OMG Please don't. What a waste of time money and Your Sexual energy. All the post about guys taking Viagra is scaring the hell out me. Do you think just because have a hard on you are automatically sexy? I personally will not see men on it they get to carried away thinking just because it's hard I want it all night. Unless you have ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION. You are most probably wasting your time money and your chance with a provider you like. Learn to slow down and communicate.

Just a thought.

point of taking ED meds if you don't need them.

And by need, I mean for any reason...I know that some use them not for the erection, but to lessen the sensation because they have a PE problem.  That is legit, too.

Taking ED meds just to stay hard and to spend an hour just pounding away on some poor lady is a horrible reason to take them...at least in my opinion.

But if that is what you want, AND the lady is into it...more power to the both of you.

JMTC

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I totally agree! I had a client on that crap that for whatever reason thought that going all night was the thing to do. Turns out it back fired because he couldn't get off. By the time I left (6 hours later), he was still hard and unsatisfied. He didn't really need it...he just thought it would be a good idea to try it.

He called me a couple of days later saying he was sooooooo sore that it hurt to walk. Hmmm...LOL!

This is can be due to factors such as diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and other underlying causes.

Of course some guys use drugs like viagra and cialis that probably don't need to, but for others it's the only way they can achieve an erection.

I use Viagra because I have needed it since I had my prostate removed because of prostate cancer.  It works mildly well.   I never knew that it really worked for men who were not suffering from ED.   The description reminded me of using the shots (Caveject) which gave me an unnatural errection.  I ended up in the hospital emergency room once because of it.

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I never took Viagra, but experimented with some herbal enhancers. Just because they are natural, that DOES NOT make them safe. You should always consult a physician before taking them, and if you don't need them, don't take them.

I saw an ad once for some penis wipes that would "give you a harder, stronger, longer lasting erection". I, of course, said, "Hey, why not"? I had an outcall date with a lady, and was in my hotel room, getting ready. I read the instructions, and applied the wipes to my penis, which nearly instantly burst into flames. I had about a half hour until she was due to show up, and visions of me answering the door with my dick stuck in a bucket if ice. Fortunately, a quick shower and some cold washcloths put the fire out. I took a closer look at the package, and discovered that one of the ingredients was black pepper. I'm here to tell you guys, don't ever, under any circumstances, put black pepper on your dick.

That's my story. Anbody else ever do anything this stooopid?

Livie, dear.
If a gentleman pays you for an hour or two of sex, should you not give it to him?
Not every guy is going to blast off in 10 minutes.
Some guys can go for extended periods without ED meds, and as long as they pay you for your time, I fail to see the problem.
Besides, I don't pay providers to communicate, I pay for sex, and for you to leave.
Btw, I like the nurse uniform.

OK, I will. But I insist you do the same thing. Go back and read my original post. Where does it say that I think Viagra will make me sexy? Where does it say I want to use it so I can pound a woman all night?

I don't blame you for being "scared" of a man who might show up for a date with a drug enhanced boner looking for eight hours of sex. I'm not one of them.

ED pills can enhance a sexual experience - or, they can turn it into a nightmare. It's all in how you use them.

... because I have high blood pressure which gives me ED.  The medications used to control the high blood pressure also cause some problems.

When I asked the doctor, I had no problem getting a prescription for Viagra.  I am currently trying to get my weight and blood pressure down and go off of my medications including Viagra.

The side effects of Viagra for me include flushing, decreased penis sensitivity and inability to climax much of the time.  I will be glad to get in better physical condition and not have to take it again.

I have no idea why anyone would take this drug if they can get an erection without it.

Hi Livie

I don't us Viagra, but I cannot (have never) cum in a condom. But I love fucking, really enjoy it. I always tell a lady what to expect. I still have decent stamina, but every lady I've been with seems to be happy to take it longer than I can give it, and to run through all of the positions. I'd say at least 15 and up to 30 minutes on a good (?) day in a 1.5hr or 2hr session, with breaks in between for other fun things (grin) .I've got a lot of highly recommended referrals on date-check, and the ladies seem happy to see me again (but perhaps this is because I'm pretty fair at DATY ' ) Would you consider this  amount of time in p-v sex unreasonable? Cheers - Gregory

I don't think anyone is accusing you personally of anything. As with a lot of topics that get presented here we are exercising our right as TER members to say whatever we feel about the topic, not necessarily the fellow bringing it up.  For better or for worse that is and always will be the nature of a message board.  

I gave you quite a bit of what was most likely unsolicited advice down on your original thread but honestly I post that same stuff every time a guy asks about Viagra or other ED meds on the boards.  I'm not speaking for others here but I post what I post because not every guy who asks for advice about ED meds knows what he is getting into.
If a guy wants a porn star hard on that is for him and the unfortunate woman who winds up in a room with him to deal with. I know he's gong to find the stuff someplace and wind up on a lot of DNS lists when he does...
OTOH, if a guy is having erectile problems and trying to circumvent the medical process of getting a check-up before trying ED meds I am going to warn him that he may have bigger problems to deal with.

