Whether it's indy escorting, agencies or "sugaring", I constantly see clients/SDs saying that they want Caucasians, Asians, Latinas, any race on earth except African-American women. Now I'm asking a honest question; why is that? Is it because you find black women ugly, too heavy in general, or "ghetto" with too much attitude?  
And please be honest. No need to say the typical "It's just attraction" BS, because Black women come in many shades, sizes and cultures. Or if you want to maintain the act, what do you find unattractive about Black women? Would you change your mind is she was thinner and more petite? lighter skinned? demure and subservient?  
Or is it Black women from the USA that you don't find attractive? Would it be different if she was Ethiopian, West African, Cuban, Brazilian, or British?  
Once again please be honest about your opinions. DO NOT be PC (unless that's how you truly feel).  

personally, I don't like very dark skin color. I found it very unattractive.  Same reason, I don't like indian women, because their skin color is also too dark.

I like women, a lot, regardless of what race they are. OK, I'll admit it, I've never met a Martian that I like.

For me, the #1 consideration isn't melanin but size, by which I mean TER "build" or BMI and not just height. I have had some enjoyable times with AA women (tall ones, too!), all but one of them slim by MY standards, not the unreliable TER Profile standards. Some were house girls (eg, JoNY - a NYC place), some were agency girls, but I don't recall seeing a true indy (tried to see a JoNY girl who went indy many times but schedules never worked).

There are many black women I find attractive, but none yet I have met as  a hobbyist. I used to primarily indulge myself in Montreal, and 99% of the black providers there are Haitian. I met 2 and almost met a 3rd before giving up and abstaining. I don't mean to sound objectionable, but I find certain hairstyles like cornrows and dreadlocks very unattractive on a woman. Then there is the smell of the hair. Its very pungent and I have noticed it not only on providers from that ethnic group, but also co-workers. I don't know if its some sort of ethnic hair product but its quite distracting for me, and ruined what could have been great sessions.  

... along with White, Latina, Asian, mixed.  For me it doesn't make sense to rule out any ethnic group - there are so many attractive women of all ethnicities.

Maybe tomorrow someone will start a clit size thread instead of a dick size thread.

Look at any fashion magazines and what do you see?  What about leading actresses in major movies?  White Women!  

I am with you there. I go for body type more then race. No BBW for me white, black, or any other nationality. As long as they fit my body type and looks good to me I will contact to for a meeting.

Great point, Londyn!

In Mn blacks are a distinct minority, but when one goes to the top 100 list numbers one and three are black and you will find a total of four by the time you get on numbe twelve.
IMHO they did not get there and stay there by being black but rather by being black, intelligent, by providing a good service, and a safe environment .  
Saw one of these ladies this week and can honestly say she was NOT a black provider but a provider who was black.

I think there's a general stigma attached to being "of color", and perhaps an even greater stigma attached being black, specifically. I don't know that there's a war on melanin exactly lol, but we have a fairly racialized country and history that's often not very pretty, and it can be pretty hurtful sometimes and that sucks.

Great post.

Sweet, hot, and wet.  

and very little desire to share them on this board and I'm also not the one to whom question is posed.

+10,000 (as in lakes). Ya, ya darn tootin'! (EOM)

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Or a combination of the two. Personally, I love dark skinned women and have had the pleasure of many mind-blowing sessions with ladies of color over the years!! However, some guys just aren't into it---and I really wonder how much of it is just lack of physical attraction as opposed to some kind of bias formed at an early age that continues to be a barrier.

If the OP had simply done a Review Search of African American providers with a 9.0 average, he/she would have discovered 85 women all around the country.The number rises to 335 if you use a 8.5 average. AA women are a small percentage of providers who are on TER and P411. I personally will only see providers who are on these two sites so you don't have as many choices overall, but they are out there and doing quite well. They come in various complexions, body types, hair styles with a wide variety of menu options. Halle Moore, Elli King, Bree Breeze, Jennifer Baily, Kelis Monet, Caramel Dime, Adaysia Lynn, Naima, Taren Deleon, Erica Sweets, London Lauren, Penelope Parker, Norah Lucille to name just a few

say that.  I find Many of them very attractive.  I will admit I believe there is a little more attitude on a percentage basis, but many are great.  I guess the question could be asked, "Why do so many black men prefer white women?" Does this mean they also don't like black women?  So I guess again it comes down to for each his own.  I mean what flavor ice cream do u like?  Well Why?  Personal preference.....

Here is a good example, and I'm NOT trying to create and issue.  The two ladies you mentioned in your post I don't really find attractive, but I do find some AA ladies VERY attractive.  They just aren't my taste..  P.s Your Dad is/was a smart man...  Good day!

A vagina.

If not, it is irresponsible to make such statements.  

is being able to have sex with all kinds of different women (within my preferred body type). As a black man, I love black women. But I love all races, ethnicities, and shades of women. I want to taste every flavor.

