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Being of Afrikan/Anglo birth and schooled abroad we are more open to other ethnic groups. In the states I observe that Gays/Lesbians/Heterosexuals mix with their own. As well as other ethnics out of religious,educational and financial status. When I encounter Afro-Americans they are intrigued with me as if I'm some sort of rare bird. Like for ex: You are an AFRICAN...? Yes..Dahhh!! By the way Africa is a CONTINENT and NOT a COUNTRY like the USA. Lol...LOL. My hope is that in the american schools that Afro-Americans "LEARN MORE" more about native history,politic's,language and ancestral tribe's. Slavery was the WORST thing that happen to blacks living stateside. They have become so dis-connected from native languages,ancestral music,culinary meals,politics,religions(minus the b.s missionaries who try to convert others to the catholic/baptist faith). Black american tend to mimic what they see and meld that in order to become less a threat to WHITES. Apartheid and ethnic cleaning is one of the Worse things to happen in assorted african regions. My mom is a proud Afrikan who has a Ph.d and speaks five native tongues. While dad is a proud Anglo embraces everything political to travel. Inter-racial dating and marriage is COOL!! Not everyone agrees with WM fathering a offspring with a BF,AF,LF,IF. Who care's biracial children are GOD'S technicolor.................! As much as I embrace all races I do find that BM in the USA,Islands and territorial Africa can be somewhat overly AGGRESSIVE and threaten by a strong woman...So...

I am not a newcomer to the business and over time I have noticed, not only a trend in the guys who want to see me, but also those who seems to like me the most.

My demographic is Black professional men ages 37 to 50. Not to say other gentleman do not like me, but this group seems to be my #1 fans. Also, I notice men of Mediterranean or Norwegian decent are are also VERY pleased upon meeting and getting to know me.

Do any other ladies have a similar experience/observation ?


Kisses,
Vanica Love

!Drunk_Bully296 reads

black guys like black girl.

but I thought your demographics were starwars fan too
princess lea. ;)

But your statement surprised me. Not that I doubt you, but it's interesting to me that Black men are such a large part of your clientele. I remember reading something years ago by a African-American provider that she almost never saw any Black men; it was almost exclusively White men. Of course, Washington, D.C., has a large African-American population, so that might be part of the reason. You are very attractive, so you're more likely to get men of all kinds.

ddd4111299 reads

I am of mixed race......and I don't see BM in part ...too long to explain. Many women of color may prefer BM and NOT WM. Or vice ver-sa though in my personal dating choice. I prefer middle easterners who are from Saudi Arabia and educated in the United Kingdom. BM in the United states remark that I'm NOT like a Mariah Carey and more like a Princess Di 'Prude' but stylish. I hardly spend time with African Americans and the slang tends to put me off a bit. Afrikans are super cool and we enjoy rugby,soccer and politics...where as African Americans are sometimes clueless to Central,South,West African issues. I do enjoy engaging in the assorted cultural differences with them. Many of my friends who are WF that are high-end providers only see Japanese,WM and BM who are willing to doll out 1k for their services. Though in their personal lives they date BM who are former athletes or business owners. I think Americans tend to assume that all BF or mixed raced females will only date or mingle with BM. It's all about personal choice,what your comfortable with and turn-offs. I will NOT see associates who are HIGH RISK nor DRUG users! Doper's spend $$$ on girls but they can also turn on agency owners or madame's who own in-call brothel's that work under the radar. With Obama becoming president many people are still shocked that his late mom was a WF and dad was a BM born in Kenya. We are only human so enjoy while you can and relish in your former pleasures at  old age...

Interesting post. There is a lot more diversity in dating than when President Obama was born. But there are some real trends regarding sex and race. I can understand that a woman can say yes or no to whomever she pleases, as is her right, and she doesn't have to explain it. But unless you solicit customers, which most escorts don't do, you are limited to who calls you. Just from what I have read, including on this board, Black men rarely see Black escorts, though statistically they usually will marry a Black woman. Maybe they, like one for the home and the opposite on the side.

It's an interesting cultural phenomenon, but as a white guy, I have no stake in the issue. I like any woman, whatever her color, as long as she is attractive and sweet. And since 1967 in the United States, it is legal throughout the United States.

are overwhelmingly white males (maybe 97%) and about 70% of them are age 50-65.  

The remaining 3 percent are about 2% Asian, .5% Black, and Hispanic and Middle Eastern make up the remaining .5%.

This is what I've noticed over the past 3 years.

Why this is, I could not tell you!!  

Black men like me in real life (thats really all that hits on me when I go out) but they won't see me as a provider.  Hmmm....

-- Modified on 10/24/2011 5:24:31 PM

!Drunk_Bully275 reads

interesting demographic, I wouldn't have guessed it.

mostly "old and crusty" clients... lmfao

Yes, and you are the crustiest of them all!!!!!!

!Drunk_Bully216 reads

thought you were going to clean it up with a hot towel...

instead of letting all that stuff dry into a crust... lmao, ;)

my demographics are the complete opposite with the highest percentage of clientele being middle aged and up causcasian men. (and I love you all :) ).

