With my ATF? Yes, she LOVES to hear stories about my other encounters. It actually makes her horny as hell!  Do I share stories with other girls? Not as much. You have to feel this sort of thing out. Some girls are more self-confident than others, some understand that variety is the reason that most guys do P4P to begin with and some don't.  

It's usually not some place I go on a first encounter.  The girls that are interested in hearing about your other exploits will usually start the conversation going in that direction.

and that way it's not a comparison between two ladies, but sort of like telling a buddy about some girl he/she might be interested in.

I would never want to get involved in some kind of catty conversation with a woman about some other woman, but with bi chicks it's a different story, especially when the conversation could lead to a threesome. lol

By the same token I dont' want to hear about other guys a woman has fucked, unless it's to tell me how superior in every way I am to those other guys. lol

DO you guys ever have conversations with your ATF providers about other providers you have seen?  It's kinda weird for me.....I think that we as guys are so trained NOT to talk to women about other women we have  been with sexually that we don't or feel uncomfortable talking to providers about other providers we have fucked or going to fuck?  Any others feel like I do....if so why?

WOmen:  How do you feel about that?  Do you want to hear about what your client says about other womwn he has seen.  Do you read the reviews before you see him if he is a VIP member?  Does it turn you on or help you know what he likes or doesn't like?   Or do you even care?????

I have had some of the gals want to tell me about other ladies...and frankly I really don't want the details or drama.  I will be happy to chat in generalities about the "hobby" with a lady, but to hear the drama that a few like to invoke, that is just not my cup of tea.  

Where I do invite a lady's thoughts is if I am seeking a specific lady, and looking for that referral.  And it seems that many of the ladies are more than happy to suggest a "friend" of theirs.

Exactly right. I stay away from catty comments about other ladies. Who wants to go there? What a buzz-kill. If a gentleman friend asks me about who I would recommend, I am careful to provide positive comments.

But of course you fellows realize that if you are a cool dude we want to keep you for ourselves. Your best research is probably done on the boards with other guys reviews and comments. However, I am occasionally asked and in that situation I do my best to give good, tailored advice. With the understanding that life is a box of chocolates, each one different as Forrest Gump said, and variety being the spice of life, who would want to deny you that fun?

I like it when guys talk about other providers they have seen as long as they say how great I am in comparison, hahaha!

I have found HOBBYISTS to be bigger gossips than the providers!

I most definitely will read the reviews they have  written before I meet them if I CAN. This way I get a feel for some of the turn ons and turn offs...

I find researching his reviews and posts, educates you a little on what you can do to REALLY excite him, seduce him and drive him crazy.

Yep.  With my fav escort - who I've known for a long while - we talk about other escorts frequently.  My experiences with them, possible doubles sessions, girls she'd like to see (she's very bi), and so on.  She's also interested in the business practices and pricing of others - it helps her refine her business model.

You may be sensitive to 'NOT talk to women about other women', but remember this is not a committed or passionate relationship you are having with an escort - it's a business transaction with perhaps a touch of friendship and warmth added in.  

That said, it is wise not to over-discuss other ladies.  Even with an escort, you can take things too far.  Moderation and discretion is key.

totally on the situation.  Generally, I'm reluctant to talk about other girls in front of the lady I'm with.  It doesn't seem nice.  But if it's part of a compliment, that's differnt.  I was recently with an amazing girl who squirted multiple times.  I told her I'd only seen it once before, with an ATF.  She loved it, and laughed when I said if I ever did doubles with her and the ATF I'd probably drown.

I also like to read the reviews of a gent I'm about to see to get a feel for his style and preferences.

As far as discussing other ladies, I happen to be one of those who loves hearing about various people's naughty adventures - but I have no interest in the names of the ladies (especially their real names! If you  know this info - KEEP IT TO YOURSELVES!) or any drama in their lives.  Occasionally, a horror story of a date gone awry is funny, provided it's shared in a humorous way (not a petty, petulant, vindictive way) and without revealing personally identifying details.

What I get out of this type of sharing is an insight into how the gent thinks and what's important to him, rather than viewing it as gossip.  To me, it becomes gossip when personal details are shared or it seems his intent in sharing is to slam someone.  That's very unbecoming...

I do have an ATF that I am comfortable sharing more explicit/personal info/experiences with, but that takes a rapport and trust that's been built over time.

Please think before you answer the question..Why do you feel weird about it. Are you afraid we are going to get mad? Some of us. ME, included, think its hot to think of you with another HOT lady. The more the details the better especially in the momment!  We already assume if you are seeing me you are seeing someone else as well...

between us. Guys do talk a lot. I even bet some ladies would like to coax some info out of them to use against other providers .....A few years ago  I  had a guy tell me I had another provider living in my same building..which I never knew...which made me think he probably told her I lived there too. I don't want to hear about who is on your to do list or who you did last week..I want to focus on US. And I want my privacy to be honored just as I honor yours. I will let my friends know who not to see...providers who I know are dangerous....if it ever comes up. I also will suggest  a few wonderful providers in my area, if the gentleman happens to be new to the hobby.Otherwise my mouth is too busy for pillow talk

Enjoy your time with your aTF!!.. unless you need a duo partner for her..
just my thoughts
respectfully
Lorena

Agree w/ LL.  Just as I would not want to hear about my Providers dates.  ;-D

: )-- wink Carl01..
.. I agree with GAGAMBLER!!

I enjoy gossip with all the juicy details.

One of my many flaws.

if there is a security or screening concern. i've been kept safe by a few ladies and have tried to return the favor.

This place would be a fucking ghost town. lol

Talking about others is not a gentleman thing to do ever.
Less drama = happy life.