! " She met me at the door and after a DFK dropped to her knees and shoved her tongue up my rectum !! "" SSTTTOOPPPPP !!!! REALLY ??!!! It's fine to embellish a bit but it's also not going to be an exact science using the reviews. They are only a guide. We still have to go on instinct sometimes and all we can expect is that if a women is going to be in this business and get PAID VERY WELL for her time then she should either provide what we PAY for or lay it on the line up front that this is what I charge and there is no way you are going to get more than half the time you pay for filled with action.  

I can tell you I would be very reluctant to keep a client that "ONLY" does 30 mins. I am not a rusher, so to have the pressure of the clock to spring into action and get grinding isn't really my thing. Sure, it may only take you 10 mins or maybe 5 good pumps, to get you there, but seriously, there is more to life than quick pop offs! Actually get to like and know the girl you are humping just a little! LOL!!!

Drive an uber expensive car, has those custom made suits, is in great shape, loves to tie up young thangs and boss them around. He love "high performance" sex.

Where IS he?

Get an answer, don't even read it for comprehension (or at all, it seems), and wanna get all offended about literally nothing?  

"here's a wide variety of services offered in this biz. It would be unreasonable and idiotic to expect the same level of performance from everyone. "  

It has now become a mission to get men to look at this as a sport and to fuck the daylights out of the hookers they see because that's the way he sees it. And to try and convince hookers to drop the GFE "choreography" and allow this to happen regardless of personal limitations.  

..."Any multi hour I have had has been action packed."...

Jerking it to Fifty Shades fan fiction while simultaneously googling weight loss tricks....

ie girlfriend experience -   anyone here had a girlfriend before?    it's not long before it becomes more about talking and cuddling than about sex....    and that seems to be what a lot of them really want to offer -  and honestly there does seem to be a strong market for that approach

YOU stay with k-girls and work them over for your  experience  and let other men decide how and with whom to spend their money.  

...my bad I guess I misread your words  

..so John-Hooker wanting a girl to not try and talk and primp her way around a date or doing anything else to avoid the main event till the last minute, instead of actually Providing is to you DOWNING the way a hoker provides ? ...Uh YEAH IT IS....because if that's what they want to do then feel free to but make that CLEAR from the outset !! Just say I'm going to charge you to watch me get ready and talk for most of the time and then if " THE TRICK " still wants to stay then there is no complaint ..... and if your comprehension is as great as you think, then you would realize noone was bashing just trying to have a different POV than the rest........

to make ¼ to ½ the norm. Anyone falling for that crap deserves ¼ to ½ for full prize. There are lots of providers who likes to go the whole time and beyond. It is just matter of finding the right one

No one is talking about pounding for three hours but there are other things you can do besides cuddling. Cuddling is something you do when both parties are satiated not before.

Indeed, you would love the post if you are for more money and lazy service

You really are retarded
 
Perhaps this is why you can't afford the PSE you're looking for.

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First of all, what is extreme about my view? That a woman would have the NERVE to have standards of treatment even when you're paying her? The thought that she may have actual physical limitations like the rest of the world? :-O!!!!! The HORROR!!!

There's an opinion and then there is you,  bemoaning any hooker who does not offer the MPE. The very way you deliver the words smacks of contempt. And yeah I have contempt for you because you just fail to see that others may like the chit chat and the hand holding and the eye blazing and not care about getting his monies worth as to those guys they are with what they need from a session, NOT what you need from the session.

another way? So what?

provider websites that mention " I prefer longer dates..."  

and you both know what you should be able to expect and are happy with what you get then it is a win-win

first if you read any of my reviews you would see how drastically you are mis-characterizing my point of view - but I honestly don't care - it's your privilege

As more of us are realizing your inability to accept that there are other ways to hook and monger.