I could easily fall head over heals for my ATF. Reading the reviews reminds me that she is making others feel the same way and serves as a wake up call. Yes...it hurts sometimes, but that is the point. Its a hurt that needs to happen.
I can see how by reading them can make a dude upset. So do you skip them alltogether or just go ahead and read them and be happy that some other dudes are having a great time with your ATF?
For the record I dont read the reviews of my current ATF.
My ATF is just that, not my ATFG (all time favorite girlfriend). I have no "ownership" of her or what she does when not in my company. This is a business and this is how she earns her living either in part or in totality. I am happy to recommend her so she might receive more business, hence allowing her and motivating her to stay in this occupation, hence keeping her available for me. Motivated self-interest on my part I know but I figure if she's happy, I'm happy.
I have them on my favorites list and check out each and every new review.
Since I plan to see them again, I like to keep current on what their strengths are and when I see something that really made a person happy, I'll ask them about doing same.
That's one of the big plusses of being VIP as far as I'm concerned.
I think you are a bit confused. You are reading too much into this. Its a business transaction she is in the business of seduction. snap back into reality here. although she may like you have fun with you and Truly enjoy your company understand there are many men she feels this way about.
Sometimes I read the reviews of ladies I have seen and plan to see again. It doesn't make me upset or jealous. In the hobby, I leave my "boyfriend brain" behind. There is no room for being possessive here. Ladies I know want customers, so I want them to have them. My only wish would be that the ladies I know only get true gentlemen seeing them, not some of the disrespectful idiots that certainly exist out there.
I have no pretenses that I am the only guy who a particular lady sees. Nor do I delude myself into thinking that I am even a favorite. I'm satisfied to be known by the ladies I see as a safe, respectful and drama-free client. I don't want them feeling territorial over me or inclined to make difficulties when I see other women. I won't be jealous when they see other guys. This world is about fun without strings or drama. When I'm with like-minded folks, I'm a happy camper.
Words to live by! Illusions to the contrary by either party are dangerous. Anyone thinking along these lines needs to snap out of it or find a different hobby. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but operating any other way will get you hurt.
Hell, we even talk about them sometimes! Honestly, if you can't read them without getting upset you are probably taking the whole "ATF" thing a little too seriously.
I know I can not be jealous & if I am in that mood I don't go there. My Favs are few and we are friends... friends with benifits. My benny is great sx, her benny is the privilidge of being with me (only joking) what ever please we share and some help with her bills. I had to come to terms with the fact that she is an independant person with free will. Can make choices I may not agree with. Until / unless I am paying all her bills, I have no say so. Sometimes she asks my opinion or advise... which she is free to accept or ignore once the door closes behind me. This seems basic but can be more difficult once the friendship line is crossed. skb
Reading reviews of ATF (or equivalent) can be done in an entirely different manner than you suggest, and with a different purpose. When I read reviews of ladies I see on and off, it isn't with the intent of using the judgement of other reviewers. I am not substituting their opinion for the one I have formed on my own.
Reading reviews to select a woman to spend time with is not the same as reading to fine-tune interactions with one you already know. When reading a well-written review, especially from someone whose judgement you trust, you can learn things. Maybe the lady doesn't like something, but it wasn't enough of an issue for her to say something when you saw her, but she did to someone else and it turned up in the review. Perhaps someone else discovered something she really likes, that you hadn't tried with her yet. So you can find out things you might find useful.
Then there is the simple psychological entertainment of reading someone else's impressions of their interaction with a provider you know. It can be pretty amusing.
I'm certainly not saying there is any need to read reviews of ATFs, but merely illustrating that it can be done in a different manner than you suggest.
I could easily fall head over heals for my ATF. Reading the reviews reminds me that she is making others feel the same way and serves as a wake up call. Yes...it hurts sometimes, but that is the point. Its a hurt that needs to happen.
I agree, its serves to keep me grounded, otherwise like you say, I too would fall head over heels. reading them reminds me that ashe's that good for everyone, though sometimes I wonder why she still works as a provider when she could likely land any guy she wanted and thus end up never having to work a day again.
Posted By: Rickshaw17
I could easily fall head over heals for my ATF. Reading the reviews reminds me that she is making others feel the same way and serves as a wake up call. Yes...it hurts sometimes, but that is the point. Its a hurt that needs to happen.
Do you care whether or not your favorite clients read your reviews?
Why or why not?
Aliases welcome, of course.
I recently had a client go ape shit after reading a stellar review of mine. He brought up the review no less than 3 times and began getting weird and possessive. Long story short, I no longer see him and never will again.