Bisous

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One couple that I'm aware of, because he was a climber.  Made his $B in between his early and late life climbing. Died climbing when he made the error of putting an anchor in bad rock.  You need good judgement to stay safe climbing, and more so to keep your people safe when you lead climbs.

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R&B and Pop singer Miss Diana Ross would love the fact behind closed doors that a group of working girls and clients. Are discussing her past marriage on a forum related to the oldest profession since Mary Magdalene. There are plenty of Anglo WM who have dated and married BF in the states and abroad. More Americans tend to have an issue with BM taking all the pretty WF that resemble Playboy model types. A majority of BF are some what upset with the fact that BM are shedding them for WF,Latina's,AF. To all the BF there are many BM living in many African countries, though there are language and HUGE cultural differences. Branch out,test the water and turn on to something else other than what your used to? The famous golden era actress the late Lena Horne married a WM before it was legal. Josephine Baker the burlesque musical star of the 1920's-1970's married WM. Janet Jackson,Latoya Jackson,Pearl Bailey,Naomi Campbell,Tookie Smith,Diahann CarroL,Whoopie Goldberg,Donna Summer,Lisa Bonet,Dorothy Dandrige,. the list goes on! "Slash" the guitarist from Gun's & Roses has a Black mom she passed away. Mick Jagger,Sonny Bono,Roger Ebert,Robin Thicke,Leon Russell,Robert Deniro,etc married BF...Who care's who marries or dates that's your problem and either you can become exiled on an island or jump off a bridge! Have a good day-

The way he  treats others...
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I might even settle down in a city so beautiful. The people there are charming and I know I would feel welcome and at home. Vivianna's City is a spiritual place.  Yet the people there are real and natural. They're not judgmental, they are accepting, loving, generous, open minded.

They accept my imperfections because they are honest about their own. "Judge not, that you be not judged" is written on the welcome sign at the city limits. Yes, if Vivianna was a city and I was taking a trip around the world, there is only one place I would feel right at home. Vivianna City. But as the country group Lonestar sings in its ballad, "I'm Already There."
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Posted By: Vanica
I am not a newcomer to the business and over time I have noticed, not only a trend in the guys who want to see me, but also those who seems to like me the most.

My demographic is Black professional men ages 37 to 50. Not to say other gentleman do not like me, but this group seems to be my #1 fans. Also, I notice men of Mediterranean or Norwegian decent are are also VERY pleased upon meeting and getting to know me.

Do any other ladies have a similar experience/observation ?


Kisses,
Vanica Love

Posted By: Vanica
I am not a newcomer to the business and over time I have noticed, not only a trend in the guys who want to see me, but also those who seems to like me the most.

My demographic is Black professional men ages 37 to 50. Not to say other gentleman do not like me, but this group seems to be my #1 fans. Also, I notice men of Mediterranean or Norwegian decent are are also VERY pleased upon meeting and getting to know me.

Do any other ladies have a similar experience/observation ?


Kisses,
Vanica Love
-- Modified on 10/24/2011 11:32:15 PM

Sure, there are some guys that prefer to see white women. Or black. Or Latina. Oriental. BBW. Tiny. Blonde. Brunette. Redhead. Younger or older.  

A combination or not.

Me? I dig on a lady that I can hang with. Been with all of the above, in one form or another, and they made me reassess my priorities and enjoy THEM. The time with THEM.

So much to learn and experience, so little time... :)

After you have been with them all, I know what you mean. It's like, oh, its a girl with different hair color. Or, oh, its a girl that got larger boobs. Or, oh, its a girl that got a fatter ass. Sooner or later, they are look the same and may feel the same.

They only difference is, how they behave and make you feel that stands out. Or, what other characteristics that this provider have over the other. That's a determining factor of a great provider IMO.

It stated that, from birth to childhood, environmental factors plays a big role in shaping a person's characteristic. And in this case, it also shape their mutual connection with the opposite sex. For example, if you were raised in an African American household, your family members and friends are more likely to be African American. Please do not get technical with this response, I'm just stating what I've seen on the Discovery Channel. So, the child begins to resemble and connect the people around him or her.

With time, the child begins to be more comfortable with the environmental exposure. As time progress during the elementary school and beyond. He or she will encounter people of different races. This exposure to different races will cause a defensive mechanism within the child.

Consequently, the child will likely to associate with the people that they were expose to at an earlier age. Take a look around. It even gave examples of high school lunches. The whites sit with the whites, the African American sits with the African Americans, the Hispanics sit with the Hispanics, and the Asians sit with the Asians. This factor will likely to influence the adulthood of the person.

Its not a racial thing, its just a preference base on environmental influence. You are more comfortable with the people that resemble you. Am I correct, or am I wrong?

