I always hate this question, because it seems to be posed as a challenge. Not to assume your intention here, but most of the time it comes with a defacing connotation: let’s put the shoe on the other foot and see how you like it. The expectation is that any guy who justifies his extracurricular sexual activities, would not stand for being *cheated* on by his SO. To hell with the double-standard bullshit: I think everyone should have as much sex as they want or need. Including the little lady.

In fact, I wish she would. It might relieve a little tension around the house.

that how we both meet.

You're kidding right? What's good for the Gander is absolutely fine for the Goose. Do you believe in double standards? I don't.

what's really fun, is having a SO that plays with you. It is possible, and a lot better than lying, sneaking around and suppressing your true desires. My SO is bi and kinky, we "play" with others together and go to strip clubs, parties etc. etc. We have certain boundaries with others, that we keep out of our love for each other. sharing and exploring together brings us closer. Try finding a girl you can do this with, perhaps in a swinger or alternative lifestyle milieu, they're just a bunch of nice folks for the most part, and you can make some good friends.
Being upfront about your desires and interests is the best way to go. I've tried it the other way. And having a 3sum with the woman you love and another girl rocks! = )

Hey Hey Hey!!!!!

You watch that stuff, Mister.  No one, and I mean NO ONE, makes such implications about my wife.  As an important Head of State, it is imperiative that my wife is chaste.  And besides, that's just gross -- a male provider.  Pu Leeeze.  And don't bring up that double sandard, what's good for the goose nonsense.  I work hard, endure incredible stress, and thus need to release that stress by DATYing hot young things.  My wife, on the other hand, has no such stress, and therefor has NO NEED, I repeat -- NO NEED -- to engage in such terrible deeds that can be construed as nothing short of a breach of our sacred marital vows.  And now, I must go, as I intend to spend the next hour with a hot, young arabic provider as part of my own efforts of achieving homeland security.

Peace out.

Colin Bowell, III

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The vast majority of male providers are gay, and that won't work! It's different for women. Fair??? Nope. But that's the way it is.

And more power to her!!!

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Nicole

Which is why there is not a big market for hetero male escorts. Women cheat, primarily for emotional reasons. Men, generally just want to have sex. I agree with SexyDC, always. If she's cheating, it's far more likely that it's an emotional attachment thing that will end in a lot of heartache and misery one way or another.

Making me all jealous and hot. Unfortunately, my SO has no tendency toward women - otherwise I'd be bringing home some surprise guests. crackerjax, you're too cool for the room

Nicole I found three guys that are not gay and they only cater to women...thank god because if a client ask for a threesome dam if I want to share that with a gay man..Not my cup of tea...

I have to interject here and say that for me, sex is SEX, and I love it and need an awful lot of it!

Just hadda set the record straight there
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Nicole

I checked out the guys on Eros DC once... of course most of them are gay, but the few who aren't, aren't.. at least to me... shall we say the most attractive in the world!  I mean come on! No fair, how the gay guys are sexier, darnit!

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Nicole

at certain times in their lives. I would guess that this site is populated by an overwhelming number of women who do simply enjoy sex, have a voracious appetite for it, and either naturally don't or have learned not to attach as much emotion to it. But, the female population of this site is unique, and that’s why we men come here.

Having been involved in mannnnny forms of alternative sexuality (which basically means, anything that is not the "norm"), for many years now... I can tellya that there are LOTS and LOTS of women out there aside from providers, who feel the same way I do. Hopefully, it's spreading. It's contagious. This greedy need for mucho sex, I think it's catching. Hehe!

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Nicole