Foreroticreview's post about time slipping away got me thinking. Whose responsibility is it to keep track of time? I say it is the provider's responsibility, and if time runs over it's because she is ok with it, and unless she mentions further compensation when the agreed time runs out, extra money is not necessary. This has happened to me many times, and I always give a nice tip when it does. But if her hourly rate is 300, and she stays an extra 2 hrs, I don't think she's entitled to an extra 600, unless she mentions it when the first hr passes by. She is ultimately responsible for how she runs her business, and if she thinks it's a good idea to stick around because she has the time, and she wants to show me such a good time that I will keep coming back, that's up to her. I am not talking about a scenario where she has dropped a subtle hint or two that time is up, but the guy ignores it. I am talking about a date where time runs over but she appears to be totally into the session, the sex, the chat, ect, and she gives no indication that she'd rather leave than continue. What do you all say?
I read some guys saying that their 1 or 2 hour sessions turned into all evening or all night and I think to myself.... what?!? What $%^& lucky guys! What I wouldn't give....
I can see 15 minutes, maybe an hour over as happening with some small frequency but man. I have to wonder if some of these guys are being truthful in the first place.
i have a lady i see that always gives me an extra half hour w/o ever saying "boo." i guess she just likes being with me, or else wants to make sure i keep coming back.
it's happened with a few ladies i have seen. conversely, i have been with some ladies that let me know in no uncertain terms that time is up, it's time to go.
whatev, you win some, you lose some, it all balances out in the end (if that's where you like to put it)
It can happen if the moment and the chemistry is right !!! Hence the term YMMV...Then there are the serious who set an alarm 15 minutes before times up....Crazy Hobby. Spending a full day or night with a provider for 1-2 hour donation has to be considered one of the finer things in Life....Happy Hunting !!!
You are visiting her place , never over stay your welcome , always get up to leave when the clock has almost expired . If she asks you to stay , extra time is on her dime . A tip is not out of line .
When doing out call she is visiting you . Different rules . You won't need your watch . She leaves when she feels like leaving . If she overstays her welcome, a tip is not advised .
Posted By: simontheman
Foreroticreview's post about time slipping away got me thinking. Whose responsibility is it to keep track of time? I say it is the provider's responsibility, and if time runs over it's because she is ok with it, and unless she mentions further compensation when the agreed time runs out, extra money is not necessary. This has happened to me many times, and I always give a nice tip when it does. But if her hourly rate is 300, and she stays an extra 2 hrs, I don't think she's entitled to an extra 600, unless she mentions it when the first hr passes by. She is ultimately responsible for how she runs her business, and if she thinks it's a good idea to stick around because she has the time, and she wants to show me such a good time that I will keep coming back, that's up to her. I am not talking about a scenario where she has dropped a subtle hint or two that time is up, but the guy ignores it. I am talking about a date where runs over but she appears to be totally into session, the sex, the chat, ect, and she gives no indication that she'd rather leave than continue. What do you all say?
at some point after that, I think you also have a responsibility to at least ask "how much time do we have left" or "we may be past my time, is that OK", then its her responsibility to tell you if she expects payment. Many quality providers extend 15-20 minutes for good regulars, but at 2 hours your taking advantage of her without some acknowledgement form her that its OK.
I always like it when a clock is in view range as it allows me to monitor time too, as I usually have a limited window before I have to be back to my regular routine without a large absence posing a risk if inquiries. But for providers, giving some extra time is a sure bet to build loyalty - one of my past ATFs, now retired, used to always give me 20-30 minutes extra, without charge, and she got a lot more visits because of that attitude.
Let's face it, time is money and some of these girls have to get ready for the next appointment. Some providers don't want to be rude, rush you out, or be called a "clock watcher" but if you booked a certain time, you need to be respectful and be ready to leave at that time.
I don't structure my business by the hour. I don't see more than one guy in a day and often am able to spend extra time with him. But, I also charge more than average and so you are paying for the extra time one way or another.
