True, even escorts can fall on hard times, but nearly all communities, large and small, have organizations that provide help to ALL who are in these financial straits, not just select individuals. Memory obviously has a special interest in this particular group of children, and that is certainly her privilege. For me, I prefer to direct my largess elsewhere, toward more basic needs, such as food, shelter, and basic clothing needed all year around. That's just my opinion, just as Memory has hers.
Hello everyone!
Please give a donation to buy gifts for children of professional
hard working escorts who are in need this year! This is a industry
full of single mothers who could use a little help to make Christmas
special for their children. We have a list of 9 children of escorts
who need gifts so far and still have a long way to go to reach our goal.
Please send me a personal e-mail and I will send you instructions if
you would be interested in sending a contribution or in buying a
gift to donate. Any amount at all will help!
Ladies, if you are in need and want to be added to the list of ladies
who need help please send me an e-mail explaining your situation, your
children's details and their Christmas wish list.
E-mail: memorysdesires@ yahoo.com
Please put in the subject line of your e-mail: "RE: Christmas Kids Fund"
You will receive an e-mail after Christmas if you donate detailing exactly how your specific donation helped out, what it went to buy for what age child and in what location. If you would like to specify a certain portion of the United States where you want your donation to go please do so and we will do our best.
Let's make this happen together!
XOXO!
Memory
Memory the world needs many many more hearts like yours !!!
Layla
I understand escorts asking for help with unplanned expenses or accident/castatrophes but christmas happens every year.
This could be planned for ........
This is a great cause. PM me details.
-m
Lots of these girls make me feel poor. They drive better cars, live in better places and have better and more frequent vacations.
agree, even using the handle "memory" seems a bit too convenient and contrived. Sorry, but St Judes which treats kids with serious illnesses, makes alot more sense this time of year, and this seems like a variant of working the welfare system which many people have become very skillful at over the years
Somehow, I can't get all excited about donating money to women who make $200-$500 hr.
I think I'll donate to the Atlanta food bank instead. I'll feel better about myself after feeding people that would otherwise go hungry than buying gifts for children of mothers whose hourly wage is in the top 2% in the country.
I couldn't agree more. If they can't handle their money well enough to buy for their children, shame on them
But growing up my family was working class and there was a Xmas or two where we had to take a 2-3 less expensive gifts. If you are struggling don't bay a WII buy a couple of board games and spend the time with your kids. Not only is it quality time it is quite educational. Your kids will remember time with MOM and the boardgame and not hours spent in front of the TV.
Also and I mean no disrespect. But charging $300 an hour(TAX FREE!!!!!!!!!) one should take the appropriate measures to plan for emergencies.
True, even escorts can fall on hard times, but nearly all communities, large and small, have organizations that provide help to ALL who are in these financial straits, not just select individuals. Memory obviously has a special interest in this particular group of children, and that is certainly her privilege. For me, I prefer to direct my largess elsewhere, toward more basic needs, such as food, shelter, and basic clothing needed all year around. That's just my opinion, just as Memory has hers.
I have to also agree.
We all have to plan/budget Christmas for family members/loved ones, for some it is easier then others.
However it is the same process none the less. Income minus expenses = liquid assets (so I over simplified it a bit)
While my hourly billing rate is less then what a provider charges (as it should be). Every year I have to plan and budget for Christmas, monthly expenses, 401k, Charitable contributions (which I do make), etc.
Some providers have even posted messages saying instead of gifts to me, please donate to this charity...
I think the phrase is "your poor planning is not my emergency."
I would gladly pay for a financial adviser to come in and provide a one on one consultation to help a ATF provider with a budget if requested, to use another adage "give a man a fish vs teaching a man to fish".
If a provider falls on hard times then that is different.
Regardless local communities should be willing to provide help if needed.
Just my 2 cents.
Yes, I do have a special interest in the needs of provider's children. Probably because I am single, have children of my own and I recall times of being in need.
While it may seem that we are some of the highest paid people in all the world (some of you have that illusion) even though we make what we make hourly for ever one two hour appointment I may spend about 20 hours in preparation from nails to hair and make-up to shopping to travel. And lets not forget the countless hours spent advertising and talking to many of you. Adult entertainers are very hard workers.