Hmmmm.  Well, I am 100% First Nation and was adopted by a British white family when I was 6 weeks old.  I was the only Indian in my class for most of my school years.  So, no wonder I am all mixed up, lol.  I am most comfortable with white people for sure and all my friends are white.  There were only 2 black families in my town when I was growing up.  I must be an anomoly-mixed race adoptions were VERY rare in my day-I was born in 1969.  Different times for sure.

As for my clients, 99% are white collar, white men.  Oddly enough, mostly lawyers and accountants.  For some odd reason, lawyers love me.  In civilian life, black men love me but I am just not interested in them at all.  Love white men in suits.  I could spend all day in the financial district in NYC and watch hot white collar men in suits stroll by....but I digress.  In DC I did have some black clients but here in Philly, none.  All white with the very occasional hispanic or asian.

In school middle and hs there were a few groups where blacks only sat with each other and groups where hispanics only sat together (there were almost no white kids and literally only saw 3 asians in my hs) but plenty of cases where groups were mixed black and hispanic .... where I went to school it was pretty much entirely black and hispanic ...... we more often than not hung around who we hang around with after school. I lived in area where blacks and hispanics hanging with each other is as normal as breathing. My group throughout high school was an even mix of blacks & hispanics (there was this one white girl who sat with us for the 1 yr she went to my HS).

Truth be told I do gravitate towards who look more like me or who I usually hang with (black or hispanic) but i'm comfortable hanging around anyone. I was in an secular/atheist group for almost 2 yrs at my 1st college where at most events I was one of a handful of 'brown people' there and it didn't phase me one bit (maybe because I was with like-minded people). I'm social so meh.

Posted By: McDonald000
It stated that, from birth to childhood, environmental factors plays a big role in shaping a person's characteristic. And in this case, it also shape their mutual connection with the opposite sex. For example, if you were raised in an African American household, your family members and friends are more likely to be African American. Please do not get technical with this response, I'm just stating what I've seen on the Discovery Channel. So, the child begins to resemble and connect the people around him or her.

With time, the child begins to be more comfortable with the environmental exposure. As time progress during the elementary school and beyond. He or she will encounter people of different races. This exposure to different races will cause a defensive mechanism within the child.

Consequently, the child will likely to associate with the people that they were expose to at an earlier age. Take a look around. It even gave examples of high school lunches. The whites sit with the whites, the African American sits with the African Americans, the Hispanics sit with the Hispanics, and the Asians sit with the Asians. This factor will likely to influence the adulthood of the person.

Its not a racial thing, its just a preference base on environmental influence. You are more comfortable with the people that resemble you. Am I correct, or am I wrong?

ddd4111225 reads

Being of Afrikan/Anglo birth and schooled abroad we are more open to other ethnic groups. In the states I observe that Gays/Lesbians/Heterosexuals mix with their own. As well as other ethnics out of religious,educational and financial status. When I encounter Afro-Americans they are intrigued with me as if I'm some sort of rare bird. Like for ex: You are an AFRICAN...? Yes..Dahhh!! By the way Africa is a CONTINENT and NOT a COUNTRY like the USA. Lol...LOL. My hope is that in the american schools that Afro-Americans "LEARN MORE" more about native history,politic's,language and ancestral tribe's. Slavery was the WORST thing that happen to blacks living stateside. They have become so dis-connected from native languages,ancestral music,culinary meals,politics,religions(minus the b.s missionaries who try to convert others to the catholic/baptist faith). Black american tend to mimic what they see and meld that in order to become less a threat to WHITES. Apartheid and ethnic cleaning is one of the Worse things to happen in assorted african regions. My mom is a proud Afrikan who has a Ph.d and speaks five native tongues. While dad is a proud Anglo embraces everything political to travel. Inter-racial dating and marriage is COOL!! Not everyone agrees with WM fathering a offspring with a BF,AF,LF,IF. Who care's biracial children are GOD'S technicolor.................! As much as I embrace all races I do find that BM in the USA,Islands and territorial Africa can be somewhat overly AGGRESSIVE and threaten by a strong woman...So...

Thanks for telling us Africa is a continent, not a country or an island. As education level goies higher, prejudice becomes lower and lower genreally even though there are exceptions.

A great man once said:

"Why do some humans take so much pleasure in other humans misery".

Since you claim to be Afrikan, you should know who said it, it was in your country, he said it!

Posted By: ddd4111
As much as I embrace all races I do find that BM in the USA,Islands and territorial Africa can be somewhat overly AGGRESSIVE and threaten by a strong woman...So...
I wonder where you meet these people.  I also if what you interpret as aggression is their disdain for your superiority complex.

"can be"?  What a lovely generalization you have there.  Can the same sweeping generalization not be made of Latin, Arab, Japanese, French, Chinese and other groups of men?

My $.02 worth.  Continue your black men bashing.  I am confident I will have no effect on that tendency of yours.

In Maryland, my clients are majority Caucasian (gentiles), some African Americans and Indian.

In DC suburbs, clients are still Caucasians (gentiles) and Jewish then Asian, African American and Indian. Ages 28-50. TER guys tend to be older.

I was very surprised by such a mixture of clients in DC.

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Kimber

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