I have seen discussions on the topic before, but usually slanted towards the fact that most hobbyists are considerably older than their provider. reverse that scenario here. I am much younger than the average age of hobbyists, and occassionally for the variety, like to visit a lady a few years older than myself.

my question is,  how do you ladies feel about younger men? assuming  that he is a well groomed, respectful gentleman, your professionalism in providing a service will always take over and create a positive experience. but what really goes through your head at this time?  are you flattered that a young guy is attracted to you? do you find you have anything in common with him, or feel like a teacher to him? would you want to know his age, if younger, before you meet in person?
your thoughts would be much appreciated
best regards, mr.man

Good luck getting providers to see you if your under 30!
It doesnt matter how nice and groomed you are, I think.

I prefer to see guys 40 plus as I've always dated guys much older than myself. I find them more interesting and they do know how to treat you well. However, I did break that rule and saw a guy of 28 recently, what swayed me was the reviews he had written, they came across very mature and he was just that. I have to admit I did have fun teaching him a few new tricks

Here's my take on the age thing - when I was younger, in my twenties, I much preferred older men for their expertise, their patience, their knowledge of female anatomy let's say.  Now that I'm no longer in my twenties myself, it's not that I de-value the older guys, (or, nowadays, the guys my age or older, to be more accurate,) it's not that I like them any less.  But now I do value younger guys for their energy and passion - I have a fair number of clients 5 to 15 years younger than myself, maybe a third, probably because my rate is at the lower end of the scale, (and yes! that's also one reason I'll likely keep it there!)  At this point, I'd have to say I very much like having both older AND younger clients.

If I might make an observation, there seems to be something that happens to a lot of men around the age of 28 or so, a point where they stop and wonder "is this all there is to sex??" and they really want to experiment.  Needless to say, I'm happy to be there for them.

-Anya

It's really about the man.

It doesn't matter to me at all whether the man is older or younger than me.  I've had lots of clients in their 20s and never had a problem with any of them.  Attitude of the individual is much more important than their age.

Sorry, but you're completely wrong.
I'm 21 and I've seen many, many providers.
Some of which never asked my age at any point.

sorry sir, but you are very wrong in that statement.

most ladies do not even ask for one's age prior to initial meeting, so they don't know who to expect. I have met plenty of younger providers that are genuinely excited when they open that door and see someone closer to their own age. but I do hear this a lot, "Wow, just how old are you! ?"
best regards, mr.man