But, if you need or want more time with a gal, just ask her and compensate her appropriately. Don't just expect she will kick you out the door when your time is up. She may be biting her tongue hoping you will leave or start getting dressed and ready to leave without having to say anything to you.
I agree that for incall she expects you to be mindful of the clock. Outcall, she is free to leave when she wants, and if she wants to stay, that's totally up to her, and it has nothing to do with me 'respecting her time'. Like Ashley said, she stays if she's having fun, and that's what I assume. So I don't stop the fun to ask if she wants to leave. She knows she can leave, but she chooses to stay. I am OK with that.
I'll admit I tend to watch the clock. It can be a bad habbit, and I have been told that. One girl was down right insulted. As I agree it should be her responsibility to keep track of time. I don't want to overstay my welcome. I was told to stop watching the clock because it interferes with the fucking. That it is not my responsibility. Basically she said shut up, stay hard, and have a good time! That I will know when it's time to go.
I'm usually harder than trig. One of those pills would probably get me on a DNS list. I won't even go for the third pop. Because I basically can't cum unless I rail her. I'm afraid of those pills. I would be a very difficult client on that shit.
Nothing says softee like a two minute warning though. And yes I have been told to get my dick over here, and get hard now! That I'm not going anywhere. When a woman commands my dick. My dick listens!
We are not suppose to be clock watchers and on outcalls, some guys manage to not have a clock around (hm).
If she stays (hr, 2hrs) extra, no I don't feel a guy should continue to pay her hourly rate because for us non clock watchers, we know if we stayed THAT long. Might not know if it was a little over (Hey we are suppose to get into the moment anyways). Thinking a guy has to pay that extra 2 hrs was not agreed upon is wrong. Should you leave a tip? If you want to, just keep in mind that she remembers what you do and don't do. Why you wouldn't at least tip for some extra service as that is beyond me. A guy can end the time anytime he wants... unless he is tied up and gagged haha.
I think it needs mentioning if she just lost track of time, or did the guy purposely not finish at all and she was still working at it because she didn't want to ask if he wanted to extend and she didn't want to leave without making sure you enjoyed yourself. Something to ponder. Ever so often gals come across that one asshat who does everything to not finish in the agreed time. How she handles that is up to her. In the same respect, there are times when a guy has problems and I do stay longer. Customer service and being understanding.
I think that it is a good idea for a guy to mention the time. Does he have to? No, but it is nice. I still think it is the gal's responsibility overall.
Two grown adults can each be mindful of the time. It is not really anyone's sole responsibility. I guess whoever has to be somewhere after, would be more cognitive of the time, but it really does not matter.
....the guy had no clocks around or had them turned around or OFF. Sometimes I make alarms on my phone lol (but sometimes I don't). Still think it should be more on him since we're not supposed to be clock-watchers and all.
I don't pay attention when a reviewer says a girl was a clock watcher. To me it doesn't mean much. As stated, I usually do outcall. Nine times out of ten, girls I have seen as outcall who 'watch the clock', are girls I didn't connect with anyway, and I am pretty much waiting for her to leave.
Ok....I tried biting my tongue but it's not working.....1st there is no such thing as a clock watcher !!...Again more is being made of something than it is.....Schedule appt, agree on price see provider !!! That's it !!! Simple as could be.....If we are jackasses enough to not get the hint when it's time to leave and she hints it is ( We are all Grown -ups , I hope so we should be able to pick up the clues ) EXPECT you are going to have to Compensate her !!! It's a simple transaction !!! If there is no hint made and you are both going at it with no mention or hints for it to end.......then it is HER responsibility to NOT expect anything !!!....Really quite simple.......I'm sure someone will dissent but more get's made of things than really is necessary.....It's a simple Hobby ....Really it is !!!!! Remember...Choose Provider, Make Deal Pay Agreed upon Fee and F'ck till it's time to go !!!....just my opinion...
Honestly, I am not a big clock watcher... I try to keep track of time, although sometimes time does escape and I hope it does not off set the pleasure of the person I am with at the time.
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...couldn't resist. Lol.