Looking for some guidance here…wouldn’t say I’m new to the hobby but not as experienced as most. 3-4x/year for the last 4 years.  

Just post on the city where you are trying to hobby for MMF recommendations..  Look at ad boards to see if anything like that is advertised.  Maybe ask the girls you have seen if they have a male performer that they work with..  I have seen sugar sites also advertise as a couple looking for another male partner, if you want to go that route.

You refer to "MMF" but then say you only want heterosexual activity. But according to many, MMF means exactly that the two men interact sexually, since the "Ms" are next to each other. What you are talking about, then, is MFM. By putting the "F" between the two "Ms" it means the latter two don't interact.

You can also post seeking another hobbiest who enjoys that scenario and then find someone to meet together.  FYI, mfm is where the guys make a woman the center of attention and mmf implies some male to male interaction.

Don't know where you're located but Christie L'Amour travels the country and often brings her male "cousin" with her for mutual fun.  

Does he play the banjo by any chance?

Nah, and he goes by the name "Giancarlo". To me he looks like Lee Zeldin, lol.

He better be careful where  he put those M`s , in that 3 some,because that decides wher the dicks go.  
Surprises can lead to someone getting killed.

First find a willing provider, be prepared to pay. To find a dude, sign up on FetLife and ask in your local area for dudes interested in mmf. You will be inundated.

It was a lot of fun.. Basically a guy on my local board asked if anyone was interested. I told him that I was but no male to male contact.  
I then asked my regular if she was good for it.. she Said sure .. the guy paid for the room.. we had a blast.. he came really quickly.. during a spit roast.. she enjoyed herself too..  a lot of girls will be fine with it.  If you find a decent wingman who isn't weird. I had a 2nd arranged.. but the other guy chickened out but became a regular.. for the girl involved.. then Covid hit..  
It's not much different than group sex at an orgy.. that's fun too..
It's all about the memories

"If you are not bisexual, why would you want another naked guy in the room?  It's just going to take away from your time with the lady. "

https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/washington-dc-6/seeking-partnered-provider-for-kinky-mmf-play-314999?page=1

And the guys are the bread....You wouldn't make a bread, bread meat sandwich...would you???
God this shit is easy.

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As noted above, Christie  LAmour and her boy toy.  Check out my review for details.

Just read your review. It actually sounds like something I *might* try. Thanks for the thoughtfulness you put into describing everything.

That’s exactly what I thought. If looking for a provider and you have you own friend, ask the provider is she offset that service or in the case that you don’t have your male friend, ask the provider if she has a friend for MFM, is understood, hetero. MMF looks like everybody with everybody. Like always say, if u ask respectfully, you go to have a nice answer… Good luck 👍

It's so funny to hear stuff like this. The best way to discuss what you want in a MMF session is to discuss levels of comfortability beforehand and talk about consent. Its sort of grade school to think in this way and not at all accurate.  Being in a MMF doesn't automatically mean you are OK with mm touching. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

I love MMF sessions.

I know a guy lol.

She was great.. but Carlo stayed home.. so did her sisters

Thanks for the compliment.  I am glad I did it with folks who understand how to do it right.  Felt as natural as riding a bike.  

I know a guy too

Best bet is to ask your go to gals about it. They know guys that are interested in doubling up on a woman with no sword crossing (well, maybe a little incidental) and strictly two hetero guys just wanting to get bucket list memories. I have a couple  travel ladies who come to Ohio and I would just ask them if they do MFM and if they have a straight M friend who might be interested in being the third in a devil's  triangle the next visit.

with a friend and no swords were crossed. In fact, both were of women who'd never been with two guys before and wanted to try it. Big fun.

I’ve been craving a good spit-roasting so badly.  Preferably if the guys are buddies (or brothers holy shit yes) and there’s already a dynamic.

Looks like your goinging for MfM no MMF since your stated Hetero experience

I must admit I did partake with Christie and her "cousin".  I had set the boundaries as MFM, and it was.  Very cool dude and she was fantastic.  I would be very careful to whom you should trust is they are bringing the other male.  Go with well reviewed team.  There are a couple out there, no pun intended.

At first, I thought you made typos for Daphne D'Amour
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/new-england-ads-85/available-for-outcalls-ct-western-mass-and-ri-for-1-hr-or-more-vt-nh-maine-for-multi-hr-1-15--122-20844
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=345922
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Daphne used to provide MFM with her BF(?) cousin(?) some big muscular guy. Then they split up. DD stopped participating on TER and delisted but I believe that she is still working in the northeast (Hartford - NY - Boston).
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Then I searched and found that Christie L'Amour is NOT a typo but a real person in Chicago:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/christie-lamour-7736763732-124260
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/christie-lamour-and-giancarlo-7736763732-352240

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