The last sentence of your post here says it all.

Levitra in my opinion is better suited for hobbyists. Take it an hour before and it wears off soon after. Reactivates with further stimulation. Only take it when needed unlike Viagra and Cialis that require many doses

I had purchased a lip plumping lipstick that made my lips tingle when I put it on. One day while getting dressed to go to dinner with a client, I had the bright idea to give him a little taste of the things to come for dessert after putting the lipstick on.  Well everything was fine for about 10 minutes.  He liked the sensation, said it was tingly.  Then I guess it really took affect when he pulled his pants up.  In no time he was running to the bathroom (literally), dropping his drawers and washing his fella off!  I honestly did feel bad although you couldn't tell because I was laughing so hard.

Note to self:  NEVER wear lip plumping lipstick before dates.   LOL


Kari~

Used full strength, viagra/cialis/levitra are quite unfulfilling for me. I've cut the pills down to 1/2, 1/3, 1/4, (depending), and it makes the little guy more responsive without being demanding.

It makes it easier to get to the 2nd cup of tea. After the first pop, I follow the lady's lead. If she likes to take a break and cuddle, that's fine with me. Some like to keep going, and I am happy with that. A few brave ladies want to keep going as long as Mr. Happy is accommodating, and who am I to complain.

Never thought of it until I read the PE threads. While the pills solve the ED problem, they also help with PE. The pills have a delaying effect. Even if I cum sooner than the lady likes, who cares as long as Mr. Happy wants to keep playing.

As I posted in the original thread, I use Rx Viagra due to a spinal cord injury.  I use the smallest dose possible & frankly larger doses (at least within the Rx limits) have no benifit.  I have no way to judge the degree of sensation before the injury & without V and post injury & with V.  I'm certainly not quick draw but it's nice to be able to give as well as recieve, so that works.  I book one hour or slightly more, it's normally one & done.  Ole Henry responds to CPR but I never had enough time finish a second cup.  
In my experience & with the intended doseage the erection fades normally post climax.    

I can only imagine it requires handfuls of medication far beyond Rx doses to achieve PS duration...  that is abuse of your own & provider's body.  
jtp

I just burst out laughing at the mental pic of this, hungry,
thanks for making my morning!!

Black pepper or even tabasco sauce on a dick.

But most men probably could not deal with the pain.

#1 I don’t sell sex. #2 If I’m having sex with a guy I don’t want an artificial hard on I can stay home for that. Lol.  For the woman that does like it I say more power to ya. I don’t because my own experiences with it are bad. 1st of all I like to prolong that 1st one as long as possible it’s the best.  After the first pop most guys are done and I haven’t even warmed up. So having a mentally ½ enthused hard on is a waste to me yet the guy is insistent. Then when he can’t keep up and gets tired now he has a head ach backs ach  prefer  the
guy who knows how to control him self with out it.  And Nurse Betty is always in. lol

mental side affects as well. Some not all based on MY experience. Is that he feels that it is now his duty to perform. I am way to laid back for this type deal. Now he has this raging hard on that can't cum wants to and is all he his thinking about. As in not taking into consideration that there  is mote to a
sexual experience then just intercourse O god what a nightmare lol I don't like guys on Viagra.

I have I think a slight mental issue...  i was unable to get it up totally for my wife a couple of times.  Once at an escort session I was only semi erect.  SO I spoke to my doctor and I take 50mg of it prior to sex.  It has given me a serious boner!  like high school.  So I personally enjoy it.  I rarely pop 2x with escorts anyways so I am not impaling them with my cock constantly.

So, you're saying that it's not the actual time spent in p-v sex itself per se, but that the Viagra or other ED drug changes both the responsiveness of the male organ and the attitude of the guy taking the drug?  I suppose I could buy that. When I was younger, I thought being a "good lay" meant being able to "last" and plow away for a long time. I still run into the occasional usually younger civvie that thinks this way. But the professional ladies in my experience don't appreciate this approach, and I'd rather intersperse a lot of other fun things into shorter periods of p-v sex myself.
Sorry you've had bad experiences with the Viagra set. I guess there's no real way to screen these guys out unless they've gotten on DNS lists for
being the bionic man.....  Cheers - Gregory

Anything that stoopid? Stupider!

I did a big cooking project. It involved several pounds each of jalapeno and habanero peppers. I destemmed them and took the pith out. By hand. No biggie, I think.

Wash hands, don't think anything further about it.....

Until I went to play down below later, and used my fingers on her. I'm surprised I didn't end up with a knife in my back.

She lived. I learned.

Do any of these help for second or third pops?