When I started I sat down and did some research. I decided on my client demographic and also was true to a fault at what I could do, would do and what I would not accept. I have stuck to those boundaries and they have served me well. I chose the clientele I wanted to see and rarely and I mean rarely do I ever have any problems. In fact I truly adore my clients. I am more of a niche provider than a general contactor.

I have absolutely no problem communicating to my clients what I can and cannot handle. The guys are always respectful and understand that. If I don't speak up it is not their fault.

I remember sitting chatting with a group of ladies in my area and they all had stories of how a client was hurting them during the session. I sat there with my mouth open and asked..."Why didn't you say anything"? "Oh I didn't want a bad review so I just put up with it till he was done" was the most common answer.

So you see from this snippet, that a client will do what he is allowed to get away with...within certian limits of course. This is not including the a$$holes who purposely sets out to pound the living daylights out of a lady and enjoys her obvious pain and discomfort. I'm referring to just your regular client who is clueless to how his partner really feels.

I must add that I do not allow reviews and am quite UTR so I am in no way at the mercy of anyone.

Abuse is a word that has strong connotations...maybe I could have used a different word to describe my point, however I thought it just a smidge appropriate considering the previous posts. Also what one person sees as abuse is anothers mere annoyance.

It saddened me to have read the post below if in fact it was for real. I also saw the gentleman's reply. He has a certain expectation of what a woman...sorry "whore" is supposed to do for him. Maybe that's why he's in Mexico and not here for his activities. He's going where the market serves his purpose whether we like it or not.

Unfortunately for the woman concerned she may not have the luxury of choosing her client demographic.

On a brighter note...thank you to all the Gentlemen who do have some consideration for the ladies in this business..you are appreciated.