I’m just curious on if a majority of hobbyists usually get same day appointments or do they normally make appointments one or more days in advance.

I am some what new to the hobby and I have only dealt with same day appointments with agencies. But as I look to try some independents I’m under the impression that same day appoints don’t work as well with them.

How do things work for you? Any others thoughts would be interesting.

Thanks

jjk3

I do research before setting them so more is known.  Same day appointments require that a person has time to do research before setting the appointment, many people cannot make that work.

every lady's different.  Some need extra screening questions answered but will do it.  Some who insist on references from other providers may need to put you on hold until she can get a response from another lady.  (Minutes?  Weeks?)
  If you've visited her before and she's up for it, you'll have better luck, naturally.

If she is someone you are seeing for the first time, pre scheduled appointments usually work best. There is some research that most gals will want to do before meeting you to assure their safety. If it someone who knows you, same day can work depending upon the gal's plans and other committments for that day.

I am independent and I always take same day appts.  I prefer them because anything can happen from today until tomorrow or next week.  

Only time I set it up in advance is if they are comming in from out of town.  That way they know that time is set for them.  Other than that I prefer same day appts.  

~Shayla

While I can see the attraction of 'impulse' bookings from the guy's point of view, I prefer advanced booking for lots of reasons.  At home in London I have another job and I have to take that into consideration when scheduling appointments. I find it stressful rushing around to get ready for an appointment so I prefer to take my time and knowing in advance I'm seeing somebody is the only way I can do this.  I also have a social life and play sports so advance booking makes my life a lot easier.

It gives me time to screen and prepare for our event If I have some availability, same day appts are always welcome from long-term clients, but for someone that I am seeing for the first time, advance notice is much preferred

Mel
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It's very rare that I can work in a same-day request. I set up my schedule for the week, then work my life in around what I have set up. Once it's filled, it's filled pretty full - the likelihood that I have time that isn't otherwise committed is just practically nil.

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I always book in advance.  Less likely to be turned down, plus you have something to look forward to until the appointment.

My hobbying is done on the road rather than in my own backyard.  Therefore, I plan ahead and usually set something up 1-2 weeks in advance--even with ladies I have seen previously.  I want to be sure they can see me when it fits my schedule or if I need to adjust my schedule, I still have the time to do so.  New ladies of course, need time to adequately screen.  Safety first--Hobby safe.

My first provider date was same day...every one since that has been scheduled.  Even before I got on the boards, I liked to "build up" to the date.  However, most of the ladies I see now are ones that I either have had contact with on the boards or that I have e-mailed ahead of time and established some sort of rapport with.  Excepting a certain few, these are the only ladies I will see anymore.

I mean, don't most people plan out their weeks the week before and time is already allotted between jobs, kids, household chores and duties, family, school, homework, etc, etc.?

Not to mention the time it takes to get ready, which might not be that long but it still takes time, and then driving time there and back, plus appointment time, so really, you would have to suddenly have freed up about 5 hours out of your day, and I don't know how many people can readily do that??
It certainly doesn't work for me..
Then I can see the comments on the boards about how she showed up in jeans with her hair wet or dirty, and looking like she just woke up, yada yada..well, maybe that's because she had to suddenly shift gears in order to accomodate a 'same day' appointment?

Nah..I like scheduled and planned for this stuff..

Can be possible with incall as long as she feels comfortable in seeing you .... As for outcall that can be more difficult becasue she needs to be able to fit you into her schedule which can be more hetic then a provider doing incall ... the reason you have no problems with using an agency is that they have a pool of girls to work from ... take the time do the homework and always try and choose an indie over an agency .. that way you always know what your getting, in price, preformance, and appearence ...

Welcome back Sedona.  We missed you.  BTW, agree with you 100%

To me, it's more than just getting laid.

i enjoy the anticipation, the buildup to the meeting.

Call me a romantic, it's always been more than just about the sex.


just my opinion...
B

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I'm with you, I've always scheduled in advance for safety reasons.  If i'm on tour and i've experienced a few cancellations, i'll accept same day appts "IF" I can verify them through TER, TBD, RS2K, their employer or another escort.  I have another career also and with my added tours, i'm on the road a lot.  

Escorting is a high maintenance lifestyle for me and it's definitely the motivation I need to maintain my healthy lifestyle and also stay in shape.

Hugs!
Lily

I could not schedule a meeting with you in advance, because when we finally meet, I would be wornout from anticipation.

Sugar Free (a music artist) says....

"If you stay ready....you ain't got to get ready!"

I only do same day appts.  (unless they are traveling from out of town).  I have kids, a dog, karate, trips to the zoo, homework, and the whole nine yards like some of you mentioned.  

The trick is to stay ready.  I wake up in the a.m. take the kids to school.  Go home, shower, do my hair and makeup, and lay out a sexy outfit to wear that day.  I pick out my shoes, music to play, a fresh towel for my guest, and prepare everything.  That's all done by 10am.  Now I turn on my phone and take calls.  I have a babysitter who is available with no notice.

I always make sure my place is clean and presentable for when I get a call. It's already done so I don't have to run around picking up.  If I want to go to the zoo or take my kids to karate I just turn off my phone for a few hours.

"If you stay ready....you ain't got to get ready!"

~Shayla

I like same day, because once I get a morning stiffie ... it does not stop until it gets comforted by a wet hole.

The fastest I had scheduled was 5 minutes. What happened was the lady I scheduled a day before cancelled last minute. I was already in an area with a group of hotels which a lot of ladies use for incalls. I then called another agency and this particular agency said a lady was available and I was like 5 minutes away from the incall hotel. I said OK, I'll be there in 5 minutes.  It was a great experience. DFK, BBBJ, FS, and a nice shower after.

but yes we understand that ladies can be tied up that day ... that's why it's good to keep at least 2 or 3 ATFs and call them when you're hard and horny

There are few things as great as the anticipation born of a scheduled date; Except for maybe the excitement & fun of hooking up with a friend because business brought you to their city or part of town that afternoon.

  FR.

Hi Folks

A week ago I sent a PM to Carrie asking if she was available and 24 hours later we were together.

Wonderful time (at least for me) and no long term planning was needed.

But we were both in London & so geography was on our side, on the other hand I have a trip to the US planned for October & my "dance card" is already booked.

So, for me, the answer is; always plan ahead, but sometimes 24hrs is enough & sometimes its months ahead.

I agree with your thoughts.
I added a few comments to my thread above that were missing when posted.

I have no problem with same days, they are just not for me, at least they haven't yet.
I enjoy the anticipation, the buildup, the sexual banter between my date and I prior to our meeting. That is part of the fun.
And as I stated before, to me, it's not just about the sex.
As MSD stated, I also see only a few special ladies with whom I have conversed with prior to meeting. So
pre -planning works for me and them.

We have all kinds of people, with all kinds of desires, in this hobby and there is something for everyone here.

Just my opinion...
B

Yes, but aren't men horny every 3 to 6 seconds? lol

That is why I like prescheduled appts., for the men who preschedule w/me, know that they will be horny once they hit my door way lol


Mel

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Always book ahead if you can.. Touring its a MUST...