TER General Board
When I was a bit younger, the holy grail for me was BBBJCIM. Not that I mind it now, you understand '
And what turned me on and got me going was a tight little spinner body.....
At this point in my life, I have learned to appreciate a wider variety with respect to appearance. I'm not so much "turned on" by appearance per se as I used to be. I've come to the understanding that there is a lower point of diminishing returns for appearance vis performance.
What really turns me on now is passionate kissing. A lady who will (seemingly) abandon herself to kissing me will get the best out of me every time. BBBJ is still kinda nice of course..... but it's the kissing that seems to set the stage in many cases for a passionate, hot experience.
For the first time in my TER reviewing "career" of 36 submitted reviews in ten months, I awarded a "10" for performance to a lady. TER in its wisdom downgraded my rating to a "9".
What the lady in question did to rock my world was to kiss me the moment I got in the door, deeply, passionately, hungrily, with total abandon, til I could hardly breath, til I dropped my briefcase, til we collapsed together against the wall panting for air.....
It did not hurt that she had my crank (and my first load) in her mouth before she ever let me into the bed ' but all of the passion and intensity was set up by that fantastic entry. She drew passion and intensity out of me in return, in a manner that I have seldom experienced.
I am very sorry that TER dropped the lady's performance score. Our encounter was the most intensely passionate that I have had with a provider in a long time.....
the road. Here's my secret....
No kidding. I put a bowl out...
and a couple on the envelope also...............
-- Modified on 4/28/2009 7:55:11 PM
First off, congratulations on such a great encounter. Sounds like the kind of thing that lingers in your mind many months after the event.
In response to your supposition that kissing is the key ingredient to a wonderful time with a woman, I agree.
I must have an unusual style of kissing because it can be difficult to find a provider that I 'click' with immediately. As Heather stated above, I too am somewhat shy and reserved at first. I need to get a read on a woman before gradually building up the momentum while kissing. Then, if we can both find a mutually enjoyable dance of lips and tongues, it is off to the races!
I had a very recent appointment with a provider that had an odd approach to kissing. She is young, but had pages of reviews here. At first, her kissing was kind of like 'open lips and flutter tongue up and down rapidly.' It was not exactly doing it for me. Then, after some mutual oral exhange and a little wine and talk, we started into some more teasing leading up to her climbing on top of me. Her kissing style changed dramatically and we suddenly hit our stride. It was great! It turned an OK time into a very good time.
I have also seen some providers that kiss well at first, then as the session progresses, they seem less and less interested. I am pretty sure that my breath wasn't the issue (never had complaints). Maybe MY kissing style turned THEM off. Either way, that is a major letdown. If a provider does not generally enjoy kissing her clients, I wish she wouldn't try to fake it. It is worse in some ways than not kissing at all.
In fact, I had one session with a provider that chooses not to kiss any clients which contradicted her profile (but was confirmed in many of her reviews that I had not read). I was a little disappointed at first, but she more than made up for it with seriously sensual nuzzling and caressing. Generally, I will not even book a session with a provider whose profile indicates that she does not kiss, but I am very glad to have had that particular encounter.
Then again, there is the new girl in town that rocked me from the beginning with her kissing (see my review of Sophie Simone if you care to know more). Time to get my calendar out to book a follow-up