I like brown, olive, yellow, above either very white or very black.

irresistible.  The great love of my life for whom I gave up hobbying for years and was almost ready to leave my home, wife, and family is a beautiful Jamaican American lady.  
Like most of us here, I love women and their bodies and the way they move and feel and smell and the way they think. There is something special about individual women, bit I do lobe AA women and find them particularly sexy.

So black woman are beautiful and very sexy.
I dated woman of all colors but love woman of color the most.
They have nothing to feel ashamed of because other assholes can't appericate their beauty.

And I also assume that as the current demographic change continues to accelerate and our American society becomes increasingly diverse the standard for beauty will change too. Fortunately, media is only too eager to embrace diversity now that there is money to be made from it.   (Apologies for using the trendy, over-worked word "diversity" but it actually is useful here.)

Simply put, it is conditioning. Not only that but human beings LOVE to categorize things. It's how our brain functions. We want things to fit neatly into a preordained neat little box, and when things don't fit it tends to make us anxious. We are HIGHLY influenced by the world we live in, even in ways we may not realize. Growing up we all saw advertising, learned about this country's history with minorities, the news, how people talked about other people, and how people treated other people. Even the smallest events, that you may not even remember, had an impact on your preference today. It's quite ingrained in us, this social conditioning.

Whenever I'm in Europe or the Middle East it feels as though the men are falling over themselves to get to me. I think in some places perhaps Black women or even dark skin in general is more fetishized because my dark skinned Indian girlfriends have the same experience whenever they visit Europe.  

She is gorgeous.  And her skin isn't dark at all.  More like honey colored.

I agree.  I should say very very dark.  I see some asians and latino who have relatively darker skin color and there's no problem. But not very dark.  I believe most people have their personal preference of physical features.  As long as a lady's physical fits my desire, I don't care where she came from. But very dark skin give negative point to me. Another thing is I don't like some typical face features of black lady.  I am not racism and I found so many black people are super nice in real life. If a black woman has very attractive physical features to me and not extremly dark, I would love to meet them. But this is not common. I would prefer an attrative black lady to unatractve white lady.  It's just some physical things about black girl are not my taste.  This is just my personal preference.  

I've also been with plenty of dark-skinned women just because they happened to be so damn sexy.  In the end it's more about chemistry than skin color.

It's not psyche.  It's just personal taste.  For example, I don't like BBW very heavy lady either.  I can easily pick a slim black girl than a very obese white girl, although I prefer light skin color.  If a girl is perfect everything else but just very obese, I still won't see her.  You can say I am psyche about obesity.  

I am not about to make excuses for why or why not some women are attractive to me. If the PC crowd were to be put in charge it would be "ageist" to not like old broads, "genderist" to be heterosexual and "weightist" to pass on a fat chick because of her weight.

My ex-wife and ex-girlfriend were Native American.  Most of the providers I have seen were African American.  My ATF is Hawaiian.  And even though my preference is dark, I've spent some quality time with a few white chicks as well.  Those who are not open minded are missing out on life.

I don't base my decisions on color, but on overall looks when considering a provider. Given that I'm over 60, I may be in a relatively smaller pool of guys who feel that way.

I too am not white nor black and living in the deep south in the 70's I experienced a LOT of overt racism and like you I had to work harder and hard to earn my place just to be "in the room"

I wonder how many hobbyists actually use race as a search criteria?  Could it be that you are seeing some skewing based upon clients who actually select based upon race?  

and in the context that you used it, even an "anti PC" guy like me won't cry foul for using it. IOW I agree with your point. It all comes down to money. At one point in this country marketing to "negroes" seemed pointless as black people were perceived as having little spending power. Now look at todays "diverse" (see I can use it too) marketplace. Companies and the media would be idiots not to change with the changing demographics of the marketplace.

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I see that alot also, but it's like you want to see me see me if not your lost. Some people like what they like, just as long as you don't call me a spic like one client did I'm good. No need to disrespect just don't see me.  

Well said.

As a black male, I see the discrimination from the opposite end of the spectrum.  Not saying it is or isn't warranted.  Truthfully, as race in this business market, some of the bad seeds have ruined it for the majority of us.  There are a lot of clients who just do not know how to treat a woman and are disrespectful, too aggressive, and try to rob, cheat and steal from them.  On the flip side, a lot of black providers on here have really bad reviews, not all, as there are some outstanding black women in the market.  From what I have seen, there is absolutely a market for black women, whether it be different races of men who have always wanted to try or white clients who love black women. You just have to find it.  Truthfully speaking, I am a fan of tits, fake tits, big tits etc and if they so happen to come on a black woman then she's getting a call!  Not saying that is the end all be all, I love a girl with a nice ass as well, so I guess its just a matter of preference at that point in time.  

I completely agree! I even had a client from Europe who told me America is very racist compared to where he lives, community wise & more ...  

I could talk about this for hours.

It's sounds so typical coming from you.

See, this is EXACTLY the problem and where you can see the inherent racism in this issue.

