.... If you have high self-esteem, it shouldn't matter.

vertical difference, when you are horizontal, any difference in height is hardly noticeable unless it's extreme.

In any case, here's stimulating discussion of the topic courtesy of Seinfeld.

and one of my first TER girls - Simone was a tall brunette almost 5'11.   Wasn't a bit deal. We had great time. That was bak in 2003..  

 
How short are we talking about here? Just slightly short or fun size...

for her to wrap her legs over my shoulders.

Taller is relative. I have been with plenty that were great and no issue. But mostly we’re talking 4-5 inches tops. I might not feel the same if she were 6’7”. But idk, if she’s that tall and hot I probably would still be fine with it.

I'm not short.  The height difference has been in the other direction, sometimes fairly extreme.  
To experience a woman distinctly taller than me, I had to buy a pair of 8" Pleaser shoes for a very tall lady.  
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Yes it was fun, but then she always is.

Everyone is taller, than me.

I’m fun size 5’3 ft small & it does not bother me. I have a hidden talent of guessing heights. I picked up a young NBA player once in South Beach guessing his height 6’10 ft lol 😝 I’m really good at the height game.

Do you have manners? Do you have good hygiene?  

I would think that is all she cares about. Most of these women can easily get the tall good looking guys in the "real world" if they wanted to.

This is their business.