I get that, but again, this tweet is not client-specific. It doesn't scream I hate men or I hate clients. What I see when I read it is stop wasting my time and book a date if you want to chit chat. You wouldn't believe how many PMs girls get on Twitter with guys that just want to chat endlessly. That's great, some of us have time and don't mind to oblige, but for others it's a huge waste of time.

I fail to see how this tweet is an insult to the entire male gender. The wording in particular is not very good, and I wouldn't tweet something like this, but I think you're going a bit overboard with it. Guys for the most part are primal, that's not an insult at all. If you weren't, none of us would be in business. What I see when I read this is not I hate guys, I hate my clients. I see don't go see a $200/hr. lady and if I charge $500/hr. try to haggle with me because you got it for cheaper elsewhere and I should be happy with whatever you're willing to offer lil ole desperate me. It's a matter of perspective. I think you're taking a lot of it the wrong way. Clearly an embellishment that any of this is man-hating or anti-client. At least these examples, anyway. Or you're just a really good guy and can't fathom that some really do behave this way and there are that many fucktards out there. Unfortunately, there are a lot : (

I get crap because I say I see old, fat or just plain saggy and out of shape, unattractive men...that is the reality, I do. Nice guys though but there is no hiding the physical portion.  

99%of providers reciprocate kindness and generosity from the client. I guess my beef is why complain about lack of business when the twitter timeline is full of disdain and insults towards men. Not a great marketing strategy.

As for putting up your website here, I won't completely embarrass you.  Same with your reviews.

Add the website url and the reviews. You and others talk a huge game but when asked to back it up you ALL have refused. I have one idiot thinking he knows what state I am in. Hell I could be in another country for all you know.  

Like anyone who has a bad day or who hates their boss or finds some clients assholes, don't say it on Twitter where the boss/client etc. can read it...have another account and say whatever you want and it will not impact business.

There is one funny anonymous account that pokes fun at clients and men but its done in humor. There are two others I came across that are just full of hate. The one that is cloaked in humor gets points across without being hateful. The other two I would feel gross giving my money to somebody who hated me just because I am a man.

Ha! I'll actually save my more detailed response to the original post for my twitter feed. Anyhoo, maybe if a provider uses their stage name to share their thoughts and perspectives on social media, they're fully aware of what they are doing and what the possible implications are for publicly sharing their opinions.

To be specific within one gender belies the experience one might have had to back up the comments, good, bad or indifferent.

Dig your grave with your tongue.

I'm confused by the contradictions. You're bothered by providers freely sharing their opinions and making non-specific criticisms of clients in general. Yet, you are in fact indirectly outing (one of) the specific providers you are referring to. You obscured the provider's handle in this screen cap. But anyone with 101 level internet search skills can in fact find this specific provider by entering some of the above text in the search box.

I am not bothered by providers sharing their opinions on anything. I use twitter to see what types of providers I may be compatible with. I've met several great providers through twitter.  

...right up the with Rasha's posts.

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I know exactly who you're talking about. We follow each other and I just looked back at 2 months of her Twitter and only one time did she mention needing business (and it was definitely in the context of QUALITY business), and nothing I read was client bashing or gender bashing. Again, some of her tweets are things I would not tweet, like the one referencing bill paying and favoriting her tweets, but I didn't see anything specific like you're making it out to be. It was more like I suspected, talking about the kind of clients she doesn't want (we all have standards - and these are not her current clients). Maybe she didn't word it well, but there was definitely no client or gender bashing.  

Based on no hard data WHATSOEVER. I assume you're not a researcher, you'd be a fuc*ing embarrassment.

Another guy who has never seen the other side and believes the "Pretty Woman" myth. I actually like much of what H-T and other providers have to say under their aliases. I call it the way I see it. I left out the fact that the best hookers are Academy Award winning actresses.

I agree completely.  I don't bitch and complain about guys.  Because even if my gripe is understandable, all guys are left with is that I'm a bitch, or that  I have a bad attitude.  It's just NOT sexy!  Respect yourself and your brand.

First of all, zero negativity allowed in my life - so I would definitely unfollow the people who got nothing nice to say !
Second, as far as I know, not that many of us are forced in this country to participate in this hobby so if it's really bad and affects your whole day, maybe it's time to leave or cut down on it? Go UTR? I don't know. Also, I think lots of people in general use social networks to get the negative stuff out, does that make sense? It's like free therapy so sometimes people who get it out that way can be really good at what they do!

and then, you, turning around and bitching about these providers on TER?  

twitter and still finding my feet. I'm not really sure what I'm doing there, but I figure it could be a good way to let people see a little about my personality, what I like, etc. I'm not good at posting, though- I usually retweet stuff. However, I recently posted a list of things we hate, and it got lots of traction. It's nice to know so many men agree with it! Lol!

and I try to avoid people is all aspects of my life who have that overly entitled attitude, ESPECIALLY hookers, who are in my life to reduce my stress, not add to it.

And what we charge per hour, was where I thought it was easy money including the prep and screening...yes I screen heavily.

I try not to eye roll at the digs regarding a hookers intelligence. I think some guys feel the hooker has to be dumb as a box of rocks and some are unemployable, however, that would be like me stating that the typical trick:

but do you REALLY need to listen to this kind of whiny bullshit to figure out how NOT to be a fucktard client?

Who is this "we" you babble about?  There is such a disparity in prices that even YOU must know that most hookers "net" very little.

My observations go back to the MBOT over 25 years ago. It includes my own observations and plenty of Madams etc talking about the sex business.I did not even include all the drug abuse.

to them, its all just shits and giggles. they aren't haters, they are just having fun.

But I'm not talking about the whiny drivel - there's plenty of that. I was thinking more of provider tweets that can help the uninitiated understand some basics, like that calling her "baby" and telling her she "so hot" in an email is not going to bode well. A perfectly nice guy might think he's being fun and flirty and not realize it came off creepy and that's why he never heard back. Twatter won't turn an asshole into a prince, but those unaware of the existence of TER and the newbie board might get a little insight if they're paying attention.

Hey all providers get horrible, terrible, and just oh my god what just happened calls, but if everyday is a complaint I would have to agree with you. Forget writing about it on social media quit. I was a teacher was unhappy and quit that and started doing this. TA-DA Happy. LOL.  
I've noticed that trend too, it's so childish to me. I have no desire for social media. I have 3 corgis when I want to complain I do it to them :P