There is so much racially biased bullshit in these short three paragraphs.  I cannot even attempt to unpack it all.  But three things are really standing out to me:

I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess that you probably consider yourself to be one of those "evolved" men who "doesn't see race" and all that bullshit.  But if you can't "see" race, you sure as hell can't see racial bias.  So let me bring a few things to your attention:

I mean, what are you even talking about?

Take 5 minutes to browse around on Seeking Arrangement, Match, or any place where men post personal ads, and I pretty much guarantee that you're going to see at least a handful of guys right where you live who have specifically said that they aren't interested in black women.  

There will always be some who do not like darker skin whether it is an african-american,indian,etc.
I am a provider who is mixed with african-american and other races and it is a shame we are still having this conversation.
But the standard idea of beauty has always been white women.
Times have changed and there are now other examples of beauty besides white blonde or brunette women.
Funny how many white women and other races that are not black will alter themselves and go under the knife to get enhancements to their bodies such as the bigger lips and butt.Which is usually a beauty characteristic that is found in african-american women and other women of color(brazilian,cuban,puerto-rican,etc.)

Their skin tone and them being too dark (according to the responses), and many cases of generalization too. I've also noticed that most of the positive responses from Black providers, dismissing the statement were by ones who fall on the lighter end of the color spectrum, which is interesting.  

Nothing of what I said was PC, but it does not make me a casual racist. First up, providers are not employees I am contracting for a regular job, who I choose to be intimate with is a very personal choice.

White people are still the majority here in the US, so their numbers SHOULD be higher.  

My sentiment exactly.  My guess if that we are the minority and white clients are the greater majority within the hobbying world and a girl can't very well turn away what would be the majority of their income, if I had to guess.  I will ad that this rule is almost exclusively utilized only within the lower ranks of provider ads such as BP.  With that being said, it shows a lack of quality, and professionalism in the provider because all or most drama can be avoided by simply screening clients.

BECAUSE THAT WILL JUST LEAVE MORE FOR ME!!!!

So Miss America has only had 10 non white winners since 1921? You failed to mention that the first ever non white winner was in 1984, so actually they have had 10 non white winners in 30 years. That's 33%! For the first 40 or so years of Miss America, non whites weren't even allowed to compete! That just proves GaGambler's point of how much things have changed in the last few decades

While I stand by earlier response, I love women regardless of race, there is one thing that will make me lose an erection immediately and that is ghetto talk. This is not to say only black women talk ghetto, I just had an amazing session with an incredible woman who happens to be black (she did request that I not review, too bad because she rocked it). She did not talk in ebonics, which IS NOT a language.  

The problem might be you not expanding your business beyond just white clients.
It might explain why you feel the way you do.
So I bet your a beautiful woman and you can't worry about the other non black sex workers.
Just focus on yourself and growing your business with a more diverse client base.
 

So basically you overlooked some providers who "might" act "ghetto"? That explains a lot. I bet they were not the shade of snow.  

"I have also experienced a hell of a lot more racism directed at me personally in my life than you ever will."... Said the man to the anonymous stranger.  Do you even hear how stupid you sound right now? Like, how on God's green earth can you even pretend like you have any idea what you're talking about? If you don't know the first thing about me, how can you be so sure that your experiences with racism are in any way worse than mine? Who are you, the ghost of Emmet Till?! And for fuck's sake, what kind of person goes around trying to win some made up "Who had it worse" pissing contest anyway?  

Oh, my Gawd!  Did I just say BLACK????  That is SO racist! LMAO!

You are a fucking trip, dude. Racism isn't something that's limited to decisions like who you hire.  You have the opportunity to display racist behaviors and attitudes in EVERY interaction you have with people of color.  Who you choose to pay to have sex with included.  

Also I see your still working on your sentence structure. Lol

He is just trying to piss you off by sounding stupid.

So you said yourself 99% white in your earlier comment.
It also sounds like you need to change your mind set too.
Just so that you don't have to worry or ask question like the thread here.

I do not need to change my mindset, the White clients CHOOSE me. I do not exclude anyone based on their racial backgrounds, that's just who I attract. How hard is it to understand?

So that's who you attract and you can't make some changes to that number??
I understand completely and this is on you.

Don't know if I'm a minority here or not, but this white boy happens to LOVE African American women. Dark skinned, brown skinned, light skinned, thick and thin, I love them all. I've seen runway model types, and urban types rockin tats, body piercings, and gold teeth. Perms, corn rows, braids, extensions, or a fro. I dig em all. Something about African American women is just “oh so right” for me. I love them for their intelligence, beauty, strength, grace, and style. They're like no other woman on earth, and should be loved and appreciated for the national treasure that they are. Us American men are very fortunate to have them all to ourselves!

I like dark-skinned women, they are hard to come by in Canada. They are considered exotic and the good ones often command higher rates compared to white ladies of equal talent and looks.

I think someone messaged me in response to this post. If you could, please forward your response to [email protected]. I would love to read what you had to say, but my VIP expired.

This country was founded by American men that loved having sex with black women.
It is our legacy.

I've had men not want to see me because I'm Black and they've personally said this to me.

Well said....