I have 13 ladies on my list and let me explain some of their situations:
One lady has just begun escorting after a bad marriage that left her single, in serious debt and caring for four children alone. She has been an escort for three months now and is getting a nice reputation built. Her children want a Playstation2 and a game to share. Not much to ask you'd think but with four children and just starting out it is to much for her...so we are trying to help her kids smile on Christmas morning! This particular lady was embarrassed to ask to be on the list but we finally got her to agree to be on it.
One girl has a child that has just left for Iraq to fight for us and we are sending him something special. This lady was a hard working escort for many years but recently had a disabling accident leaving her unable to work for a few months. She has returned to work but has not built up enough clients to get her son Christmas.
One lady has children who live far away and she just had a family emergency making it impossible for her to bring her kids home for the Holiday. We are helping them return home for Christmas.
There is another woman who has been an escort for years but she has lung cancer with terrible medical bills right now even though she is working very hard. She has a 5 year old boy. Independent escorts do not have good medical insurance most of the time.
As you can see there are ladies in special great need. We can't share our personal burdens with clients as escorts all the time because it is just not very sexy and we have to maintain a reputation with you gents out there of being attractive. Who wants to see a provider that whines about problems all the time? We have our share of them.
While basic needs may be important to those who are down and out, many of the people in homeless shelters and the like are there due to personal choices they have made. These ladies are working hard yet due to one reason or another they are in need. I am not helping anyone who is not a very hard working REPUTABLE escort. I would personally rather help someone who is trying to help themselves. Children did not ask to be here and I feel they should have a good Christmas no matter what their financial status! All kids deserve to be happy on Christmas morning!
And yes, I have a soft spot in my heart for escort moms. Escorts are some of the most courageous, powerful, beautiful, daring women in all the world. It is not always easy to be a sexy symbol of erotic adventure then going home and cooking dinner for a houseful of children and changing diapers! Housewives don't even have to look as sexy as we do all the time and they get the credit cards and the big house. But that is a whole other can of worms that shouldn't be opened here...lol.
Anyway, thanks to those who have sent me e-mails and who are willing to help out. I am sending very specific details after Christmas of exactly where every bit of the fund went and how it helped. I am pouring my heart and energy into this project. Please help spread the word and let's get these children taken care of please? If you or anyone you know needs to be on the list please let me know!
Happy Holidays and Peace to you and yours!
Memory
Sorry to come across as harsh, but anyone who gets paid $300-$400 an hour has no business asking for hand outs.
I'm all for charity and helping out others in need such as the homeless, battered womens shelters, etc.. But those who's plight consists of a lack of ability to properly manage a six figure income is hardly a worthwhile charitable cause.
Sorry to come across as harsh back but OBVIOUSLY you are unable to read...this fund is not to help those who cannot manage a six figure income but those who are in need.
You know...I just opened my mail after my two day road trip and I am sitting here looking at this great, GREAT need...girls who are writing me speaking of the tragic things who have befell them this year from dead husbands to very serious illnesses and this kind of scrooge makes me sick! This one woman's daughter even told her Mommy to please get herself something nice because she knew they are struggling despite the mother trying to handle everything. I have spoken to these ladies in person, I am NOT taking hand outs for rich women...my god!
There are two kinds of gentlemen.
Men like you who sit behind a box insulting the efforts of ladies. And then the ones who are lovers of women...those who truly appreciate the power and beauty and all a lady can become on her very own. Those kind of guys are supportive, trusting and I go all out to express my gratitude in return. These ladies deserve to have help for their kids, not insults from you...get a life! If your busy helping with worthwhile charitable causes than I doubt you'd have time to be sending out insults on a computer...sad.
Sorry to sound harsh! I hope you find peace and happiness through the Holidays...I truly do.
Love,
Memory
P.S. I am needing at this time to close any openings to the list as we have to get gifts in the mail so any ladies who are in need that read this please let me know if your situation has not improved. In any emergency case I can send you referrals to local charities in your town or see if any of the left over fund can help so please feel free to contact me as needed. Still time to donate! If cash is not an option for you than you can Ebay a gift and have it shipped!
