bad girl?

Most of the pics I choose to posts are of girls I consider wholesome looking. Girl next door (you wish) material. They may in reality be total sluts ... who knows?

But they have a certain appearance that says, Wholesome.

Continued in next thread ...

Then there are those ladies pics that I rarely post that have the look of a "bad girl". One that in appearance says I want to take you on a fantasy trip. The one that when you see her you say she is a bad girl and you would take her to a motel but not home to see Mom.

For me there are several factors which I will wait to list but out of curiousity what defines wholesome as opposed to bad girl for you?

Just curious.

OFF

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I think this is to a large extent a matter of personal taste/idiosyncracy and some social conditioning/stereotyping.

I notice, in the many wonderful pics you share with us [and where do you find the time? -- LOL] that your taste runs to the more or less "feminine ideal" in our  society :  young, white, thin, killer body with proportions to die for. And my friend, you've got quite the eye for that.

"Unwholesome" [judgemental as that can sound] could/might then be defined as women who fall outside of that type. "Exotic" might be a more useful euphemism that works here; to me that's merely a sexy woman from some background other than European, and in no way a negative [and plenty of women from European backgrounds can justly be desribed as exotic].  But, ask yourself, if any of those women were non-white but exactly the same otherwise, would they be unwholesome?  Not in my mind, and I sincerely hope that I've not incorrectly characterized your taste, which again, is excellent in the extreme.

"Unwholesome" might simply be a matter of the pose, the facial expression in the pic, a minor appearance trait different from the girl-next-door.  Or it simply could be the fact that she's posed with a toy, or another woman, or in some impossibly provocative manner, or being reamed out by some guy, etc... Simple social conditioning, as I see it.  Any of the wholesome images which your've shared  might srtike one as "unwholesome" if changed in any of those particulars.

Please let me be clear, as I do not wish to be thought of as critcizing you.  A cold reading of this post might lead some to infer that I'm implying that you are bigoted in some manner.  That is NOT the case [and, in another guise, on another board, I often make clear how impatient i am with baseless accusations of prejudice].  OFF, it's simply a matter of where your tastes run.  Again, they do run in an excellent direction, and to paraphrase from the New Testament, you certainly have run a good race. I'd like to be in your runing shoes!

Yours in enjoyment of all female beauty, in all it's many wonderful forms, however and wherever you find it and however you prefer it!  Wholesome, unwholesome, and eveything else in between.

There are no unwholesome women; only unwholesome male hangups re women [LOL].

I'd do her!!!

XoXo
Marea

Your response is excellent. I not sure my taste runs specifically toward only "young, white, thin, killer body with proportions to die for" but as you write it I realize that most of the sites I visit don't normally display other ethnicities.

Curious!

I actually enjoy beautiful ladies regardless of race. Note my earlier post about chocolate and the gratuitous lady pic attached ... very nice.

Your observation about the pose saying, "that she's posed with a toy, or another woman, or in some impossibly provocative manner, or being reamed out by some guy" is very true for me. I rarely repost those types of pics for a number of reasons but mainly because what I enjoy the most is the lady's natural beauty without other distractions.

All this said, I am asking (and I think you addressed it well) when you look at a lady's pic what characteristics about the pic attract you to or push you away from certain ladies.

We are all well aware of the variety of preferences that exist on this Board and within the Hobby. I am just curious as to what those visual stimuli and preferences are ... whether ladies or guys.

OFF

TYVM for the kind words.

I did miss your earlier post re that ebony beauty.  Thanks for reposting it. Nothing gratuitous about that pic!  Now i really understand the trope about chocolate having similar physiological effects on the human brain as does heroin! You really do have an eye for female beauty, that is clear beyond all doubt.

Can you grace us with some SW Asian lovies [Indian, Pakistanis, etc...] and East Asian women?  My money is on you to once again demonstrate one of the keenest eye for feminine beauty on this Board.

BTW, again, where do you find the time? [LOL]

Good ladies always have round eyes and a regular to small bust.
Bad ladies have thin eyes and large busts.

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"When I'm good, I'm very good, but when I'm bad I'm even better."

we find out who she is and if she is a provider I think I'll fly you both in so I can 1st watch and then maybe the next day when I've recovered participate..

Is still annoying.

While your attempts at creating a 'discussion' are a slight improvement over your previous all out spam fests....4 posts out of the 20 on the first page is getting a little old, and a little annoying.

"too much of a good thing is wonderful."

The quality of mercy is not strained...

And besides, a picture is worth a thousand words.

OFF is obviously an articulate chap, but perhaps he is more visually-oriented than he is verbally-oriented.  Cut the poor fellow just the tiniest bit of slack?  Please?  I'll post something really, really clever to make up for it.  

Thanking you in advance...

SH

anyone know who the lady in the top middle is....I would do her any day of the week........twice.....

As SH has pointed out, the Bad Girl/Good Girl thing is quite subjective and often based on small things.  Your "good girls" tend to have natural breasts (small or large) and have little visible makeup/hairstyling.  Your "bad girls" are more made up and otherwise enhanced.

I have to say, I like your "good girl" women better, but I definitely want them to be bad girls when I get them alone.

To me, its the way someone once described the difference between Playboy and Penthouse.  Playboy: The girl next door - naked! Penthouse: The girl next door is naked and she wants it!  In reality, all the women in these mags and in your pics are up there in the fractions of the top 1% in terms of beauty and sex appeal, and of course are not in any way the girl next door.

In either case, I think a "bad girl" is just the cues that fire our individual imagination about who is super sexual, not just sexy.  Many times this can be one thing in a picture, something very different when you are with the person.  

A large part of what I am paying for in a session is the fantasy of a gorgeous woman who needs it bad.  If she can convince me that she can't wait to pull my pants down and get my dick in her mouth, if she gives out a little moan of satisfaction when I grab her ass, or when I first slip inside her, she's got a repeat customer.  If she also talks dirty without much prompting from me, I'll move mountains to see her again.  I know it's fantasy, but I like it.


filmat11


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Come on- anyone who finds out who she is gets first dibs on our doubles sessions

XoXo,
M


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