You are one whiny-ass broke af drama queen. If you don't want to get screened by an online escort, find your nearest SW  behind the 7-Eleven, take her in your car, and proceed to pleasure her with your $40 flaccid 2-incher.

Did they yell at you? Did they beg?

there is "SCREENING."  While it is clearly an individual choice, on both ends, when we get to the point where it is uncomfortable, it is time to move on.  By that time any chance at establishing "rapport" has already evaporated and you would probably not enjoy your time with her anyway.

I cannot relate one bit as I have never had that experience.  

If she want to text screen I move on, if she doesn't want to tell me about her I move on, if has erratic  move on, in fact many times I know her real name before I see her not her giving to but though social media or tatoos. I pay sixty to eighty for full service some times a hole one hundred dollars. Not being desperate helps a lot I have a hand and I know how to use it. Most of providers are desperate for some money and will happy with a real guy that stops by.

the women that he doesn't want, but then I started thinking that any woman who would see him in the first place is probably not one that I would want.  

go through those background checks. It's like to get a job. If you don't want to be drug tested or screened you say no and find something else. Also the price you pay is what you accept to pay. If I had money I would get good service. But since I'm always broke I go for what I can.  
You sound more like you are in my team.

We're all just friendly consenting adults, some of us happen to be female and service providers, but if you use that language and those terms then perhaps you are in the wrong place.  The rest of this thread is much more civlized, even in response to such hateful and aggressive language.

Its because like an old girlfriend used to say, "Men only have to worry about getting their feelings hurt on a date --- women worry about getting killed".

Umm, we live in a free capitalist society, the ladies can demand whatever money and screening they want, and whatever security they feel is necessary.
I suggest you pick up some street hookers, then you don't have to worry about screening and spending a lot of money.

I think you may be missing the big picture here.  Maybe move your head around for different perspectives.  Assuming you can process that additional information and all.

... I was interested in seeing a girl who had her info scrubbed. No info on her anywhere except on a verification site. I inquired about it and she gave me the usual speech about that sort of thing. I saw a red flag there, but she looked so damn good I proceeded. She then required a deposit before the date. Sounds reasonable if this was for an overnight or something extended, but the date was only for the hour. A deposit on an hour. Second red flag, I bailed. Lo and behold, find out later through the grape vine that she was ripping people off right and left.  

Julia Roberts was one once.  

Nobody is forcing you for minimum time, don’t be upset, just find someone who suits your needs. Xxx

you're still only 5'5".  
And I'll be that's a stretch.

That's right, a fresh papaya with a hole cut in it is only a few bucks.  Lol

I seriously doubt you have ever forked over thousands to anyone. You want to be seen by a reputable provider, give her the information she needs to feel safe or go see someone who offers 15 minute sessions at the red roof.  

that have been posting here for years know that we whore-mongering pigs . . . . . er, ah, I mean "hobbyists" generally respect and hold them and their profession in high regard, so that the term, "hooker" is a term of endearment and not something disparaging.  Most ladies here just laugh it off.  It took me a long time to get used to it, too, (I used to say "working girls" when I was new here.  I don't like the term "providers" because that's what the insurance industry calls medical professionals, and  don't associate them with sex.  Only one nurse ever made me cum at a doctors office.) until I noticed several of the "established" ladies on this board using the "hooker" term, too.  Its a board thing and its all tongue-in-cheek fun.  I'm fairly certain that none of the men here would email you that they are "looking for a hooker to spend some time with."

Coming from this whiner baby it sounds derogatory.   But I'm seeing that he just needs to be ignored. Just speaking for myself, I prefer sex worker, companion, provider of adventure ...

Supposedly, he's a sex worker, too.  He claims NOT to be bi-sexual, but I can't imagine a woman paying him for anything, unless perhaps he has created a niche market for himself giving STANDING DATY because of his miniscule stature.  I get the impression that he will see both men and women, just like many female providers.

Without whores, were would us "whore mongers" be as well? lol