What some of you guys need to understand is that this is our JOB! The guys who review us are recieving our best performance, ***especially when we know they will write a review!!*** Even if the client is extremely unappealing, we will f*ck them like a pornstar, ooh and ahh and moan, and hang on their every word like we adore them. Thats why we are paid so well. We are able to create an atmosphere of intimacy that is completely realistic.
I dont think clients should read their ATF's reviews if they are insecure or jealous. If you knew how much we really abhored the guy who just ranted and raved about us in a review, you would not be jealous at all. Thanks to all of the guys who can see this hobby for what it really is: enjoy your hour(s) with a lady who is really good at what she does, and go back to your real lives.
Dont dwell on your ATF's other *performances* unless you are ready to take her off the market, buy the business she has created and grown, and pay her annual salary in advance. Many ladies have 6 figure incomes so time to take bring out those checkbooks! We get this crap all the time and it gets old.
I read reviews of a favorite of mine and laugh. She often tells me of upcoming appointments and I try to match them up with the review. I just read a 10/10 where the guy had an incredible time and felt she did as well. Unless I've mismatched the review with the reviewer, she may be up for an award.
I learned long ago that it's a game after reading a review of an old favorite that could have been written by me. It was an almost exact duplicate of my time with her. Once I picked my ego up off the floor, I realized that she was working and that I'd gotten my money's worth. I still check out her reviews from time to time but they don't seem as important. It was a very important lesson.
However, I do have a follow up Q as follows for the guys in general and for those who seem to fret about their "ATF's" reviews:
What would you feel like if the show was on the other foot, i.e, if your AFT becomes objective and objectionable to your reviews of your other "regular" providers. After all, is what good for the goose not good for the gander?
It provides me a basis for assessing the tastes of my fellow hobbiests, which in turn puts me in a better position to decide whether to see a new provider that has been reviewed by a hobbiest whom I have learned shares similar tastes as mine in women.
In another case, one of my favorites showed late twice in a row for our session. Not terribly late, but enough to irritate. In reading subsequent reviews, I discovered she had seemed to adopt this practice with several others. I now know to factor that into my scheduling so as to allow enough slack to avoid missing another meeting.
I can see how by reading them can make a dude upset. So do you skip them alltogether or just go ahead and read them and be happy that some other dudes are having a great time with your ATF?
For the record I dont read the reviews of my current ATF.
Make your own magic (or not). Reading reviews are much like watching a movie and trying to re-write the ending. What she does or he says she did may be at total opposites when it comes to you. Do reviews give you a perspective on what's in store for you? Perhaps? But if I am already seeing her, I really don't want to know what's she's doing with Ms. X or Mr. Y. Frankly, its none of my business.
My ATF worked for an agency for a few weeks, and quit because of conflicts with her day job. I saw her once, had a new ATF, and guessed what was coming. She wasn't happy with the clients she was seeing or with the agency's late-night calls. She clearly liked me and opened up. So I gave her my hobby phone and email. Sure enough, she emailed me using her real name to say that she would like to continue seeing me. So I now help her with tuition once a month and don't have to look at any reviews.
Often when she gets a new review, she wants to know what I think of it. The typical reviewer's words often require translation for her to interpret them accurately.
I never check, but as soon as one goes up, I get emails from my patrons letting me know.
I actually appreciate their reading them - because I can't stand reading passed the general details. So if there's something strange, or completely inaccurate, they'll let me know, which spares me having to read it myself.
Reading my wifes reviews does sometime get me little upset but the knowing they are there and not reading them is just as bad. Now reading my ATF's reviews never bothered me and even turn me on. She is now retired so there will be no more reviews. After I am done with my little vacation form the hobby, I need to find a new ATF.
The gal I saw tonight still has reviews posted here but has moved north from NYC. She does not advertise and so does not meet that criterion for TER reviews. She relies on reviews in BGFE, which any member can post. I posted one there this evening. She's un-fucking-believable, an instant ATF.
. . . but never does for me. So I "confronted" her about her neglecting my happiness since early on in our *relationship* I used to bring up my desire for deep throat.
She simply replied, "Sweetie, you don't have a needle dick." LOL
Seriously all freaking reviews are the same......convo, LFK lead to DFK. the clothes came off and she dropped to her knees and gave me the best BBBJ I have ever had!!?? Had to stop her before it ended before it started. I went to DATY and she had 2 "O's". On went the cover and she mounted me CG, RCG, ACG, K9, IBM, GMC, ATT.....she had 2 more "O's", with the last one being perfectly timed with mine. WOW, we made beautiful music together. She cleaned me up and we lay there and whispered sweet nothings into each others ears. When she finally came out of her love trance, we had gone over our allotted time. I will surely see her again, she is now my ATF.
your ATF lights you up like very few other providers, reading about their exploits with others only makes me want to jump on the phone and schedule some more of that special stuff....
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